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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/2/2009 4:35:33 PM
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slushie
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i'm sre dere r othr ppl dat feel dis wayy. Seriously though, there are a lot of reasons why it may seem that love is difficult to find. Maybe God's saying that you're just not ready yet and it's not the right time. Or you're too young to really be able to settle down.
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/2/2009 4:38:24 PM
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ta_mosquito
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Moving from She Says to Women Only. (She Says is where men ask questions of women.)
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/2/2009 10:58:48 PM
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I know you all mean well, but to offer advice as to how a member should write out their message is a Terms of Service 9 violation, offering unsolicited advice. Please just stick to the question in the OP. Thank you. Sincerely Kath Volunteer Assistant Admin Please do not comment on this action in the community or send me a PM about it. If you have questions, comments or concerns please email Fritz at community@salemwebnetwork.com allowing time for a reply. Thank you.
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/3/2009 1:40:37 AM
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OneOfHisJewels
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Dreamgirl, I know this may sound cliche, and I don't want it to, but usually when you stop worrying is when it happens. I'm 37, and finally in a lovely relationship, but it honestly DID happen when I had given up. And I had had years of worrying about it, not worrying about it, trying to be content w/being single, etc...then a lot of events happened in my life where I was really tied up with things and too busy to think about that, or to even think about trying to be content with being single, and that's when it happened. And once it does happen, it's scarier then you think. If you put your trust in God and live your life to its fullest, God will take care of the rest...
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/3/2009 9:03:47 AM
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IwillseekHim
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You'd be wise to take to heart what OneOfHisJewels is saying to you. This is a voice of experience giving you some excellent advice. I, too, found when I quit desperately looking and started letting God work, He worked it out for the good. I have been married almost twenty years now. I wish you well.
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/3/2009 11:51:07 AM
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slushie
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Also, be careful not to think or believe that finding a mate is under your control. It is under God's control. I knew a man who believed that finding a mate was something he could control, so he tried to control it instead of letting God be in control. Even I find myself thinking that way sometimes. Sometimes we have to just wait on the Lord and let things run their normal course. Meet guys, be friendly with them, and build friendships instead of looking exclusively for a relationship.
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RE: Ever feel this way? - 7/6/2009 3:50:40 PM
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cosmiceyes
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you're 100% right. quote:
ORIGINAL: slushie Also, be careful not to think or believe that finding a mate is under your control. It is under God's control. I knew a man who believed that finding a mate was something he could control, so he tried to control it instead of letting God be in control. Even I find myself thinking that way sometimes. Sometimes we have to just wait on the Lord and let things run their normal course. Meet guys, be friendly with them, and build friendships instead of looking exclusively for a relationship.
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