Posts: 11173
Joined: 3/31/2005
From: from MN, now in Ontario :D
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Welcome to the forums!
Things seem really slow today (everyone's probably at picnics and such), so I don't now how many answers you'll get right off the bat.
We cannot answer your question about whether you should/can divorce him; all divorce topics are closed and redirected to the one-stop divorce thread, located HERE, and in there you cannot discuss your own divorce (CLICK HERE to find out why).
I suggest you and he get yourselves into counseling. If he won't go, go yourself.