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I'm Numb - 10/30/2009 12:09:02 PM
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whoiskenneth
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Hi, I was really into this girl for about a year right now. I really do think that she is sent by God for me and the fact we get to know each other was destined by God. But the problem is she's been avoiding me and runaway from me always, I tried so hard to get over and forget about her but I can't. I'm asking God to remove her from my life if it's not His purpose but it bugs me over and over. I'm numb... Someone pls give me some advice, I got no one to talk to.
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RE: I'm Numb - 10/30/2009 12:42:29 PM
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Grace-N-Mercy
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Welcome to the forums, whoiskenneth.
Have you had a relationship with this girl? Or is this someone you are just acquaintances with?
Sometimes, removing someone from our lives won't make the pain go away, and won't make us get over the pain any quicker. Yes, it may remove the reminders, but what we need is for us to allow God to do some "housecleaning" in our own hearts... to show us of areas we may need growth and strengthening in.
How is it you know she was sent by God? Yes, it's true that God places people into our lives, but it's up to each of us whether that relationship will flourish or flounder. A relationship takes work on both parts.
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RE: I'm Numb - 10/30/2009 1:00:42 PM
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whoiskenneth
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Really appreciate for the reply. I wont say we had been into a relationship but we do get along very well before this.
I'm hearing confirmation when I pray or maybe its because I want her so much that I can't take no for answer?
P.S : I agree with the "housecleaning". This bad experience actually made me turn back to God ( I was one of the youth leader and worship leader before this but smtg happen and I runaway from God ).
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RE: I'm Numb - 11/3/2009 2:37:55 AM
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captaindiabetes
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i can only imagine the hurt you're experiencing now! the only advice i can give you is to pray and pray and pray and wait for God to give you a sign. You can't always trust what you think, see, and feel, but you can always trust God.
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For what is seen is temporary, but what is not seen is eternal.
2 Corinthians 4:18
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