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how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 11:26:04 AM   
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Guys, I was at Kohl's last night. this is a scary thought man. tight pants and jeans are coming back! Not only is it uncomfortable, I think it looks totally gay! DOn't you agree? and God forbid it if Magnum PI shorts become envogue again! I was out and about one day and i saw a bunch of high school kids at lunch. A lot of the boys were dressing "Emo". A lot of the boys today act girly. sure you can tell they are guys, but there mannerisms are somewhat feminine. and I'm not talking guys that are necessarily gay. brother, I've even noticed straight guys acting that way too! I guess it's called Metro. A sister in Christ whom I'm friends with even told me that a lot of the young women today date "femmie" men. brothers I'm not trippin that bad. but hey, it's a trip man! dont' you agree? personally, i wouldn't wear tight pants if I was paid to do so.
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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 12:07:01 PM   
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i would wear tight pants if i was paid to do so.

aside from that, yes i agree totally.

its a trend and like 99% of trends its stupid. period. just for being a trend alone its stupid much less how gay and whiney it is

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 2:44:08 PM   
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I think the metro thing is pretty weird. Fortunately it's not in my age group.

It's for attention and to make a statement. Most of us went through a phase like that. My generation was bell bottoms, tight pants, deep v neck shirts, tie dye stuff. We sometimes even sang along to Michael Jackson songs. . Scary but true. And probably a bunch of other weird stuff that we'd rather forget.

It'll pass. I hope.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 3:15:20 PM   
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i would beat up emos ... but im afraid they may enjoy that

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 6:38:30 PM   
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God forbid it if Magnum PI shorts become envogue again!


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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 7:53:58 PM   
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How should men dress and act?

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/20/2008 11:20:35 PM   
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I like Kohls, my personal favorite place to get mens dress cloths. I wait until they have a sale after Christmas with slacks at $12-15, shirts at $8-18, and replace my whole wardrobe. For casual wear, it's still Walmart for jeans. I don't believe in nor buy designer jeans. I put on jeans for burning a brush pile with my BIL, shooting guns, trail riding, etc.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/21/2008 12:16:11 AM   
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Personally I think the whole macho train of thought is a man just being a jerk. Personally I dislike tight fitting clothes because I think that they're uncomfortable. I'm not with the whole metro thing either mind you, but I don't begrudge someone else that if that's their choice. Its not about something being "gay" or not (and personally I find that to be a tad uncalled for). Its about the actual day to day choices a man makes and his overall attitude that matter. Not how he dresses.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/21/2008 5:39:01 AM   
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Well, I guess I fit into the "Metro" look. How do I act? I've never stepped outside my body to see that .

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/21/2008 5:39:37 AM   
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Not how he dresses.


so if i wore a short skirt and a tight pink shirt you wouldnt think its gay?

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/21/2008 5:44:34 AM   
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For the sake of mine and the rest of civilizations vision, don't.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/24/2008 12:16:36 AM   
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How should men dress and act?

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Uh, how do you dress nekkid? Isn't that an oxymoron?
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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/24/2008 8:27:32 PM   
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Well, yes it is.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/25/2008 11:57:03 PM   
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A lot of the boys were dressing "Emo".



Emo - Emotionally disturbed teens whom sit in corners and cut themselves. They must be dressing in straight jackets.
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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/26/2008 6:41:16 AM   
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Sounds uncomfortable.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/26/2008 3:07:47 PM   
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quote:

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A lot of the boys were dressing "Emo".



Emo - Emotionally disturbed teens whom sit in corners and cut themselves. They must be dressing in straight jackets.


I was an "emo" "back in the day"....didn't "cut" myself (those are FAR and FEW between)....but, certainly didn't "fit in", nor wanted to....I was "Left of Center" (not politically, but in life in general)...still am in some ways.

Can't stand Kohl's....a whole bunch of the same "blahness" year after year (amazing that they can have a $50 pair of pants....and, the MINUTE they are put out on the shelf, they are IMMEDIATELY "50% OFF"!!!!)..it's just "psychological warfare" retailing...

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I put on jeans for burning a brush pile with my BIL, shooting guns, trail riding, etc.


And, that's exactly why there is such a variety of clothes out there....I don't do ANY of that....I own 1, maybe 2, pairs of jeans...and they RARELY get worn....heck...i don't even mow my own yard, much less burn brush....(of course, then, there's men like my father in law, who think "real" men should do all that....and more....)...sorry...not for me....it drives him UP THE WALL when he knows there's a contractor/service over at the house to do something that HE would do himself if it were HIS house......

different strokes for different folks....

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/26/2008 4:31:45 PM   
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Huh, I guess I haven't really been looking too hard at how other men dress, have no interest in what they wear, and don't seem to have the same strong interest in men's fashion.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/26/2008 10:43:14 PM   
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[/quote]
I was an "emo" "back in the day"....didn't "cut" myself (those are FAR and FEW between)....but, certainly didn't "fit in", nor wanted to....I was "Left of Center" (not politically, but in life in general)...still am in some ways.[/quote]

I've given up my leather ties, **** kicking motorcycle boots, camoflage bandanas worn around the wrists, my pierced ear (left only), my mullet, t-shirts made more comfotable with the help of scissors, 89X radio station (Windsor/Detroit), black wardrobe, and 2 toned hair. I remember the Red Hot Chili Peppers playing Rick's American Cafe in East Lansing (Michigan State). Yah, I've left my Punk/Emo days behind.

Before that, in high school, I had my Calvin Klein, Jordache, Izod, Nike, Benetton, Rugby shirt, penny loafer preppie days.

While Kohl's may be the banality of clothing, typically the younger will abandon the fashion of their clique, and go a little mainstream. Amazing how a steady paycheck will chnage your wardrobe.
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RE: how should men dress and act? - 2/26/2008 11:46:07 PM   
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Amazing how a steady paycheck will chnage your wardrobe.


I guess that's what was different for me. I grew playing in woods, hunting for meat, growing hay, and had run a tractor well before I was of age for a drivers license. Heck, I turned enough soil for the local deputies at 13 that when they saw me driving up to Gold Kist, they just waved and let me be.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/1/2008 10:49:53 AM   
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I think today's style can be called cartoon:

I teach in a middle school and what I see is that clothes are either way too big or way too small. Shorts are real baggy and hang below the knee The crotch of the pants would be down around the knees. Shirts are very large. And at the other extreme is the boys wearing girl's pants.

Does any one remember plaid bell-bottoms with 2 inch cuffs and wedgee shoes?

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/1/2008 7:33:23 PM   
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NO MORE GIRL JEANS!!!!!

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/1/2008 7:44:07 PM   
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NO MORE GIRL JEANS!!!!!



Wouldn't that really be uncomfortable anyway? My guess (not being in the habit of wearing girls jeans...) is that they wouldn't be cut with room for um... er... the little guy downstairs. Wouldn't he be pretty squished?

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/1/2008 8:06:53 PM   
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you'd think so.

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/1/2008 8:36:24 PM   
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I guess, I don't understand your position. First, let me say, I think, the reason why we have a lot of "metro" sexuals amongst our fellow me, is becuase 1, it's a fad, (a deceptive lie) but 2, cause "manhood" isn't popular, or necessarily strived for. The image of masculinity is put down so much in our culture, that well, a young, naive, and unchristian boy, might just not gravitate towards that natural behavior of a man.

But, I must discuss something far more important, and aside from the topic. I need to admonish you my fellow Christians. Not becuase I'm the greatest among you, for I am so not. BUT,
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I think it looks totally gay! DOn't you agree?
This qoute, or this use from a Christian, can be offensive. Now listen to me, I do not condone homosexuality at all. BUT, when the homosexuals I've ministered to has told me they feel hated from Christians, I can understand where they get that. I don't agree that they are, but, as Christians, we must watch everything we say. We are ambassadors, and we need only to say what He wills for us to. I don't think He would will for us to use that term as slang. WE NEED TO PRAY THEY WOULD REALIZE WHATS IN OUR HEARTS, but not automatically expect them to. We are different, atleast at this point. We've been made known to the Good News, and the Holy Spirits discernment. We can understand Spiritual things spiritually. They don't. They don't know that we do care about them, but that's why we don't like the actions they participate in. They don't get it. They only understand what they see. So, what are we showing?

I say this in love my brothers!

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RE: how should men dress and act? - 3/2/2008 7:15:20 PM   
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I'm a little bit older than some of the guys. I'm in my mid 50's. I cannot stand the slop and the unkept look that the younger generation wears today. Wheather it's the baggy jean pants or the extra long sloppy T-shirts with baseball hats on backwards, I thnk it's discusting.

In our day when we took a girl out to a dance, or just to a movie and a burger afterwards, on a Friday, or Saturday Night, we dressed up in the best dress clothes we had. We spit shined our shoes, These were dress shoes not sneakers, and we slicked our hair back with greasy kids stuff, and wore our black leather coats everywhere. We would put on some good smelling after shave and we looked like a million bucks. (Like John Travolta in the Original Gease Movie). The girls always dressed up as well. They wanted to look good for us guys, and us guys wanted to look good for the girls.

My son is 24 and still single. He goes out on a Friday night wearing his best slopy jeans, with the most tears and wholes in them, and tennis shoes, and his favorite slopy T-shirt which is always hanging out. I guess slop is in now days. One concelation, my son likes to wear my old black leather coat with the rest of his slop outfit. There's hope for him yet!

What a difference between generations!

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