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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 3:36:00 PM   
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I spend about $80 every two weeks for everything. Some months are better some months are worse but that is what I average.

How do you do that? Any tips girl, that is awesome!


I don't know if I have any tips, I think my main thing is I am super lucky that I have a hubby who doesn't mind if we eat the same thing three days in a row. We eat a lot of casseroles and soups, I make a big pot of whatever we are having and we eat it until it is gone. Dh eats porridge for breakfast in the morning and we don't get a lot of 'treat' foods.

There was a period of about 8 or 9 months (we have only been married for two years so that is a long time for us) that $160 a month was all we had for food/household stuff. It is amazing what you can live without when you *have* to. Honestly I am glad it was tight like that because it forced me to get really creative as far as meals and household stuff goes. We don't use paper towel, I cut up an old flannel sheet and I just keep a box of rags in the kitchen where we had paper towel and I wash them with the towels. Now that my husband has a way better job and is bringing in way more money we can put a lot of it into savings and paying off student loans.

We use a lot of home made cleaners as well so those aren't busting my budget, it's amazing what you can do with some borax, baking powder, salt, and vinegar!


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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:17:49 PM   
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Christina, the foods in that picture for the US is appalling. No wonder we have such a high obesity rate!


Yeah, that's pretty gross. We don't even eat that much fast food in 6 months. Did you see all the Coke the Mexican family drinks in a week. And, all the wine and beer (I think) the German family drinks.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:21:52 PM   
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I was shocked at all the prepackaged food I saw in those pictures, but the USA was the worst of all! Grapes were the only frest fruit or veggie I saw! At least most of the other countries had more fresh foods and grains.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:25:06 PM   
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I was shocked at all the prepackaged food I saw in those pictures, but the USA was the worst of all! Grapes were the only frest fruit or veggie I saw! At least most of the other countries had more fresh foods and grains.

Yeah, I hope that e-mail doesn't get around the world. I wouldn't want other people in other countries thinking all Americans eat like that.

It was pretty sad to see the amount of food the family in Chad eats. It looks like rice, beans, split peas maybe? And, just a little bit of produce.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:26:43 PM   
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We don't use paper towel, I cut up an old flannel sheet and I just keep a box of rags in the kitchen where we had paper towel and I wash them with the towels.


I mentioned doing this once and my husband was appalled. "But paper towels are so convenient! And disposable!"
That's the way he is with a lot of my frugal ideas, so a lot of times I don't bother. lol. And-gasp!- no way can we eat the same thing two meals in a row. He's funny sometimes, but I love 'im!
Another funny thing: If I try to save money by not buying snack food/chips/ice cream/whatever--he goes to the store and buys those things himself!!!

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:29:36 PM   
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I have a rather picky hubby too sometimes, but I love him despite it. He has gotten a lot better about eating leftovers and I think it was all in his head anyway.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:34:27 PM   
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It was pretty sad to see the amount of food the family in Chad eats. It looks like rice, beans, split peas maybe? And, just a little bit of produce.

I wondered if there wasn't some supplimentation to that, like if they owned goats or such. It could be that they don't, but I did wonder.

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And-gasp!- no way can we eat the same thing two meals in a row.

I've gotten to where I freeze stuff a lot to prevent getting tired of eating the same food. Lots of stuff reheats well after being frozen. Just imagine: you could cook one week and then have the next week off eating healthy leftovers.

I've also learned to "reinvent" leftovers so they are different enough. Doinkdom introduced me to her Chili Casserole for Chili leftovers and I make stuffed bell peppers with spaghetti and rice leftovers. You can make asian style lettuce wraps, mexican food, salads, and greek flatbread sandwiches out of chicken.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:34:34 PM   
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I try to not go over $75/week for everything, but sometimes I do. It's really getting hard the way prices are rising. My pantry stock is severely dwindled down too lately as I've been trying to stay on budget.

I do have a Kroger, and am unimpressed with them overall. My only other option is several fancy health food markets (like Whole Paycheck) or Wal-Mart. I've looked at several websites about shopping at Kroger, and the deals posted have never once coincided with what's on sale at my Kroger. Also, my Kroger policy will not allow you to use coupons to get items for free, has a lot of restrictions on internet coupons, and basically treats like you are handing them Monopoly money when you use coupons.

I spend at least $12-15/week on milk (soy for DH & Reagan), and another $25ish on fruits & veggies. Once you add in diapers for two, I think I do pretty well on our budget.

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I don't know if I have any tips, I think my main thing is I am super lucky that I have a hubby who doesn't mind if we eat the same thing three days in a row. We eat a lot of casseroles and soups, I make a big pot of whatever we are having and we eat it until it is gone.


That really does help. It's like pulling teeth to get my husband to eat leftovers or soup. I try to never have more than two meals per week be leftovers. He also gets regular cooked meals at lunch, not sandwiches.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:35:33 PM   
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Christina, the foods in that picture for the US is appalling. No wonder we have such a high obesity rate!


Yeah, that's pretty gross. We don't even eat that much fast food in 6 months. Did you see all the Coke the Mexican family drinks in a week. And, all the wine and beer (I think) the German family drinks.


Wine and Beer really aren't that horrible for you, and Mexican soda is actually what I prefer since it has Cane Sugar and not HFCS. Those countries are also alot more active then we are... It just appalls me how inactive the US is considering how often the majority of us over-eat.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 4:37:08 PM   
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I've also learned to "reinvent" leftovers so they are different enough. Doinkdom introduced me to her Chili Casserole for Chili leftovers and I make stuffed bell peppers with spaghetti and rice leftovers. You can make asian style lettuce wraps, mexican food, salads, and greek flatbread sandwiches out of chicken.


That is what I do with ours, or I just freeze them and we eat them later on.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 5:36:27 PM   
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Also, my Kroger policy will not allow you to use coupons to get items for free, has a lot of restrictions on internet coupons, and basically treats like you are handing them Monopoly money when you use coupons.


Yeah, our Dillon's is like that too. Also, they only double coupons up to 50 cents. (in other words, the only coupons you can double are 25 cent coupons.) Oh boy! Why bother?

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 5:40:39 PM   
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We have a lunch truck at work that has Mexico made Coca Cola. Oh my gosh. REAL CANE SUGAR. YUM. it's a super awesome treat and sooo delicious.

I could live on wine and beer if I were German. And otehr yummy German foods would be fun to live on.

I am starting to think of ways to cut our grocery bill. Right now we don't have a budget, it's just us two and two paychecks so we don't have to. BUT with baby coming that takes a paycheck away so there will be a need to prioritize spending.

hmm. Lots to think about.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 5:43:20 PM   
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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 6:13:30 PM   
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WOW! Either we must spend up big here in Australia or you guys have groceries dirt cheap over there. My weekly shopping with nappies, cleaning products etc etc is about $250 (au) so about $236 US. That is a WEEK. Some of you are spending that about a month!!

Christina-the images we get over here and what we see on TV I would assume the world does think that Americans eat badly.

Dog seems to be fine this morning, thank you girls.

Sandy-praying for you whenever I remember (usually when I see the news and things on the war).

We still don't have a decision on the house, real estate agent is coming at midday to give an appraisal of the home to either rent it out or sell, it looks like our best option is to sell it and build, it seems a waste to do this place up when its going to be around the same price for a brand new home.
I told hubby we should get some income protection insurance but he is furious, he said if something happened I would just have to go back to work and he would look after the kids. I said "what if you are in a wheelchair?" "watching kids is easy" was his reply I also told him the finance guy who used to sell life insurance said that even if we did get IPI that they wouldn't pay him out if he injured himself drag racing. The guy said "people that do things like that when their income is depended upon are either stupid or selfish". I told him I wish hubby could hear that!!

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 6:52:01 PM   
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Yesterday Paul said to me "Sweetheart, you know I love you. And I am so proud of you for the couponing and deals you get."
I stared at him and said "Go on" because he had stopped talking but I KNEW he was leading up to something.
"Well babe... we're just gonna have to come up with some rules about how much you can talk to me about the coupons."


LOL! Brian has said almost the exact same thing to me. I told him if he stops talking to me about cars and their mechanical parts, I'll stop talking about my shopping deals.

We spend $125-150/week, including diapers, cleaning products, paper products, bathroom products, the random pair of shoes or package of socks, and usually birthday presents for our whole family. That also includes what we get on WIC. I get it all at Walmart and do use competitor's sales for at least half of my purchases, stocking up when I am able. Today I got as many diapers as I had coupons and won't have to buy any for a while...hopefully until there is another great sale. Pampers or Huggies jumbos were $7.50, and I had a bunch of $1.50 or $2 coupons. We could spend less if I bought less healthy food, but I'm not willing to sacrifice that for my family and feed them junk.

As for Americans eating junk...believe me, many of them do. Having worked at Walmart, I have checked out people who had $800 in food stamps at the beginning of the month and spent half of that on processed JUNK in the first day of the month. Disgusting.


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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 7:18:36 PM   
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[As for Americans eating junk...believe me, many of them do. Having worked at Walmart, I have checked out people who had $800 in food stamps at the beginning of the month and spent half of that on processed JUNK in the first day of the month. Disgusting.

$800 a month in food stamps!? We get $200 a month for 4 of us. We used to get $280, but Robert got a 50 cent raise. How can people even spend 800 on food in a month? Even if we bought everything we want like steak and shrimp and Tullys coffee and fancy OJ and pomegranite juice, I don't thik we could spend that much.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 7:27:15 PM   
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At the store my mom works at they see food stamps used on the most expensive meats and seafoods all the time.

One lady used her whole months up on chitlins or gizards.. something in a bucket that was fried up and served all the time in the south. She lives in Mississippi. I couldn't believe they sold this in BUCKETS. bleh. I told her I was very disappointed in her store for stocking such an item

They later found out the woman was busted for reselling the product out of her home!!!!

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 7:35:40 PM   
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[As for Americans eating junk...believe me, many of them do. Having worked at Walmart, I have checked out people who had $800 in food stamps at the beginning of the month and spent half of that on processed JUNK in the first day of the month. Disgusting.

$800 a month in food stamps!? We get $200 a month for 4 of us. We used to get $280, but Robert got a 50 cent raise. How can people even spend 800 on food in a month? Even if we bought everything we want like steak and shrimp and Tullys coffee and fancy OJ and pomegranite juice, I don't thik we could spend that much.

we spend about 800 a month on food here. But I wonder if that's because our food prices are higher than they are in the states or maybe we are eating differently here?
I still can't get over how cheap your food is! Although they did say on the news the other day that the average shopping trolley of food in Australia has gone up about $50 (i think it could be more) in the last year, and I sure know it! I notice every week one item I buy would have gone up. I think our drought has alot to do with it though, the drought affects every aspect of food life. So from the meat, dairy, fruit and veg, even the cereals and breads.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 7:42:09 PM   
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I remember in Germany it was much more expensive to shop "on the economy" then on base. Everything was more expensive off the base, but I was never sure if maybe the military subsidized their food and clothing?

One thing was for sure, I lived there 18-20 years ago, and there weren't a lot of supersized stores or malls. When I returned to the US, the size and variety of US malls and megastores was overwhelming.

I was an avid reader, I remember checking the base bookstore all the time for the newest Nancy Drew to come out, then I'd have it finished before I got home. But when we returned to the states, we hit a humongous (to me) Barnes & Nobles. My dad gave us each $50 to spend on books. I thought I'd died and gone to heaven.
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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 7:55:47 PM   
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We spend $600-650 on groceries per month, including paper products and cleaning supplies. Of course, we also have a teenage boy and a preteen girl. We have become very diet conscious over the past few years (food sensitivities and certain dietary choices), so that increased our food budget. We used to be able to do with a lot less.

Nicole, the US government has subsidized certain parts of our agriculture so that our food prices do not increase very much; however, there are a few factors that have put some irresistable pressures on our food prices, so they are increasing.
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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 8:02:07 PM   
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High Quality food in the USA is expensive. I've been studying nutrition and the quality of our food has gone down over the years which causes it to be cheaper. Things like the amount of HFCS affects both the nutritional value of foods and the price. With so many Americans buying lower quality boxed and bottled goods as a mainstay of their diet, it's no wonder food in America is as inexpensive as it is. I know you ladies feed your families a healthy diet, but when I look at the carts of the people in the grocery line next to me, it is very rare for me to see a healthy diet rolling down the conveyer belt.

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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 8:30:58 PM   
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input please my friends. I posted the devotional I wrote for pwoc tomorrow on my blog.
Would you go read it and tell me what you think
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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 8:35:03 PM   
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Sandy, that was FANTASTIC!!! The ladies who are going to hear that are lucky to have you.

I hope you don't mind, I printed it out and put it in my home binder, it is something I have been thinking about a lot lately. Thank you!


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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 8:40:42 PM   
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thanks Chelsea. It was a tough one...'cause God is really stretching me right now...and boy does it hurt!
Thanks =)
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RE: SAHM support/encouragement - 5/7/2008 8:44:35 PM