In all seriousness, having mental disorders and chemical imbalances is no joy ride. Maybe the hardest thing in my life that I have had to deal with.
You guys can continue on having your fun, but I am just shooting this out as a precursor to not let it get carried to far. Don't be insensitive to the reality of those who suffer. Not full insanity, but maybe are just not quite mentally healthy.
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"My feeling is that sanity is actually a pretence, a way we learn to behave. We keep this pretence up because we don't want to be rejected by other people-and being classified insane is to be shut out of the group in a very complete way.
I don't think sanity is a pretense but I think that most people think (their own) behavior is a pretense. We think that other people are well-behaved, according to society's dictates, because that's how they are and experience difficulty (to a greater or lesser degree) being well-behaved ourselves. Which makes us worry that we're 'worse than' everyone else and will be ostracized because of it.
And, as stellaluna said, many people brag about their non-conformance to good behavior as an attempt to achieve "specialness".
For the record, I prefer to think of myself as "interestingly quirky".
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Insanity...
walking into a baptist church at noon dressed like a donut.
Sanity...
accepting Jesus as Lord
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I have been told that I am very conservative for an artist. Does that make me quirky? I do think that many of us are afraid that people will find out about the "real person inside" and then not like us anymore.
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I do think that many of us are afraid that people will find out about the "real person inside" and then not like us anymore.
I very much agree with this.
I think we try to please those around us to the point of sometimes we become chameleons just to fit in.
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