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saraha98 -> RE: KINDRED SPIRITS - Encourage One Another (4/22/2008 11:58:44 AM)
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Yesterday we went to see my mother who is 82 and in the hospital because of a fall she had nearly three weeks ago. We traveled for three hours; My husband, myself, my son, my two daughters and my oldest daughters fiance. My mother did not break any bones from her fall, but she has an infection in her colon, a urinary tract infection, cdiff(a hospital acquired infection) and dementia. When we arrived she was calling for my younger sister, and thought she was at home. As we spent time with her she became more aware and we were able to have a nice visit with her. It was so hard to leave her as she wanted to get out of the bed and sit in the chair. I had asked the nurses if they could move her to the chair, but they said that they were changing shifts and it would be up to the incoming shift to make that decision. Well, it was late and since we had such a long drive back and some of us had to work the next day, when we left, she was still lying in the bed. Also because of the infection we could not kisss her good-bye, but had to blow her kisses. The whole visit just made me appreciate the gift of life. My mother was married at 16, had five children, was married for nearly 60 years when my father passed away and as I saw her laying in that hospital bed, so helpless yesterday I realized how fast our life on this earth is over. My older sister has given up! She used to be in charge of my mothers care, but is in such a deep depression that she hasn't even been over to see my mother since she was admitted to the hospital. My younger sister is trying to take over to make arrangement for my mother to go into rehab, but my older sister won't cooperate to help her to get the necessary papers together. My brother, who has been living with my mother is 42 years old and has made a total wreck of his life; drugs, alcohol, and an accident which has left him with brain damage so that he is unable to work. He gets 700.00 a month disability. There are so many lives involved that need God's grace and mercy. None of my family are Christians. Please pray for God to intervene. I have the assurance of God's promises, but the rest of my family doesn't and its so hard to know what to say to them. I am especially concerned about my older sister. We have always been so close and now she does't even want to talk to me. I appreciate any prayers and support.
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