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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 4:26:37 PM   
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Our worker said that they have to come back where they can see us together as a whole family. Then that should close the case. With Alexis spending the time in the hospital she said to get her well then we will deal with the case. Yeah she can say that cause it isnt her with a case hanging over their head.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 5:32:10 PM   
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Hubby's co-workers -- he works with a lot of single (partying) men, or men who are going through awful divorces. It's really sad. They actually look up to him, though. They tell him he's the last of a dying breed -- a man who works hard to take care of his family and loves his wife and kids and God. He tells them he's no superhero -- just doing what any responsible man should do.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:14:49 PM   
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I have been lied to or about twice today. Not little things. I am not happy.

I cannot wait to get away next weekend.


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:30:43 PM   
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Oh, Donna, I hate when that happens. It hurts on a few levels. I hope you can get it worked out.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:32:09 PM   
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That sucks Donna, you just want to take it into your own hands and let everyone know how bad the other person is don't ya? Well maybe that's just me Praying you feel better about it and the truth comes out!

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:34:18 PM   
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Donna I am so sorry something like that happened to you. You are such a caring person that I can't believe someone would do that

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:36:05 PM   
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Yeah, well, one is Nick lying to his mom about me. And Brian said nothing. Nothing I can do about that one.

The other is someone I would like to choke, because there was no reason to lie. None. At all. And it makes me want to break off relationship with this person, though I'm not sure that's the best thing. I just can't stand being lied to.

I'm sure my blood pressure is high right now because I feel like I have steam coming out of my ears.


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:39:58 PM   
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Just relax donna and let God deal with it, easier said then done..

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:44:48 PM   
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Yeah.

Nick didn't want to come today and was throwing fits when Brian went to get him. In the middle of his fit, he told his mother that we don't let him eat when he's hungry. What a load of baloney. All of these kids eat at least 6 times a day. Probably what he meant is that he doesn't have constant access to chips, cookies, and soda like he does at his mom's, and when I took him to the store last weekend (which I rarely do), I didn't let him get a treat because he was not listening. But now that he said that, I'd not be surprised to have that investigated also. Better have the house clean spic and span in case "they" come again Monday.

And you know what? Now I'm tempted to not allow him to snack at ALL this weekend.


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:46:04 PM   
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who is "they" Donna?

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:46:53 PM   
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CPS. We're still under investigation from when she reported us last month. Or at least we haven't heard that it is closed.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:51:26 PM   
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ohhh, I must have missed that. I didn't know, Nick's mum reported you guys? What a poo bum brain.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:54:12 PM   
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Poo bum brain...I like that.

I think I'll log everything he eats this weekend, just in case. Do you think that's paranoid?


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 6:56:12 PM   
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I say Poo bum or poo bum brain alot

I would log things just to show that you DO feed him and that he eats really well and healthy!!

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:23:21 PM   
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Donna I think you should log everything he eats this weekend. Doesn't hurt to be prepared. I don't think its paranoid at all.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:25:36 PM   
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I agree log it all. I would also keep track of what time he eats everything and anytime he asks for food and you say "no" You know, when they ask for a snack 45 mins before dinner.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:27:08 PM   
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Yeah, then if they do come, I can just tell them that since Brian was right there when Nick said that, we expected her to report us again.

BTW, she did once report us for "withholding food" from Noah and Nick. I think the boys were 3 and 4 then. Noah went to bed without dinner one night because he refused to eat the whole plate of food in front of him. CPS took one look at my very healthy looking 4 year old and closed the case. When I explained to the worker what I believed she was talking about, the worker said she did the same with her kids...if they don't eat what's for dinner, they don't get anything else.


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:28:48 PM   
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I wouldn't worry Donna, she is just trying to stir trouble, you have God on your side and the truth will be revealed!

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:29:51 PM   
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I'm just sick of living on edge, feeling like I'm always being watched. And we want to foster and maybe adopt some day and all these bogus reports make me worry.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:52:12 PM   
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That.sucks. After seeing how well you take care of your blessings...it just frosts my cupcake the way she's trying to stir the pot with you. Frosts.my.cupcake.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:53:14 PM   
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{{{{{Donna}}}}}

I agree with the logging when you say no and the reason. That is a very good idea.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 7:56:24 PM   
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quote:

Frosts.my.cupcake.


You guys have the funniest sayings. Thanks for making me smile.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 8:00:39 PM   
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That makes me sick to hear that, Donna! It makes me mad when I see people using children to "get back at" or to get what they want. Revenge is soooo pointless especially in this case because the only person it will hurt in the end (when the truth is revealed and CPS gets off your back) is the children. When I was growing up, my parents (not together) always at least pretended to like eachother. It was best for me. That's what good parents do, they do what's best for the kids, not what's worse for the other parent. Have you ever tried writing Nick's mom and just telling it to her straight...that in th end it doesn't hurt you, it hurts the children? Cause somebody needs to open up a can of shut the heck up on her.

LOL @ frosts.my.cupcake.

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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 8:08:58 PM   
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Well, she hasn't reported the food thing yet...I'm just assuming that she will because she's been downright miserable for a few months now. And when she's miserable, she likes to make everyone around her miserable. Before we called the police for pot in their house, we had been getting along decently for a few years.

Okay...new sayings learned today...
poo bum brain
frosts my cupcakes (BTW...can I get my cupcake in chocolate, with chocolate frosting? )
open a can of shut the heck up

I love you guys. And here I thought no one else on earth had my bizarre sense of humor.


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RE: SAHM Support Part II - 5/16/2008 8:11:18 PM   
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As Sunnymom says "May the fleas of a thousand camels nest in her armpits". I love that one.

Remember, Donna, God is ultimately in control. If He wants you to foster or adopt, then you will; if He doesn't, then you won't. This puny little woman won't be stopping the plans of God.
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