|
|
|
|
|
Users viewing this topic:
none
|
|
|
[Poll]
|
Do you Yell at your Husband?
|
| Often |
|
| Sometimes |
|
| Rarely |
|
| Never |
|
Total Votes : 51
|
(last vote on : 9/7/2009 10:24:38 AM)
(Poll will run till: -- )
|
|
Login  | |
|
Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 1:37:19 AM
|
|
|
MowTin
Posts: 104
Joined: 4/20/2007
Status: offline
|
I know women are emotional. I would like to get an idea of how often a typical Christian woman yells at her husband. I know it's not something people want to admit but I'm hoping for a little honesty here.
God Bless.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 1:39:19 AM
|
|
|
hnt
Posts: 660
Joined: 4/11/2005
Status: offline
|
 I'm sure I have yelled within the last 20 years! I'm not known for it, but I'm sure it has happened.
_____________________________
h
Emotional abuse and Faith
Reaching for IT!!!!!!
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 8:19:11 AM
|
|
|
Sideways
Posts: 3368
Joined: 4/12/2005
Status: offline
|
I'm sure I have in the past, but it's a pretty rare event.
_____________________________
Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream. If you see a crocodile, don't forget to scream.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 10:08:55 AM
|
|
|
42servehymn
Posts: 424
Joined: 4/16/2005
From: Littleton, Colorado
Status: offline
|
I wish I could say never but honestly maybe 2 or 3 times a year in the heat of an argument.
_____________________________
I am my husbands #1 fan!
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 10:45:34 AM
|
|
|
Auben
Posts: 1147
Joined: 4/13/2005
From: Where pines tower and cranberries float
Status: offline
|
Hmmm....in the heat of a discussion I think both of us have slowly gotten louder (I would consider that yelling at its endpoint but not 'yelling at' him since we were both frustrated and not intentionally attacking the other...usually we realize we've gotten too loud and try to calm down a bit) but I don't think either of us has yelled at the other out of the blue unless it was down the stairs/across the yard/that kind of thing.
_____________________________
Tamara
~Everywhere is walking distance if you have the time~
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 11:08:57 AM
|
|
|
laura...
Posts: 3280
Joined: 3/1/2005
From: NE Ohio
Status: offline
|
I put never. I have a bigger problem watching my tone of voice rather than volume.
_____________________________
This is what the Lord says: “Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls. But you reply, ‘No, that’s not the road we want!’ Jer 6:16
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 11:11:50 AM
|
|
|
artemis
Posts: 475
Status: offline
|
No, but I don't yell at anyone unless it's to be heard over some kind of noise.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 11:12:20 AM
|
|
|
bolt.
Posts: 1759
Joined: 4/29/2005
From: Canada
Status: offline
|
It kind of depends whether "yell at" means (1) 'raise my voice in frustration during an argument/disagreement' or (2) 'use my words as a direct personal attack in a harsh critical blaming way (which may or may not actually get loud)'.
I do find myself caught up in (1) style 'yelling' from time to time, maybe 2 or 3 times every 2nd month... about the same time of month... hmmm. This is when I'm just so desperately frustrated that I want to be heard RIGHT NOW, so I get wound up and end up shouting, then crying, then feeling like a childish idiot, but still being frustrated over the original issue, but feeling like I've lost any credibility to address it.
Thank God for gracious husbands.
As for style (2) of 'yelling at' -- I'm sure it has happened, but it's maybe yearly, if that, and it is genuine attempt to hurt-back when I have been hurt or humiliated. This attempt to wound is never appropriate, and I do not tolerate it in myself.
_____________________________
Are you having trouble getting your daily dose of the life changing Word of God?
Let my friend Brian at Daily Audio Bible help you too.
>>audio link<<
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 11:12:22 AM
|
|
|
PrincessDonna
Posts: 6480
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: Cow country, Upstate NY
Status: offline
|
Rarely, but I also have more trouble with my tone than with the volume.
_____________________________
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 1:04:28 PM
|
|
|
W.O.F.
Posts: 1653
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: an ignoble beginning
Status: offline
|
Define yelling....lol
You can YELL without being loud (tone) and you can be LOUD without YELLING.
I put sometimes....it is not often..and I wish it was never.
I probably yell at him 3 to 5 times a year....but to me...that qualifies as sometimes.
Rarely, for me, would be 1 to 2 times a year.
I wish it was never.
But I don't start out yelling at him...it is a progression to that point....and I am working on NOT doing it at all. You CAN be angry and not yell...and express yourself...so that is my goal.
_____________________________
Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says, "Oh no, she's awake."
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 9:18:18 PM
|
|
|
a_sparrow
Posts: 569
Joined: 6/20/2006
From: Los Angeles
Status: offline
|
I am ashamed to admit that I raise my voice often when I am angry, or when I have been interrupted and am frustrated and want to continue speaking anyway. I realize it's not excusable and that it needs to stop. There have to be other ways to deal with marital conflict.
_____________________________
Elizabeth
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 9:20:21 PM
|
|
|
stellaluna
Posts: 4170
Joined: 4/11/2005
Status: offline
|
I never yell at my husband. I'm also rarely, if ever, emotional.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/23/2009 10:00:09 PM
|
|
|
dboe
Posts: 130
Joined: 1/19/2009
Status: offline
|
If I get really, really upset I may cry. I don't yell at him. I do yell at inanimate objects on occasions, especially plastic containers because I have alot of trouble opening them and this is frustrating to me (I think I have weak fine motor system or something)
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Do you Yell at your Husband? - 6/24/2009 12:34:56 PM
|
|
|
Homegrownkids
Posts: 887
Status: offline
|
I seldom yell at my husband, although I know I have a couple times in our almst 16 yrs of marriage because we have had a couple of doozy fights. I do, however, get a "tone" in my voice and this irritates me...I wish I didn't. It is the same tone that sometimes my child will use with me. I don't like it when they do it to me, so I usually feel "icky" if I use a "tone" with my Dh. It is usually more of a "I don't want to be bothered tone, leave me alone, can't you figure this out yourself, irritated, type of tone."
_____________________________
www.caringbridge.org/visit/pray4noah
God heals!
|
|
|
|
 New Messages |
 No New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/ New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/o New Messages |
 Locked w/ New Messages |
 Locked w/o New Messages |
|
 Post New Thread
Reply to Message
Post New Poll
Submit Vote
Delete My Own Post
Delete My Own Thread
Rate Posts |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Forum Tools
Printable Version
...but I don't yell at him anymore.
MARRIED TO A MILITARY PILOT ~ PLEASE PRAY FOR OUR TROOPS! 
