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dreamgal77 -> Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 2:38:17 PM)

hello to all of you!

jus wanna share my thoughts...frustrations.... watever.
any1 ever feel like love is sooooo soooo diff. 2 find? i mean 2 find some1 who will love you and whom u love bk????? [sm=sadquestion.gif] they say those ppl r lucky who find true love but 2 find it and den 2 lose it and then go on dat uncertain road again..... feeling like will u EVER b der.....y is it SO diff. 2 find a Christian guy who will love u 4 who u R inside out? love seems unreal-impossible-reality!!! [sm=widecry.gif] am i d only1 feeling dis way?



slushie -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 4:35:33 PM)

i'm sre dere r othr ppl dat feel dis wayy.

Seriously though, there are a lot of reasons why it may seem that love is difficult to find. Maybe God's saying that you're just not ready yet and it's not the right time. Or you're too young to really be able to settle down.



ta_mosquito -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 4:38:24 PM)

Moving from She Says to Women Only. (She Says is where men ask questions of women.)



Elena1030 -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 4:46:25 PM)

Sweet sister,

I hear ya.

Sometimes the dreams of love I’ve had all my life seem so far away, so impossible. But the emphasis is on the word seems. All things are possible with God! said Jesus to the hesitant requester of a miracle. And nothing is impossible with God, said the angel Gabriel to Mary.

Hope you don’t mind that I fixed your text a bit. Texting language used on the Internet makes my brain hurt!


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ORIGINAL: dreamgal77

hello to all of you!

just wanna share my thoughts...frustrations.... whatever.

anyone ever feel like love is sooooo soooo difficult to find? i mean to find someone who will love you and whom you love back????? [sm=sadquestion.gif]

they say those people are lucky who find true love but to find it and then to lose it and then go on that uncertain road again..... feeling like will you EVER be there? ..... why is it SO difficult to find a Christian guy who will love you for who you are inside out? love seems unreal-impossible-reality!!! [sm=widecry.gif] am i the only one feeling this way?


So… you’re not the only one who feels this way.

Come on over to the Singles folder for more discussions about these sorts of things. (It’s perfectly fine to talk over here in Women Only, but Singles is the area where this type of topic is brought up more often.)



GrannyofSix -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 7:49:20 PM)

Dreamgirl - Sweetheart - this is a Forum, not a text message. Your posts are a little difficult to read. Please type out words, or you might forget how to spell! [:)][:)][:)]



slushie -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 9:16:02 PM)

Elena and GrannyofSix had really good points...
[:D]
Some advice... writing in txt message speak online may seem cool for a while but it really isn't.



Kath -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/2/2009 10:58:48 PM)

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OneOfHisJewels -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/3/2009 1:40:37 AM)

Dreamgirl, I know this may sound cliche, and I don't want it to, but usually when you stop worrying is when it happens. I'm 37, and finally in a lovely relationship, but it honestly DID happen when I had given up. And I had had years of worrying about it, not worrying about it, trying to be content w/being single, etc...then a lot of events happened in my life where I was really tied up with things and too busy to think about that, or to even think about trying to be content with being single, and that's when it happened. And once it does happen, it's scarier then you think. If you put your trust in God and live your life to its fullest, God will take care of the rest...



IwillseekHim -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/3/2009 9:03:47 AM)

You'd be wise to take to heart what OneOfHisJewels is saying to you. This is a voice of experience giving you some excellent advice. I, too, found when I quit desperately looking and started letting God work, He worked it out for the good. I have been married almost twenty years now. I wish you well.



slushie -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/3/2009 11:51:07 AM)

Also, be careful not to think or believe that finding a mate is under your control. It is under God's control. I knew a man who believed that finding a mate was something he could control, so he tried to control it instead of letting God be in control. Even I find myself thinking that way sometimes. Sometimes we have to just wait on the Lord and let things run their normal course. Meet guys, be friendly with them, and build friendships instead of looking exclusively for a relationship.



cosmiceyes -> RE: Ever feel this way? (7/6/2009 3:50:40 PM)

you're 100% right.
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ORIGINAL: slushie

Also, be careful not to think or believe that finding a mate is under your control. It is under God's control. I knew a man who believed that finding a mate was something he could control, so he tried to control it instead of letting God be in control. Even I find myself thinking that way sometimes. Sometimes we have to just wait on the Lord and let things run their normal course. Meet guys, be friendly with them, and build friendships instead of looking exclusively for a relationship.



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