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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/6/2009 7:35:48 PM
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peaceofGod
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Father,
Thank you for the strength and loyalty that you have given to AH1. Please heal his fiancée of her depression and of any other mental scars and/or ailments. Heal her mentally, physically and spiritually, making her whole. Hold her close and never let her go. For that matter, please give something that is uplifting to AH1. Hold on to him and never let him go. Thank you for all that you are doing that is beyond our knowledge. I praise you and pray this in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/7/2009 2:56:42 PM
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Father,
Thank you for the strength and loyalty that you have given to AH1. Please heal his fiancée of her depression and of any other mental scars and/or ailments. Heal her mentally, physically and spiritually, making her whole. Hold her close and never let her go. For that matter, please give something that is uplifting to AH1. Hold on to him and never let him go. Thank you for all that you are doing that is beyond our knowledge. I praise you and pray this in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/10/2009 8:30:56 AM
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peaceofGod
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Father,
Thank you for watching over all who seek you. Thank you for what you already have done for AH1, much of which we probably do not know. Please continue to be on the move for him and his fiancée to work out this situation in a way that will be good for all who are involved while being to your honor and glory. I pray this in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/10/2009 8:51:20 AM
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Father, I continue with these others in prayer on behalf of our brother AH1 and his fiance. It is difficult to fathom the amount of physical and emotional abuse this woman suffered at the hands of this beast. I pray for a healing of her. I pray that she finds rest in You. Please end the nightmares of those horrible six days. I pray that she does not endure further abuse at the hands of the enemy. Let no thought hinder her from going forward in her healing.Please encamp your mighty angels around her, surrounding her and protecting her. The enemy attacks the weak so bless her with Your strength. Open doors so that she is amongst christians that will encourage her and lift her up to you.
Bless AH1 with wisdom to help her. Use him as your instrument, giving him the words to speak that will comfort his fiance.
I pray also for the roommate. In the name of Jesus, I pray. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/10/2009 9:33:20 AM
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Father,
Thank you for watching over all who seek you. Thank you for what you already have done for AH1, much of which we probably do not know. Please continue to be on the move for him and his fiancée to work out this situation in a way that will be good for all who are involved while being to your honor and glory. I pray this in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
Amen, and give them each an extra hug today Lord. One that they will know comes from You. In Jesus name. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/10/2009 10:42:10 AM
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Father,
Thank you for watching over all who seek you. Thank you for what you already have done for AH1, much of which we probably do not know. Please continue to be on the move for him and his fiancée to work out this situation in a way that will be good for all who are involved while being to your honor and glory. I pray this in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
Amen, and give them each an extra hug today Lord. One that they will know comes from You. In Jesus name. Amen
Oh yes Father in Jesus Name.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/10/2009 12:28:29 PM
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Is there anyway she can move to where you are? Is there a lady (your mom?) who can take her in? Is she working/in college? If not, perhaps you can encourage her to move in with your mom. Just a suggestion.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/11/2009 3:39:28 AM
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AH1
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Purnhart, I appreciate your suggestion. For now it's not possible for her to be with me or to live with my parents. She's still working and taking care of some things in the State that she is living in currently (one of several surgeries will also have to happen first), and then Lord willing we are talking about her moving here to my home state somewhere in between the end of November and the first part of December.
I confess that I'm a bit nervous with the way things are right now with my fiancee. Yes, there are some definite improvements, but I can see her still getting angry for no reason and snapping at me over the littlest things when we talk or message each other. She has some anger issues and after what happened to her, it's understandable.
***I spoke with a professional Christian counselor over the phone. He told me that if my girl doesn't get Christian counseling soon, there could be serious problems for us when we get married, and those problems could even get worse for us! (Pray with me that the Holy Spirit will lay it upon her heart with the need to receive the counseling SOON!)
I've tried to gently suggest the name of the christian counselor that this man mentioned to me that is in her area. She doesn't seem to be very receptive. I get the impression that she thinks that everything is just going to be okay if she doesn't think about certain things, or if she doesn't have the nightmares that she clearly recalls.
I pray night and day that she just turns everything over to the Lord and really seeks Him in her life. I keep praying that the Holy Spirit will soften her heart and mind and show her that Christian counseling is the only way to go so she can heal from this horrible trauma, and so we can have a healthy, blessed relationship and marriage.
I also pray that her room mate, the roomies father and my fiancees brother would seek the Lord in their lives. I was told that after a bad incident a couple of weeks ago - that they called on the Lord God to come in. I just don't see any evidence of that. Nobody is reading the Bible, or wanting to talk of things of the Lord, etc. I pray it was a genuine conversion, not purely emotional.
Pray that godly souls will be put in their lives who will share with them, encourage and uplift them and let them see the hand of God at work in their lives too.
Thank you to those who have been praying fervently and kindly posting to provide encouragement.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/11/2009 9:12:29 AM
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Father I pray AH1's fiance will realize she will not heal without help. She need a Christian counselor. She needs you, Lord and it would appear that she does not have that the close personal relationship she needs with you. Open her eyes to that Lord. I pray for the room mate, her father, and brother to come to know you. I pray if they are a bad influence on this young woman that you will keep her away from this bad influence so she may heal and work on a relationship with you. Let your will prevail in this situation, Father.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/11/2009 9:16:13 AM
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Father,
Thank you for the assurance that we can trust you to work things out in your time. Please have mercy on AH1 and consider what he is going through because of his fiancée’s problems. Work in his fiancée’s mind to think favorably toward Christian counseling, or whatever you see is best. Actually, it is for your healing that we ask. We continue to pray for AH1 and his fiancée in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/12/2009 11:26:02 AM
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Father I pray AH1's fiance will realize she will not heal without help. She need a Christian counselor. She needs you, Lord and it would appear that she does not have that the close personal relationship she needs with you. Open her eyes to that Lord. I pray for the room mate, her father, and brother to come to know you. I pray if they are a bad influence on this young woman that you will keep her away from this bad influence so she may heal and work on a relationship with you. Let your will prevail in this situation, Father.
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Father,
Thank you for the assurance that we can trust you to work things out in your time. Please have mercy on AH1 and consider what he is going through because of his fiancée’s problems. Work in his fiancée’s mind to think favorably toward Christian counseling, or whatever you see is best. Actually, it is for your healing that we ask. We continue to pray for AH1 and his fiancée in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Amen and Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/12/2009 12:16:23 PM
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Father I pray AH1's fiance will realize she will not heal without help. She need a Christian counselor. She needs you, Lord and it would appear that she does not have that the close personal relationship she needs with you. Open her eyes to that Lord. I pray for the room mate, her father, and brother to come to know you. I pray if they are a bad influence on this young woman that you will keep her away from this bad influence so she may heal and work on a relationship with you. Let your will prevail in this situation, Father.
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Father,
Thank you for the assurance that we can trust you to work things out in your time. Please have mercy on AH1 and consider what he is going through because of his fiancée’s problems. Work in his fiancée’s mind to think favorably toward Christian counseling, or whatever you see is best. Actually, it is for your healing that we ask. We continue to pray for AH1 and his fiancée in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Amen and Amen.
Father, I am praying with these for AH1 and his fiancee.
Lord, please hear and answer our prayers in a wonderful
way that will bring glory to You.
In Jesus' name,
Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/12/2009 3:33:05 PM
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Father, please hear our prayers for AH1 and his fiance. We can not begin to understand the torment she lives within herself day after day. I sincerely pray that she will get the professional counseling that she so desperately needs. I pray that You will intervene and open all doors of opportunity for her to recieve help. Place christian people around her so that she sees Your light shine in them. I pray that she truly has turned and completely committed herself to Jesus. He is the way. With You I know that she can be delivered from all that haunts her. The enemy can not touch what belongs to You. Lord, I pray also for our brother here. These last few months have took its toll on him also. He feels so helpless because he is so far away from her. Bless him Lord with renewed strength. Use him in such a way that it will bring You glory. Put the words that would make a difference into his mouth so that he can speak with authority. Help him to help her overcome this and rise above these horrible days. I pray for their future together. May they live for You and be a testimony of your mercy and grace. We know that something good has to come out of this. Give them strength to endure whatever they must. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray this prayer. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/13/2009 5:43:53 PM
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AH1
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Please continue praying that the Holy Spirit will touch her heart and mind.
I am going to try to discuss with my fiancee the need for christian counseling today or tomorrow. She needs it desperately, and is still having some nightmares. I can tell that so many aspects of her life are affected because of the horrible trauma she went through. There are going to be trust issues among other things according to a counselor that I spoke with on the phone.
I pray night and day for healing of this ordeal and that she would turn to Jesus Christ through it all and seek His will.
Thank you for your prayers for us.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/13/2009 5:54:04 PM
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IwillseekHim
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Father, this dear woman's eyes are blinded to the fact she so desperately needs christian counseling. Please remove the scales from her eyes so that she can see. Open not only her eyes but her heart also. Reveal to her the importance of getting some help. The longer she waits the stronger the enemy's hold is on her. Please hear our prayers for her. Bless AH1 with the words that You would have him to say. May they be the words that she needs to hear. Give him strength to face this head on. Use him as your earthly vessel. Bless him today, dear Lord. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/13/2009 8:20:48 PM
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sarju60
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Please continue praying that the Holy Spirit will touch her heart and mind.
Oh Father please please soften this young girl's heart and make it ready to receive you. Put in her a craving for your word. Show her the need of you wisdom.
I am going to try to discuss with my fiancee the need for christian counseling today or tomorrow. She needs it desperately, and is still having some nightmares. I can tell that so many aspects of her life are affected because of the horrible trauma she went through. There are going to be trust issues among other things according to a counselor that I spoke with on the phone.
Lord, as AH1 prepares to speak with his fiancee the need for Christian counseling, I pray you prepare his heart and mind so his words will be exactly what you would have him say. Please let her see that AH1 has only her best interests at heart and make her receptive to what he has to say.
I pray night and day for healing of this ordeal and that she would turn to Jesus Christ through it all and seek His will.
Thank you for your prayers for us.
Lord I know that you can heal this girl if only she will give all over to you totally. Please help her Lord as she has so much to struggle against. Keep AH1 strong and give him the assurance that you will heal not only this girl but will heal their relationship also. Thank you Father.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 10:27:33 AM
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Father,
Thank you for being our awesome God. Please move on the mind of AH1’s fiancée to seek appropriate counseling. We continue to ask that you heal her and help her to do whatever it is that would be best for her. We pray for her in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 3:12:25 PM
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Father,
Thank you for being our awesome God. Please move on the mind of AH1’s fiancée to seek appropriate counseling. We continue to ask that you heal her and help her to do whatever it is that would be best for her. We pray for her in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Yes, LORD, this is my prayer too. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 4:09:45 PM
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AH1
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I spoke with my fiancee. The poor soul is very sick today. Flu-like symptoms that has hit her very hard. I pray it is not the H1N1 Swine Flu virus going around. Our rural area had 150 school children exposed to the Swine Flu and many were confirmed as having it.
My girl told me (accidentally - she let it slip in conversation) that she is planning on moving home here on November 20th. (Lord willing). I initially thought that we were about 1500 miles apart. It turns out that we are almost 2100 miles apart. I pray for good weather when she travels.
This is all the more reason she needs to get counseling. To deal with unresolved anger/resentment issues, etc. and to deal with the horrible trauma. I only got to say something briefly regarding counseling and the need for it. All she said was "Yeah, probably" I don't think she wants to deal with the horrific memories, etc again, but according to the counselor that I spoke with on the phone, she is in DIRE need of it - if our relationship and upcoming marriage is to survive.
I told her that and she didn't really say anything, other than what the people from the rape support staff told her, and it made her very mad. They also said something to her that was WRONG and shouldn't have said what they did.
I'm at a loss. I just dont know what else to say or how to go about telling her more. I put it in God's hands to use the Holy Spirit to convict her, soften her heart and mind and move in this situation. Her life can go down very quickly if these things aren't discussed and resolved.
I love her so very much. I know she loves me too. I just don't want the enemy to win - by keeping her 'running' from God, and running away from facing the issues and receiving Christian counseling. Am praying she will desire, and hunger for a relationship with Jesus and for the Word of God too.
Continue to pray that the trial will be held SOON! This is a long and drawn out ordeal and we would really like to have all this put behind us when we get married.
Thanks to you dear souls who are uplifting us in prayer. I'm really struggling with some significant issues right now. Please pray that God WILL help me, uplift and encourage me and show me what to do each and every day, and that I will be able to do the things that need done - before my fiancee moves here.
God bless.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 4:37:44 PM
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sarju60
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. Am praying she will desire, and hunger for a relationship with Jesus and for the Word of God too.
Continue to pray that the trial will be held SOON! This is a long and drawn out ordeal and we would really like to have all this put behind us when we get married.
Father I pray for all of these things for AH1's fiancee and pray also you will keep him strong and keep him only in your will with so many emotions running through him. Keep him at peace, trusting you to take care of these worries. Lord win this girl's heart totally over to you.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 6:09:38 PM
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Continuing in prayer for our brother here and his fiance. I also pray for a speedy trial and for justice in the court system.
I pray the fiance will get the professional treatment that she needs to have. Even more importantly, I pray for her heart to be intuned with the Holy Spirit. Only You know, Lord, what her heart feels. And only You can supply her with strength to move forward and away from this terrible ordeal. Strengthen AH1 to remain strong as well. Thank You, Lord for sustaining him thus far. Hear our prayers for both of them and also for the roommate. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/14/2009 10:45:55 PM
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AH1
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I'm finding myself quite frustrated. I can't even talk with her about Jesus, the Bible, etc. and the fact that she said she asked Jesus into her heart..
But yet she's getting all sorts of ungodly and foolish advice and information from people who do NOT know the Bible! One guy is a friend of her dads - and this guy claims to be a christian. Even claims to be an ordained minister -- but is living with a Satan worshipper and he is obviously New Age, and is all wet with his views on the bible.
He says that the bible is good stories, and that it was written by man. He will not give credit that it was inspired and breathed by God. He's telling her all sorts of things that are filling her head with garbage, and sadly she's believing him!
It stinks that I can't even discuss things with my fiancee, but she's running to all the wrong people for biblical and other advice. Those people have told her some pretty outlandish things and it's all going into her mind and it's affecting our relationship too.
I pray night and day for God's will and help in this matter - but it sure seems like the enemy is not wanting her and me together and not wanting her to turn from her old ways.
I'm praying for a softening of her heart and mind and that she would realize these people that she's talking to are full of garbage and dont really have her best interest in mind. I pray the Holy Spirit to do a mighty work in her heart and mind.
She resisted me when I gently tried to suggest counseling. I feel that it's still more from people who are saying things to her that they have no right to even tell her. It's causing more harm than good and I wish they would shut up, and that she would see through their nonsense and harmful 'advice'.
My fiancee is coming home soon and i was hoping that she would be getting some good counseling before now. It's so frustrating and I really dont have a clue of what to say, think or do.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/15/2009 11:07:35 AM
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peaceofGod
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Am praying she will desire, and hunger for a relationship with Jesus and for the Word of God too.
Continue to pray that the trial will be held SOON! This is a long and drawn out ordeal and we would really like to have all this put behind us when we get married.
God bless.
Father,
In Jesus Christ's name I ask that you bring about a desire in her, a hunger in her for a relationship with Jesus and for the Word of God and that you work this trial out for the best. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/15/2009 9:15:39 PM
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AH1
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Thank you for your prayers.
I haven't spoke with her or gotten any communication in over 24 hours. Am concerned as she has been very sick with cold/flu symptoms and I know her diabetes has been unstable. The sugars go very high and the next minute she's hypoglycemic with dangerously low blood sugar.
For me - I'm still struggling with several issues (personal) that I would very much appreciate your prayers regarding.
I need to get some income soon too, and have some work taken care of around my little home. Pray the work will be done quickly and reasonably. So much work - so little time.
May God bless you all.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/16/2009 5:21:07 AM
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