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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/31/2009 4:04:24 AM
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AH1
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Thank you all for your continued and faithful prayers!
She is still vomiting blood and having a lot of pain. I'm trusting the Lord God Almighty to heal her, restore what the enemy has tried to steal, and bring her home safely to me and as a whole woman who is turning her life over to him and willing to serve the Lord with me.
I know the enemy is trying to hold her back, keep her angry and bitter and not wanting to give her up without a fight.
The Lord hears our prayers and I know that God will do wonderful things in my fiancees life, her family, her roommate and her roommate's family as well.
I am still battling depression and a very heavy heart. It's so hard to know she's suffering and not being able to be there to help her. I've sent her some very good nutritional supplements. Pray she will take them as she needs to do, and that the Lord will bless them to her body for healing, strength, energy, much less pain and inflammation and restful nights sleep.
God bless you all for your prayers and kindness.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/31/2009 10:54:41 AM
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Dear Father, I join in sarju60 and peaceofGod's prayers.
Please help dear Lord. Give AH1 strength and patience and hope and wisdom. Fill him with Your peace dear Lord and help him to not be overwhelmed, but to just see what he needs to do each day. One day at a time Lord with Your lead. Work it all out Lord to Your glory and what You know is best.
Lord, if his fiancee and her roommate truly asked You into their hearts, they are babies. Make a way Lord that they may be fed with Your milk. Bring Christians into their lives, where they are right now that can help feed them and help them to grow. Help them to look to You Lord. If they haven't truly accepted You, help them to do so.
I ask for healing in every way for AH1's fiancee. Heal her body and guide her into the best treatments. Heal her heart and mind from all that she suffered. Only You can do this Lord. Work in every way that You know is best.
Father, we ask for healing for this dad also. But most of all we ask that he will come to know You.
Lord there is more that is needed than we even know to ask, but we ask that You meet every need, and pour down Your blessings and help in every way that You know is best.
Help AH1 to cling closer to You than ever and rest in You, whatever happens, trusting in You that You will work all things out for the best. In Jesus name we ask. Amen
Father, my dear sister Sparkle has already expressed my heart's desire in prayer for AH1 and his fiancee.
Please let her prayer be mine, too, for both of them. Lord, I pray that Your Perfect Will is done in their lives.
Protect them from the evil one and hold them in Your most tender and loving care.
I pray in Jesus' name,
Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 10/31/2009 4:26:32 PM
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AH1
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Thank you for your prayers. It touches my heart daily to read your faithful and uplifting prayers.
This has been so hard on me with all that is going on and to know that she's trusting in the wrong people for advice. It's all been ungodly and worldly advice she's getting. Men are flirting with her and offering to take her away. She's sadly been playing into this I feel and thinks that it's all harmless. (It's not.) These are so-called friends on internet social sites. I've read what they write to her some, and it's garbage.
I know she is a hurting, scared and confused woman right now. I pray night and day she WILL seek the Lord, heed the call of the Holy Spirit and desire to read God's Word and pray with me. Please pray that I will do the will of the Lord and be hungry for God's word and will in our lives.
Pray she will contact me and let me know about her last Dr. visit with the neurosurgeon and that her vomiting blood has stopped.
The enemy is still at work, but the power of righteous prayer availeth much! We can't stop praying now. Pray for forgiveness, healing and restoration in her family, her roommate and her family too.
God bless you all richly.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/1/2009 7:57:38 AM
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Father please do not let the enemy attack this girl and this relationship she has with AH1. Open her eyes to the truth and help her to stop running from it. Show her the devil's lies and keep her from believing them. I pray she doe put her trust in the wrong people. Thank you Lord.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/3/2009 2:03:06 PM
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Our Father in Heaven, I lift up in prayer AH1, his fiance and all who are on his heart. Please be ever so close to him and draw near to You those who do not know You. In the name of Jesus the Messiah I pray, may Your Will be done. To GOD be the glory. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/3/2009 5:28:58 PM
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I come to you all with a very heavy heart...
I learned today from someone that my fiancee is telling everyone that we officially broke up. She messages me infrequently and acts as if everything is okay and doing better between us. I have yet to talk with her on the phone. I cant reach her as she has a new phone and I dont have the phone number.
The person that she told this to, I trust to be on the level with me. They told me enough and it is breaking my heart to pieces.
I dont understand what's going on. I feel in my heart that she is trying to hurt me and let me believe that everything is okay between us but yet it's really not.
I have no idea what to say, think or do. I'm at such a loss.
I found that she IS in fact talking to men and saying things she shouldn't be.
My head and heart is so messed up right now. The enemy is working overtime. She said she asked Jesus into her heart, but I have seen no changes, no desire to read God's Word, to pray or anything. I dont see the love or forgiveness either.
I am so very depressed with this now. I really believed everything was getting better, but now I find out otherwise.
She needs our prayers desperately for healing and forgiveness, but my prayers seem powerless right now. I thought that God was working in our lives and relationship - but now I see this major setback. Can't even explain it all how I'm feeling.
I shared this with my mother and it has hurt her deeply too. Mom has been praying night and day.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/3/2009 6:05:23 PM
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Father,
Thank you for being our God. Thank you for being totally good, faithful and true. Please heal AH1’s fiancée. Straighten out this situation of increasing heart-ache. Breathe your goodness into AH1’s life and cause all of this to result in something more beautiful than we can imagine. Bless AH1 greatly. I pray this in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/3/2009 8:27:38 PM
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AH1
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I guess what's hurting me so much is the lies lately. The game playing. Yes, I realize she is hurting even beyond my comprehension from what happened to her with the brutal rapes and beatings/assault, but now she is wanting me to be hurt deeply too. This is of the enemy alone. He's wanting her to hate me and resent me since I care so much and love her more than I can even express.
I found out that she is communicating with her 'ex' boyfriend. One that dumped on her and hurt her badly. She told me she disliked him so much and would never have anything to do with him again. She promised me, but I now know that words mean nothing.
Oh well. I guess I'm the one on the receiving end of things now. If she would turn to the Lord - I know he would reveal His will to her, but she doesn't apparently want that. It's so sad that so many people are trying to get involved and telling her things that are detrimental to her life and detrimental and hurtful to our relationship.
I've been by her side thru thick and thin. I've got the scars and battle wounds too with what she went through.
I dont even know anymore. Do I give up???? Only God can reveal that to me, but sometimes I feel that I've apparently done something because I just don't sense his presence or voice in my life. The struggles get worse every day it sure feels to me.
I've backed off to allow her space and time. Even this has not helped matters.
Thanks to all who are praying fervently for us both and our families.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/3/2009 10:18:21 PM
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Father,
Thank you for the faithfulness that you have given to AH1. Please help him to know what to do. When you make the right course of action clear to him, please cause this heavy weight to lift off his shoulders. Cause the right avenue to result in no regrets...only relief and then a wonderful life of walking closely with you. We pray for AH1 in the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
< Message edited by peaceofGod -- 11/3/2009 10:25:37 PM >
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/4/2009 2:15:54 AM
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Well, I found out tonight.. Part of the problems AGAIN -- are due to the 21 year old self-proclaimed counselor/therapist who is back in 'the picture' yet again.
He's NOT a counselor and has NO counseling or therapist experience. He's the boyfriend of my fiancee's roommate and he of course has stuck his nose in again and has told my fiancee to stay away from me! He's doing his best to lead her to believe that it's the best and said that its best especially until he can get there! It is evident that he finds my fiancee attractive and I am gathering that he would like to introduce one of his military buddies with her!
He's even tried causing trouble not only with my fiancee, but her fiancee's brother, and the roommates' father too! He needs God Almighty's reality check! He has stirred things up with so many people and sadly, now they don't know what to believe! Not long ago my fiancee's brother couldn't stand him, and now they are talking on the phone and everything. (Makes NO sense to me!)
Sadly when this person was having problems with his girlfriend (my fiancees roommate) and she was ready to leave him - I stuck up for him and told her to be patient, have forgiveness and to give him another chance! I see he cant even do the same for me and all he does is brags about going to 'Bible college'. He sure doesn't act like he has much biblical training. He's overlooking even the simplest things in the Bible such as forgiveness and not judging is one of those important things. He said that he doesn't intend to forgive or forget things that have offended him!
With all the people getting involved and vying for her attention -- I knew this was going to happen and the so called 'counselor' along with others who are ungodly are self-serving are causing more problems that I can even begin to tell you. It breaks my heart what I have learned.
They are trying to get her to 'move on' and find someone else. OVER WHAT? Just because I have an opinion and desire for my fiancee to seek Christian counseling with years of experience and not some 21 year old with zero experience in dealing with these issues? They are trying to turn my love, concern and desire to seek God with her into something bad!
Pray that God will intervene and drive out those who do not belong in her life, and that her heart will soften and that the love WILL be restored again and that she will call me and desire to work things out with me soon. I have proof that the 'guys' she is talking to are out with sinful and selfish desires. This is the last thing that she needs.
Just the other night she told me that she loved me, missed me, couldn't wait to come home and marry me, and now these people are causing so much confusion that she didnt even bother to contact me today, but contacted other men thru a messaging system to get their attention and sympathy from them.
This has been a living hell for me. I can't even begin to tell you the half of it all. Yes, I can tell you the enemy IS working night and day thru all of this!
I'm trying to be patient and a godly and loving man. The emotional roller coaster is taking a major toll on me however and my godly mother too. She has been praying night and day for my fiancee and the situation.
Normally, I am a calm, collected person. This is wearing me down. How much more Lord? HOW MUCH MORE???? There are other things in my life that I must deal with and this is all just so much right now.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/4/2009 1:58:22 PM
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Father,
Thank you for the faithfulness that you have given to AH1. Please help him to know what to do. When you make the right course of action clear to him, please cause this heavy weight to lift off his shoulders. Cause the right avenue to result in no regrets...only relief and then a wonderful life of walking closely with you. We pray for AH1 in the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
Lord, yes, I pray this with peaceofGod. Make your will known. Give AH1 peace.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/4/2009 2:19:57 PM
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AH1
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We actually spoke on the phone a bit. It was nice.
But, she still is having trust issues and is confused about many things. I know part stems from people telling her things they shouldnt be.
She has a problem with bitterness, hatred and unforgiveness she told me. (Towards me and also because of past boyfriends who have hurt her!)
I feel terrible for the misunderstanding and the pain I caused her. I hurt her and never meant to. Its affecting me so adversely night and day.
Now she said she's having a lot of trouble of just letting go. She said she's mad at God too for things that happened and said that she felt He wasn't ever there for her.
Continue to pray for a softening of her heart. Only the Holy Spirit can bring about a change.
I do know that your prayers have helped.
I just pray that if she is talking to ungodly people who have selfish motives and might be telling her unwise things that it would stop. I'm praying for godly souls to come into her life.
The roommates boyfriend is in Iraq, and is on-line all the time and I know from what I sense and have heard from him that what he is discussing with her could be stirring her anger all over again and maybe even adding to her feelings of unforgiveness towards me. He's getting out soon and says things like that he's her confidant and even said at one point he was her counselor.
Thank you for letting me share this and I thank you for your prayers too!
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/4/2009 2:26:50 PM
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Our Father in Heaven, I lift this woman up to You, please come to her rescue and with by the Holy Spirit draw her to You.
I also lift AH1 up in prayer, may Your arms comfort him and may his mind and heart be settled as He focuses on You; please guide him according to Your Will.
In the name of Jesus the Messiah I pray. To GOD be the glory. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/5/2009 7:02:19 PM
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My fiance called me today. We talked for a short while and it was very nice. I'm praying that the cell phone I sent her will get activated today without any problems.
I DO know that all the prayers have helped and it is the grace of God that her heart is softening! The enemy wants her staying mad/hateful. The power of prayer by many godly souls is much stronger.
She is still quite confused on a number of things because of not growing up in a christian home and from people telling her conflicting things. Its sad that one in particular claims to be a minister but is definitely more New Age than anything.
Thank you for your fervent prayers for the woman that I love! I appreciate your prayers for me too. Pray that I will earn a decent living to support us.
God bless you.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/5/2009 8:15:45 PM
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Praying with you, AH1. Thank You, Lord for hearing our prayers asking that her heart be softened. I pray, too that God will show her that He is the way, the truth and the life. May her heart turn to completely trust Him in all of this. I continue to pray that she will see her need is in Him. Her healing will come from Him. Open her spiritual eyes, Lord. And, her ears to hear Your small still voice that calls her unto You. In His name, I pray. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/5/2009 8:46:56 PM
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Just want to say thank you to the very small handful of you who have been praying/posting. It is appreciated more than you'll know.
However, the time has come and I think I will get rid of this request and not post here anymore.
To me -- I feel that my prayer request has been nothing more than a soap-opera of sorts, and mere 'popcorn fodder' to some of you. I can see the number of 'views' -- but also, I see the very few number of people who have bothered to post support or prayers for my fiancee, etc.
No, I'm not angry or bitter. I can assure you that.
To me (and MANY others that I've talked with) it is so sad when various prayer sites are 'cliquish' and cater to the more senior members and 'the regulars'. I've seen that before elsewhere and I just don't like it. (it hurts). I know other people who shared similar feelings with me about the same type of situation - and they have never returned to prayer sites for that very reason. I seriously doubt that God is pleased when this sort of thing happens.
Honestly, I just don't feel welcome here. I really haven't since day one. Maybe I'm wrong. But perception is REALITY to people and that's what I am going with. I have seen the many prayers posted and prayed over for repeated prayer requests that were posted here, and some more than 2 years ago! (Again -- I see it to be the regulars and senior prayer members.)
God bless you and keep you all. I wish the you the very best.
Hello AH1. I'm sorry that you felt this way, but I'm glad you have decided to continue posting. I just want to say that I am one who has looked at your thread without posting anything, but I believe my motives have been good. I'm ashamed to say that I'm not much of a pray-er and if I did post something, it would sound quite insincere. I just want to say that my hopes are with you and your fiancee, that you will get through this and be stronger! I completely understand your feelings about the web site, but I believe there are better explanations for what you have experienced.
This must be such an extremely difficult thing to go through! I have a niece who was raped by a group of guys, so I have a tiny bit of understanding of what that is like and I in no way consider this thread to be sort of a soap opera thing. It's your lives! Wow. I just want to share with you Romans 8:22 We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? 25 But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.
26 In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
... 31 What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? ... 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written:
"For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered." 37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
I believe that I speak for most of us who have looked, but not posted so far, on this thread.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/6/2009 8:09:54 AM
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My fiance called me today. We talked for a short while and it was very nice. I'm praying that the cell phone I sent her will get activated today without any problems.
I DO know that all the prayers have helped and it is the grace of God that her heart is softening! The enemy wants her staying mad/hateful. The power of prayer by many godly souls is much stronger.
She is still quite confused on a number of things because of not growing up in a christian home and from people telling her conflicting things. Its sad that one in particular claims to be a minister but is definitely more New Age than anything.
Thank you for your fervent prayers for the woman that I love! I appreciate your prayers for me too. Pray that I will earn a decent living to support us.
God bless you.
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Thank you for all that you do, including those interventions that we don’t realize. Please remove bad influence from AH1’s fiancée. Protect her from falsehoods. Draw her into your fellowship. We pray for her and for AH1 in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/6/2009 2:20:20 PM
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My fiance called me today. We talked for a short while and it was very nice. I'm praying that the cell phone I sent her will get activated today without any problems.
I DO know that all the prayers have helped and it is the grace of God that her heart is softening! The enemy wants her staying mad/hateful. The power of prayer by many godly souls is much stronger.
She is still quite confused on a number of things because of not growing up in a christian home and from people telling her conflicting things. Its sad that one in particular claims to be a minister but is definitely more New Age than anything.
Thank you for your fervent prayers for the woman that I love! I appreciate your prayers for me too. Pray that I will earn a decent living to support us.
God bless you.
Father,
Thank you for all that you do, including those interventions that we don’t realize. Please remove bad influence from AH1’s fiancée. Protect her from falsehoods. Draw her into your fellowship. We pray for her and for AH1 in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
LORD, I continue praying in agreement. Amen.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/8/2009 12:58:31 AM
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Thank you for your fervent prayers!
My fiance is still having periods of vomiting blood. I have been praying that it will stop and not return.
The severe headaches and nerve pain is persistent. The neurosurgeon has recommended that she increase the medication that he is trying her out on.
He said that if the medication doesn't work soon, he will want to go ahead with the brain surgery. I don't agree with this and I feel that taking time is a better option when it comes to something as serious as brain surgery.
She worked today and I know that she over did things. She put in a 12 hour day and was very busy. It's not healthy for her to work so hard and put in these long hours with her diabetes, and especially considering her intense headaches, face and neck pain with the shooting nerve pain.
My fiance is to have surgery later this month. I pray her body is much stronger and that there will be no complications with the surgery and that it will correct one of the problems.
Lord permitting she is planning on moving here to be with me and my family shortly after the surgery.
I continue to pray the Holy Spirit to touch her heart and mind and that she will seek Christian counseling.
God bless you and thank you again for your wonderful prayers for my fiancee, me, our families, our engagement and upcoming marriage.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/8/2009 1:27:04 AM
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Father-
You know the details, the inner workings, and the why's that we can't fathom. Jesus, please use this complex and painful situation to Your glory- please change the hearts and minds of all involved to Your will. Let human agendas be cast aside and the work of the Spirit overcome every aspect of this situation.
In Christs name,
Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/8/2009 9:44:39 AM
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Father-
You know the details, the inner workings, and the why's that we can't fathom. Jesus, please use this complex and painful situation to Your glory- please change the hearts and minds of all involved to Your will. Let human agendas be cast aside and the work of the Spirit overcome every aspect of this situation.
In Christs name,
Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/8/2009 10:46:27 AM
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Father, praying that something good will come from this and it will be a stepping stone and not a stumbling block for this young woman. You are in control and I thank You even though this makes no sense. I know that I have lived long enough to realize bad things can happen to good people. This is a tragic thing that has happened. I pray this woman finds comfort in You. I pray for a total healing, physically, spiritually and emotionally. Open up doors of opportunity for her and surround her with christians that can lead her and help her. I pray this trial will be over quickly and justice will be served. No woman should have to be traumatized in such a way as this. In Jesus' name, I continue to pray for her and our brother here. Amen
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/8/2009 7:13:33 PM
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Lord please work in the lives of this couple and portect them from more tragedy. I pray they will be able to work through all of the problems they have.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/9/2009 10:51:24 AM
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marstacy
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Father, praying that something good will come from this and it will be a stepping stone and not a stumbling block for this young woman. You are in control and I thank You even though this makes no sense. I know that I have lived long enough to realize bad things can happen to good people. This is a tragic thing that has happened. I pray this woman finds comfort in You. I pray for a total healing, physically, spiritually and emotionally. Open up doors of opportunity for her and surround her with christians that can lead her and help her. I pray this trial will be over quickly and justice will be served. No woman should have to be traumatized in such a way as this. In Jesus' name, I continue to pray for her and our brother here. Amen
Amen!
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Psalm 51:10
Create in me a clean heart, O God,
And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
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RE: Fiance brutally raped/severely beaten!!! - 11/11/2009 2:36:18 PM
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AH1
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Things have me puzzled right now.
We were on schedule for my fiance to be here towards the end of the month after her first surgery.
Now there are 'delays' that are coming up. In my mind from what I've heard on the phone after talking with her, I feel as though there are people influencing her.
The room mates boyfriend is coming back from Iraq and he will be going there to take up residence. I'm very concerned as he is the one who refers to himself as my fiance's counselor/therapist.
To be honest, I feel like the wind has been let out of my sails. I think the so called 'counselor' has influenced her and has said things in a negative way.
I really don't even want him to be around her. He has his own agenda and my heart tells me that he is trying to say/do things to influence her. He already informed me that when he gets there - HE will be the head of the household where my fiance is staying and that all decisions and other things will go through HIM. It's not right and my fiance is so impressionable. She doesn't need someone like this in her life. He has an inflated ego and I feel he will influence my fiance's brother too - who was also prior military.
I don't like it and I don't know what to do. I really don't know what to say to her because my heart tells me that when the room mate's boyfriend gets there he is going to go ahead with his plans and it just doesn't sound very good.
He told me some time ago that when he gets out of the military he will proceed with his plans and 'counseling' with my fiance. (He's not educated nor trained as a counselor or therapist and I really don't want him around her at all.)
Pray that the Holy Spirit will soften her heart and let her go ahead with the plans that we have made and that people who are interfering in our relationship will be removed from the picture.
My dear mother is also feeling sad about the situation as her and my dad have set things up so my fiance would be able to stay there when she moves back. My mother also senses that there are outside influences and that people are meddling and interfering with things that shouldn't be. Too many people on a 'social website' are talking and saying things they shouldn't be as well.
My family and me are confused about things now. Plans are seeming to halt when they were going ahead nicely up until just recently. Something has entered in to the picture (negatively) and it doesn't even feel right within my spirit. My mom feels the same way. People are filling her mind with too many things right now. She needs to get out of there. Pray she will get the cell phone I sent her activated and no more delays/excuses.
Please continue to pray for us and that my fiance will go ahead with plans of coming back here soon and get away from that household and the environment that she is in.
Pray that her headaches and pain will subside and that she wont need to have the risky brain surgery.
Not sure how to pray right now, but my heart tells me that she needs to come here and go ahead with counseling and working on our relationship and not being where she is and getting under the influence of someone who is not a counselor/therapist.
Thank you again for your fervent prayers. We do need it so much right now and in the days ahead.
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