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Pressure - 9/15/2009 2:03:08 PM
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QueenB12
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I've noticed the older i get before and after my period i feel like a pressure cooker. Like my body want something i can't have til marriage. I feel like an alien sometimes. does anyone knows what i'm talking about?
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RE: Pressure - 9/15/2009 3:46:18 PM
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You'll probably get better responses over in "Women Only". I'm pretty sure the mods will handle that for you.
(This was posted while topic was in singles)
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RE: Pressure - 9/15/2009 4:19:34 PM
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Yeah. I know.
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RE: Pressure - 9/16/2009 2:22:19 PM
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FallenOaks
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It's difficult enough being a woman going thru the changes of life. My hormones are so imbalanced and my husband just doesn't understand that we are no longer 20ish. He actually thinks it's all my problem and wants me to continuously see the Dr. Never has he thought that perhaps he is the problem. We all know that when a woman is taken care of, she wants to take care of her man. I finally told him the other day that the only time he wants me to be a woman was in bed and then be a man out of the bed. We were helping our daughter move and he thought I should lift as much as he does. Young women please take note that as you get older EVERYTHING changes. Women, take care of yourselves and I know that is sometimes the most difficult thing to do but if I could do things over again, that is one thing that would happen. I would definitely take time for myself.
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RE: Pressure - 9/16/2009 3:10:02 PM
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FallenOaks
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He won't go to a counselor, costs money. I don't mean to sound like I am bashing him all the time. I'm just being honest. I went to a counselor on my own and with the questions she asked, she immediately told me that he was not a confident person and very insecure. Believe me, I try to be very understanding with him. I have honestly tried and tried in loving ways to let him know that the way he acts and his attitude are so hurtful. He never thinks he does any wrong seriously. He blames me for even the smallest of things such as last night he wanted to use the computer which I did everything for him except fill out an application. He became so frustrated because the computer was so slow that he shut it down and cursed. I have and will continue to be the wife God expects me to be. In many cases, others would have walked out on a marriage like this but I believe God does have a purpose and that all things would together for good. I am not perfect but I have no regrets trying to be patient with him. If I say that the sky is cloudy, he says it is sunny. Things have changed in small ways and I know that God hands are directing it.
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RE: Pressure - 10/5/2009 12:22:59 AM
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ORIGINAL: QueenB12
I've noticed the older i get before and after my period i feel like a pressure cooker. Like my body want something i can't have til marriage. I feel like an alien sometimes. does anyone knows what i'm talking about?
Yes, I understand too. Hang in there! I find when I'm lonely it's the worst, but when I feel connected to people it's easier to handle (not gone, just easier), so I try to work on my family relationships and friendships; at least that helps a little.
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for you!!!
Also, it sounds to me like it might be beneficial if you and your husband got some kind of marital counseling...since from your posts it appears that there is a lack of grace, mercy and compassion in your marriage, from both of you.
