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Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/24/2009 8:23:55 PM   
flowerz


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My hubby has a couple of female coworkers who invited him to be his friend on facebook, and he thoughtfully asked me how I felt about it. These are women that he said have flirted with him, even though they are supposed to be Christians. What do you think?
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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/24/2009 8:26:25 PM   
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I don't want any of my coworkers on my facebook page.. but in your case it doesn't sound like they need to be on there so I'd ignore it.
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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/24/2009 8:42:55 PM   
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Do it the easy way... Share a Facebook account with your husband and play on there together.
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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/24/2009 8:42:58 PM   
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FB is for social connection...if you wouldn't want to connect with them in a social connection type of way (invite them to your house for dinner, go out with them and hang out, etc), then there is no need for them to be his or your friends on fb.

In your case...trouble waiting to happen IMO.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/24/2009 9:07:23 PM   
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If it bothers you, tell your husband and ask him not to befriend them on Facebook.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/25/2009 7:01:08 AM   
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1) I never friend people I am working with
2) I have associates that are guys friended simply because they are part of an old network of actors I have performed with. Got to stay connected in the arts field as with many other fields.
3)anyone who I dated in the past is never friended
4) anyone that makes m'love uncomfortable is never friended.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/25/2009 11:53:51 AM   
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Thanks for your thoughts. My husband decided not to "friend" them for my sake.
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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/25/2009 12:13:06 PM   
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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/25/2009 12:15:35 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Harvie

If it bothers you, tell your husband and ask him not to befriend them on Facebook.


I agree. Dh and a guy friend connect with me because dh doesn't have an FB. I didn't think anything of it untill after a few months dh told me that he thought it wasn't appropriate for me to have his friend on my list. I took him off and thought it was cute. He wasn't bossy or mean about it and I didn't even question him because of the relationship we have. It bothered him for some reason and I can go along with that.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/25/2009 12:39:01 PM   
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I have some of my friends hubby's on fb and my hubby doesn't have any issue with it (Donna's hubby for instance)...or old friends from my growing up years. But then some other men, I or he just don't feel right about, so I don't add them.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/26/2009 7:05:08 AM   
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good call on your hubby's part! Good man.

My husband is always very careful to even avoid the appearance of inappropriateness. Any female friends he has on facebook are either old co-workers, old church friends or family. All are okay with me.
The male friends I have are the same categories. A couple are old high school friends, and are okay with him.

I do have his commander on my friends list, which is kinda funny.

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RE: Facebook friends & hubby's coworkers - 9/26/2009 10:33:14 PM   
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This right here makes these women unsuitable friends for your dh, on Facebook or anywhere else:

quote:

These are women that he said have flirted with him, even though they are supposed to be Christians.


Glad he consulted you and honored your request.

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