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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/15/2009 11:43:26 AM   
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The Bible makes it clear that no one is to divorce for the reason of marrying another as did the people in the posts befere tha last one.My husbands ex did that, but she actually never got asked to marry by her lover, but that was her desire when she divorced her then husband, and she is a Christians as well. It amazes me what some Christians will do and justify in direct disobedience to the Bible.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/15/2009 12:47:42 PM   
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Your wrong this time, and I'm not alone here. Jer. 3:14 states it very clearly:Jer 3:14 Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you.

This He said, After He (poetically) put them away.

How did you miss this?

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A quick check of just one other version would reveal the difficulty inherent in your argument. Here is this same verse from the NASB.

'Return, O faithless sons,' declares the LORD; 'For I am a master to you, And I will take you one from a city and two from a family, And I will bring you to Zion.' (Jer 3:14 NAU)

While it is true that sometimes the root "Ba'al" used in this passage can refer to a husband, often it refers simply to a master or owner i.e. the owner of a hotel is a also a "Ba'al"; this is also the name of the false God in the OT.

Additionally, God himself has declared that the restored Israel won't be called a Master/"Ba'al" but instead he will be called a "husband" Ho. 2:16



Another use of the "many" so called versions being employed to support speculative semantics, false teachings ... God is the husband of Israel, was the Husband of Israel, and will be the Husband of Israel regardless of your personal opinion to deny that truth. God never forsook Israel ... He patiently awaits their return and restoration.


This is the version I used when I looked it up:

ùÑåáå áðéí ùÑåááéí ðàíÎéäåä ëé àðëé áòìúé áëí åì÷çúé àúëí àçã îòéø åùÑðéí îîùÑôçä åäáàúé àúëí öéåï

and

åäéä áéåíÎääåà ðàíÎéäåä ú÷øàé àéùÑé åìàÎú÷øàéÎìé òåã áòìé

If you would like to stop quoting from one of the "many" translations, and stick to the original text, I am open to hearing you try to explain the false claim you have made. I have bolded the relevant parts of these verses.


Mr. Benelchi,

The Hebrew scholars I enjoined for the English translation of Jer. 3:14 are 400 years your senior, and held in honor by a nation and it's king. Your personal translation may be wanting in comparison and does little to prevent subject semantics.

2Pe 1:20 Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.

All for His Glory ... huckfinn


First of all, I did not offer you a "private interpretation", I quoted from the NASB; however, if you believe that using an older translation gives a translation more authority then here is the same verse from the Geneva Bible, a bible a little older than the one you quoted from.

"O yee disobedient children, turne againe, sayeth the Lord, for I am your Lord, and I will take you one of a citie, and two of a tribe and wil bring you to Zion, (Jer 3:14 GNV)"

The reality is that even the KJV translators would have avoided the mistake of using this verse to support the doctrinal statement you have made.


Benelchi,

You are "fully" aware of the academics that see God speaking metaphorically (poetically) to His wife, Israel, in Jer. 3:1. You have "confessed" in earlier posts that you have personal difficulties with the "abomination" of Deut. 24:1-4. You are also knowledgable of the fact that the context of Deut.24:1-4 "primarily" deals with the prohibition of a certain remarriage that was an abomination. In Jer. 3:1 we have God requesting that He and Israel commit that abomination. That should be "enough" to persuade for a symbolic metaphor; and that God "never" divorced His beloved wife, Israel. I believe that those who take this view, including myself, have a perfectly legitimate right to do so; and that honest academics would support my right to take this view, even is they see it otherwise. I am personally disturbed by your insistence to see yourself as the only correct person in a debate.

Here are a few other verses that support the God-Is-Not-A-Divorce' position:

Jer 3:1 They say, If a man put away his wife, and she go from him, and become another man's, shall he return unto her again? shall not that land be greatly polluted? but thou hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet return again to me, saith the LORD.

Jer 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.

Jer 2:2 Go and cry in the ears of Jerusalem, saying, Thus saith the LORD; I remember thee, the kindness of thy youth, the love of thine espousals, when thou wentest after me in the wilderness, in a land that was not sown.

Jer 31:32 Not according to the covenant that I made with their fathers in the day that I took them by the hand to bring them out of the land of Egypt; which my covenant they brake, although I was an husband unto them, saith the LORD:

Isa 54:5 For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.

Hos 2:19 And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies.

Hos 2:20 I will even betroth thee unto me in faithfulness: and thou shalt know the LORD.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/15/2009 3:38:03 PM   
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evry.... thanks for your post... it demonstrates how serious the issue of divorce is.

I think though, that the pain stems from divorce, not just the marriage after.


I think often it is a culmination of both. It all depends on the situation, I guess.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/16/2009 9:18:57 AM   
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Lol, funny.

I'm a woman. My parents are still married, my in-laws are still married, I'm very happily married (all first marriages), and I'm not obsessive about this one and only subject. And I may present my view occasionally on here as this *is* the divorce and remarriage thread, but honestly I don't care what anyone else thinks or does. That's between them and God, and it's not up to me to change any-one's mind. But I am free to post my opinion on MDR in a thread that is devoted to the subject.


Thank the Lord your family isn't riddles with divorces. You are so blessed, my sister
But You should never say You don't care nor that it isn't your responsibility because if You are in Christ, You are your brothers and sisters keeper; The word of God says so.
Yes, we are free to post our opinion. It becomes an issue when it is more about our opinion than what God says. We must be balanced not tossed to and fro. Feet planted firmly in God's word of truth. We have to established sound doctrine.

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yes but I wouldn't consider your views as out of balance(from what I can remember). and you are not one of those who rarely, if ever, posts on any other subject.
I have to say though that my views on divorce and remarriage based on what I read in The Bible were the same before my own divorce as they are now, and that is that under certain circumstances God allows divorce.

By the way if you have no divorces in your family you are truly blessed. I have loads in mine.(Most of them caused by affairs).


Amen !!
My family is half and half. Some divorced because of adultery or physical abuse others were able to overcome and stay together. I have seen God work any many ways to fix and restore marriages to people around me in general.
In the end none of us will ever really understand why God works the way he does sometimes, but isn't it wonderful how it always works out for our good and God's glory


I don't mean that I don't care about people - I do mean that I'm going to present what I think, but not get into a debate that raises my blood pressure and causes me to get all het up about something, when really it's between that person and God. You see, the problem with debating is that people are on here to change the 'other' camp's mind on the issue, and fair enough, but I've had enough experience in life to realise that unless a person is truly seeking your opinion on something, then they're probably not interested in hearing it anyway, and to try and 'force' or 'prove' to a person why they should agree with you, just doesn't work. So yes, I care, but am not naive enough to think that forcing a person to accept a view other than their own, will work.


Oh, and 1956ford was also a woman.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/16/2009 11:18:51 AM   
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I don't mean that I don't care about people - I do mean that I'm going to present what I think, but not get into a debate that raises my blood pressure and causes me to get all het up about something, when really it's between that person and God. You see, the problem with debating is that people are on here to change the 'other' camp's mind on the issue, and fair enough, but I've had enough experience in life to realise that unless a person is truly seeking your opinion on something, then they're probably not interested in hearing it anyway, and to try and 'force' or 'prove' to a person why they should agree with you, just doesn't work. So yes, I care, but am not naive enough to think that forcing a person to accept a view other than their own, will work.



North, that is so true. They do come here to change people's minds. I come for the scripture and research and to see what everyone thinks.

That is one thing I just don't get too. Why do some give scripture to back up what they say but when you give scripture that says "hey wait a minute, did you see this?", they get upset and say "NONONONO!"


I have seen that a lot with those completely opposed to divorce and remarriage. They will accept any scripture that supports them in their rigidness. but they refuse scripture that says divorce is allowed for specific reasons and remarriage is allowed for specific reasons and that God should be glorified in all things not just the ones they support.

I have went from one side of this camp to the other and found that God's will for divorce/remarriage is in the middle.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/16/2009 2:45:32 PM   
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I don't mean that I don't care about people - I do mean that I'm going to present what I think, but not get into a debate that raises my blood pressure and causes me to get all het up about something, when really it's between that person and God. You see, the problem with debating is that people are on here to change the 'other' camp's mind on the issue, and fair enough, but I've had enough experience in life to realise that unless a person is truly seeking your opinion on something, then they're probably not interested in hearing it anyway, and to try and 'force' or 'prove' to a person why they should agree with you, just doesn't work. So yes, I care, but am not naive enough to think that forcing a person to accept a view other than their own, will work.




Just to carry on where I left off (as I didn't have the time earlier)...

I'm not entirely untouched by divorce...my SIL (professing Christian) is remarried and probably about to leave that marriage, my cousin was divorced by the age of 21, now living with someone else, my aunt is remarried...though my cousin and aunt are most definitely not Christians.

The other thing that God has really been showing me lately, is that before I tell someone else they've got it (whatever *it* happens to be) wrong, is that I'd better make pretty sure that I'm up to scratch myself.

For example, I may not be divorced and remarried, but if I tell people they're wrong to be that way, then I'd better make sure that I'm not a complainer, liar, cheat, thief, bitter or resentful, disrespectful to my own husband, bad mother to my children, etc etc. There's no point me picking specks out of other peoples' eyes when I may have a whole forest in my own, which I will be accountable for before God...

However, that doesn't change what I think about MDR, but it does just push me to remember that there is a real live person sitting on the other side of what I write, and that they have feelings, emotions, issues, backgrounds etc etc.

So I *try* to respectfully state what I think, all the while praying that God will renew my own heart and mind daily so that I become more conformed to the image of his Son.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/16/2009 6:42:52 PM   
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Benelchi,

You are "fully" aware of the academics that see God speaking metaphorically (poetically) to His wife, Israel, in Jer. 3:1.


Yes, but I am also aware that neither see those scholars who see this as a marriage or those who see this as simply an indication of Lordship see this as a "restored" marriage.

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You have "confessed" in earlier posts that you have personal difficulties with the "abomination" of Deut. 24:1-4. You are also knowledgable of the fact that the context of Deut.24:1-4 "primarily" deals with the prohibition of a certain remarriage that was an abomination.


And the "certain remarriage" that God calls an abomination is the exact same one that the MDR groups advocate!

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In Jer. 3:1 we have God requesting that He and Israel commit that abomination. That should be "enough" to persuade for a symbolic metaphor; and that God "never" divorced His beloved wife, Israel. I believe that those who take this view, including myself, have a perfectly legitimate right to do so; and that honest academics would support my right to take this view, even is they see it otherwise. I am personally disturbed by your insistence to see yourself as the only correct person in a debate.


Again, that is an interpretation rejected by many scholars, as indicated by the numerous translations that do not follow this interpretation.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/16/2009 6:51:35 PM   
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I just think it is very strange that many people cant accept that a divorce is the ending of a marriage. It is clear to me that Jesus recognised this, as in the story of the women at the well.He said "you have had 5 husbands" so that means that he recognised all of her divorces and all of her marriages. Its so simple.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/17/2009 7:26:12 AM   
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For example, I may not be divorced and remarried, but if I tell people they're wrong to be that way, then I'd better make sure that I'm not a complainer, liar, cheat, thief, bitter or resentful, disrespectful to my own husband, bad mother to my children, etc etc. There's no point me picking specks out of other peoples' eyes when I may have a whole forest in my own, which I will be accountable for before God...


I find this very honorable. If more people did this we'd have alot less divorces and this conversation would become more theory than practice.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/24/2009 11:42:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: northstar

I don't mean that I don't care about people - I do mean that I'm going to present what I think, but not get into a debate that raises my blood pressure and causes me to get all het up about something, when really it's between that person and God. You see, the problem with debating is that people are on here to change the 'other' camp's mind on the issue, and fair enough, but I've had enough experience in life to realise that unless a person is truly seeking your opinion on something, then they're probably not interested in hearing it anyway, and to try and 'force' or 'prove' to a person why they should agree with you, just doesn't work. So yes, I care, but am not naive enough to think that forcing a person to accept a view other than their own, will work.




Just to carry on where I left off (as I didn't have the time earlier)...

I'm not entirely untouched by divorce...my SIL (professing Christian) is remarried and probably about to leave that marriage, my cousin was divorced by the age of 21, now living with someone else, my aunt is remarried...though my cousin and aunt are most definitely not Christians.

The other thing that God has really been showing me lately, is that before I tell someone else they've got it (whatever *it* happens to be) wrong, is that I'd better make pretty sure that I'm up to scratch myself.

For example, I may not be divorced and remarried, but if I tell people they're wrong to be that way, then I'd better make sure that I'm not a complainer, liar, cheat, thief, bitter or resentful, disrespectful to my own husband, bad mother to my children, etc etc. There's no point me picking specks out of other peoples' eyes when I may have a whole forest in my own, which I will be accountable for before God...

However, that doesn't change what I think about MDR, but it does just push me to remember that there is a real live person sitting on the other side of what I write, and that they have feelings, emotions, issues, backgrounds etc etc.

So I *try* to respectfully state what I think, all the while praying that God will renew my own heart and mind daily so that I become more conformed to the image of his Son.


Northstar,

I have read every posting in this thread from the beginning and really appreciate how loving, patient and gentle you have been while being firm for the truth on these matters. I have not seen you be anything less for all the years you have posted here and elsewhere in defence of Christian morality. If I had to make a decision on the MDR issue based upon who has demonstrated the most Christlike spirit in their writings, your position would win. Just like your Northstar name, you have remained constant, bright and true no matter which storms pass through. I just thought that someone should tell you that, and thank you for your faithfulness. You have helped me to understand what you teach and I appreciate it deeply and thank God for your good work.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/24/2009 1:10:39 PM   
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No but they do mention adultery, at least I Cor. 6. I Corinthians 5 mentions immorality. Now if you take it that remarriage constitutes adultery , and adultery is immoral, then you should understand.



However, the bible doesn't say that ALL remarriage is "adultery", nor does it ever say that marriages that began adulterously remain continually adulterous forever. Even the early church did not teach that repentance required divorce. What the bible does clearly say (Du. 24:1-4) is that someone who has divorced and remarried another may not divorce again and return to their first spouse. And this biblical teaching is almost universally ignored by those who teach that all remarriages require divorce for repentance.

Wow, you just answered a question I've had for a long time. I was taught the opposite in church growing up and it NEVER made sense to me that one would be committing adultery every day they stayed with their second spouse. The breaking up of the second marriage to go back to the first also made no sense to me. Thank you for backing you statement up with scripture.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/27/2009 6:28:57 PM   
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Why is the woman “bound” of Law?

In Rom 7:1 it says the reason something or someone is bound of “law” if one “lords over” the other. Paul says upon marriage a woman becomes “bound of law” to her husband 1 Cor 7:39.

Paul uses both, the design of woman and the punishment on all woman-kind to explain the rule of man…

In 1 Cor 14:34 it states ALL women are to be “silent” in the church (shameful for any woman to speak in church) due to the rule of husband over the woman in Gen 3:16 due to “submission” of the wife. But Paul latter says in 1 Tim 2:11-13 that ALL women are to be “silent” in the church and to be “submissive” to ALL men due to the Design of order of the women “Adam was formed first then Eve”. We know 1 Tim 2:13 is referring to ALL women by Paul saying in 1 Cor 11:3 that man in general is the “head” of “every” women (married or unmarried, fathered or single) by design for she was made in the “glory” of man vs. 7. Paul also stated latter repeating the idea of 1 Tim 11:13 of Adam and Eve by saying the man was not made “for” the woman but woman was made “for the man” 1 Cor 11:9.

So why is she bound to him for his life? Because she is bound to a “law” to him that was set up by God from the beginning that a divorce was never intended to release her from that principle. But the Law of divorce Deut 24:1 was only designed to allow the man to marry another in her place.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/28/2009 3:03:31 PM   
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Is it 'OK' to marry again after divorce? Of course. Besides, not my business anyway.

Is it 'OK' to be "anything" after divorce? "See above"
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 2:20:08 PM   
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quote:

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For example, I may not be divorced and remarried, but if I tell people they're wrong to be that way, then I'd better make sure that I'm not a complainer, liar, cheat, thief, bitter or resentful, disrespectful to my own husband, bad mother to my children, etc etc. There's no point me picking specks out of other peoples' eyes when I may have a whole forest in my own, which I will be accountable for before God...


noted.

question for you:

if someone you loved were stealing or commiting homosexual acts or if someone were abusing your daughter...would you say anything then especially if they came to? you still have that log in your eye as do i. it is interesting though isn't it how we will say some things to some people and not other things.

would you tell someone that murder were wrong? would you tell someone that idolatry is wrong? if you were in a discussion where someone asked you to take a stand or to present what you believe, what would you say? we are in a forum that's existence is for us to discuss 1)what the Word says about issues and 2)sometimes people put in what they believe regardless of the Word.

when we are told to not even keep company with some

1 Corinthians 5:11
But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

...you must recognize that they are an fornicator, etc. despite the log in your eye. recognizing and realizing we are not perfect does not mean we are to not have wisdom or discernment. we can call sin sin and do so in love.

love y'all
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 2:21:56 PM   
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Is it 'OK' to marry again after divorce? Of course. Besides, not my business anyway.

Is it 'OK' to be "anything" after divorce? "See above"



where does Jesus say this?

btw, isn't it your business? you are a child of God, and God's Word applies to you. right?
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 2:39:42 PM   
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it is OK and isnt adultery if we marry after a divorce for sexual immorality but of course this has ben said millions of times here.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 4:22:33 PM   
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quote:

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For example, I may not be divorced and remarried, but if I tell people they're wrong to be that way, then I'd better make sure that I'm not a complainer, liar, cheat, thief, bitter or resentful, disrespectful to my own husband, bad mother to my children, etc etc. There's no point me picking specks out of other peoples' eyes when I may have a whole forest in my own, which I will be accountable for before God...


noted.

question for you:

if someone you loved were stealing or commiting homosexual acts or if someone were abusing your daughter...would you say anything then especially if they came to? you still have that log in your eye as do i. it is interesting though isn't it how we will say some things to some people and not other things.

would you tell someone that murder were wrong? would you tell someone that idolatry is wrong? if you were in a discussion where someone asked you to take a stand or to present what you believe, what would you say? we are in a forum that's existence is for us to discuss 1)what the Word says about issues and 2)sometimes people put in what they believe regardless of the Word.

when we are told to not even keep company with some

1 Corinthians 5:11
But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.

...you must recognize that they are an fornicator, etc. despite the log in your eye. recognizing and realizing we are not perfect does not mean we are to not have wisdom or discernment. we can call sin sin and do so in love.

love y'all


The answer is yes to all your questions. I'm just saying that it's important to remember that my own life must be impeccable too, and not just to think that it's only other people who are sinning and not me, and to point the finger at them without shining the flashlight inwards too.

In the church dh and I attended in the last country we lived in, a foundation of fellowship was written up which was basically founded on a moral basis, saying that certain things were not acceptable and this included, but was not limited to, people who are in a remarriage after divorce situation. This was part of the 'foundation of fellowship', and half the congregation left...so yes, that includes the remarriage after divorce question too.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 4:54:52 PM   
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I would not tell someone that divorce and remarriage is wrong if they were cheated on, as that isnt what the Bible says. Also I would NEVER tell anyone that they must divorce their second spouse and go back to their first spouse becuase the Bible tells us that IS wrong.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/30/2009 6:54:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KaptZ

Is it 'OK' to marry again after divorce? Of course. Besides, not my business anyway.

Is it 'OK' to be "anything" after divorce? "See above"



where does Jesus say this?

btw, isn't it your business? you are a child of God, and God's Word applies to you. right?


"Z" says this.

I like to think God and I have a ongoing conversation about a lot of things. Judging other people's private lives hasn't come up yet.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 12:32:27 AM   
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I would not tell someone that divorce and remarriage is wrong if they were cheated on, as that isnt what the Bible says. Also I would NEVER tell anyone that they must divorce their second spouse and go back to their first spouse becuase the Bible tells us that IS wrong.


neither would most if not all of the world and most of the church.

the Bible does not say 'divorce' from an adulterous realtionship is wrong. the remarriage is adultery not marriage as one flesh. the Bible does say remarriage is adultery..and the Bible also says we should not commit adultery.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 1:02:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Isaiah331516

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ORIGINAL: herestoresmysoul

I would not tell someone that divorce and remarriage is wrong if they were cheated on, as that isnt what the Bible says. Also I would NEVER tell anyone that they must divorce their second spouse and go back to their first spouse becuase the Bible tells us that IS wrong.


neither would most if not all of the world and most of the church.

the Bible does not saying 'divorce' from and adulterous realtionship is wrong. the remarriage is adultery not marriage as one flesh. the Bible does say remarriage is adultery..and the Bible also says we should not commit adultery.


If your spouse cheats on you the marriage covenant is broken, dissolved, done. If you are not in covenant to that first marriage why would you not be free to make another covenant with another person? Israel broke tons of covenants with God, but He made new ones. If you break that covenant or cheat you are going to reap the consequences as did Israel. The innocent party/victim is free and not bound to the former covenant.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 1:45:33 AM   
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why do you say the covenant is broken? Jesus said only moses allowed divorce and that "from the beginning" referring to God, it wasn't so. He then contiues that is a man marries a divorced woman he is commiting adultery. this is one of serveral scriptures that refers to this and says this. additionally, specifically to the woman, paul says that she is to remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband.

the only place i foresee you getting the "allowed due to cheating" is matthew when Jesus says to the jews who also practiced betrothal btw (big factor here) he says only to the man that except for the cause of fornication a man who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery. in no other gospel is that written.

even so, ...
their is a distinction between women and men to God and therefore to us who love Him. God said man is to be head over the woman. that doesn't get switched around and neither does this. the man is the head of his wife until he dies, this is also why a widow can remarry as stated in the Bible.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 5:41:48 AM   
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their is a distinction between women and men to God and therefore to us who love Him. God said man is to be head over the woman. that doesn't get switched around and neither does this. the man is the head of his wife until he dies, this is also why a widow can remarry as stated in the Bible.


The bible was written in/during a patriarchal society which is a social system in which the father is head of the household who had authority over women and children. Everything was governed by males, and men were considered dominate. Women didn't go to work, and their schooling was different. All titles were traced through the male line, too. This is still practiced in the Middle East but not in most of the westernized world. This doesn't mean that God's law pertains or it more applicable to woman more than men. The words and letters Paul wrote reflected the social system at the time.

There are posts that provide the scriptural basis for knowing/believing that the innocent spouse is free to marry again. For me to run through all of those again would be redundant.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 6:35:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: herestoresmysoul

I would not tell someone that divorce and remarriage is wrong if they were cheated on, as that isnt what the Bible says. Also I would NEVER tell anyone that they must divorce their second spouse and go back to their first spouse becuase the Bible tells us that IS wrong.


neither would most if not all of the world and most of the church.

the Bible does not say 'divorce' from an adulterous realtionship is wrong. the remarriage is adultery not marriage as one flesh. the Bible does say remarriage is adultery..and the Bible also says we should not commit adultery.

The Bible says that remarriage after a divorce for sexual immorality is NOT adultery.Jesus himself says that.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 10/31/2009 12:07:03 PM   
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He does not.
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