9 Things to Do before You Complain about Your Church or Pastor

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This article leans heavily toward restraint, patience, and internal reflection, but Scripture also commands direct, even public confrontation of sin when necessary.

That balance is critical, and this is where the article is somewhat incomplete.

Consider the other side, the paradoxical side.

Matthew 18:15[1]

This supports private, careful engagement, which the article reflects well.

But then:

1 Timothy 5:20[2]

This applies specifically to elders and shows that public accountability is not only permitted but commanded in certain cases.

Also..

Acts 17:11[3]

This means believers are not called to passive acceptance or excessive deference, but active doctrinal testing.

So here is the precise evaluation..

What is biblical in the article.
It rightly emphasizes prayer before reaction.
It rightly calls for humility and self-examination.
It encourages constructive rather than destructive engagement.
It promotes unity and grace within the body.

What is underdeveloped or potentially misleading..

It can tilt toward discouraging necessary confrontation.
It does not sufficiently stress doctrinal accountability.
It does not clearly distinguish between minor preferences and serious sin or false teaching.
It risks being used to silence legitimate biblical correction if misapplied.

That last point matters. Scripture never teaches “do not complain,” but rather regulates how and when concerns are raised. There is a difference between sinful grumbling, ~Philippians 2:14, and righteous rebuke grounded in truth.

So my conclusion is careful and balanced, and biblical.

The article is broadly biblical in tone and many of its exhortations are sound, but it is not a complete biblical framework.

It must be supplemented with the full New Testament teaching on correction, especially regarding elders, doctrine, and sin in the church.

So what’s it going to be…three strikes and I’m out?

Correction, confrotation of sin, doctrines not really an Imperative? Especially IN the ekklesia?

J.

  1. If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. - ESV ↩︎

  2. As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in fear. - ESV ↩︎

  3. Now these Jews were more noble than those in Thessalonica; they received the word with all eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see if these things were so. - ESV ↩︎

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