I don’t have advice for this area, but I do have prayer to give. 
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Thank you, I really appreciate it. 
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To: evrybody who have been abused, I pray that God protect you n’ also open your heart for you can forgive your abuser. Because, FORGIVENESS & LOVE; is the LANGUAGE OF HEAVEN If you’re not ready to speak the LANGUAGE OF HEAVEN while on EARTH, then you’re not ready for HEAVEN.
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appreciate you little bro! 
you know better then most my situation having been there listening to me throughout. helping build me up, and think about the red flags, you saw them before me
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When I was in university, I took a sociology course, and my research paper was about domestic abuse perpetrated on men by their female partners. It was eye-opening to say the least, and I really upset a lot of “feminists” in the class. I researched it because I was curious, and the information I found just blew my mind. I never though that men could be victims of domestic violence. Society doesn’t allow men a voice sometimes, and if they are crying out for help because the woman in their life is abusive, they are shamed. By the police, by their friends, and even family, for not being “man” enough. Some men died at the hands of their partners (female) even though they had repeatedly called the police, tried to get peace bonds or restraining orders, or help. Just help.
While it may not be a popular discussion topic, domestic violence against men by their female partners is startlingly high. I excluded homosexual partnerships from my research because there were too many variables, but even a quick investigation into those statistics was shocking.
Domestic violence is like a nasty, deep, mucky river. You might pull things out of the water that will shock you, that you just can’t believe is real, and your mouth will turn down in disgust, but also in recognition. We all have the capability to do real harm to others.
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Sometimes it isn’t the shame in it, in my situation it was complete denial out of my love for the person. I could tell someone I just met as was my situation with @mkythegreat2026 when we first started talking, she was all I talked about he pointed out about 10 red flags the first day, I was blind to it.
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Praying you will continue to get your life on track and keep on thriving. As really you have come so far in life and really leaning on the Lord is the first and foremost step.
Hope you can find a person who has your interests in common and will be there for you and you for that person! Praying you will have so much care, love, and support coming your way my friend.
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Thank you so much, I appreciate it, I’m almost “over” the situation/relatonship, still hits me at times, I know I won’t be going back to her, reached that decison firmly this past week.
God will lead me to the right person I truly believe that.
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Ahhhhh…interesting. I would call it obsession, not love. Love is unconditional, and you might love others that way, but I find that most people have conditions to love. Unconditional love, for humans, would be how we love our children. I love my kids with everything I have, here on earth, and would die for them, no doubt. That’s how God love us! It took me a lifetime to figure that out lol.
I’ve been “in love” and tolerated all kinds of crap from the person I loved, only to realize that it wasn’t love. It was anything but love..the kind of love the Father has for us..and usually it was because I was trying to fill a void in my life that no human could fill. The love I have for my family..which is growing..is the kind of love I was seeking in a human partner but no one could fill that void - until Jesus.
So, if you’re looking for love look to Jesus first. Let Him fill you up with His love, THEN share it with others. But make your boundaries clear. Paint those lines thick and don’t let anyone cross them. It took me my entire adult life to be able to do that but now I can say I truly love others.
I’m probably not helping but I’m trying
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i think men repress alot of things to the point it can become abuse of self. -DP @BetterDays
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