Please help me not say words or act vindictively when I’m hurting so intensely. I detest hatred, it’s counterproductive, but I can feel it inside me situationally. Remind me in my pain and anxiety that although my husband of 28 years doesn’t love me anymore that God and others still do. He is hurtful and selfish but I am worth loving. Let me feel an overfill of care and compassion from others who support me and let that smother the hurt, fear, disappointment, rejection, and anger inside me. In Jesus’s name I pray for healthy healing. Amen.
Follow the example of Jesus who on the cross did not forgive his executioners, but Prayed to his Father that he would forgive them.
In the same way tell God all about your situation, about the hateful words, your pain and feelings, the way your x has and is treating you and ask God to deal with him and with your feelings.
Do continue to pray for your x’s well being.
And I pray that you might really know that love of God that is so wide, high, deep and long that we can not comprehend it.
Praying for you! May God give you the strength and healing you need. He sees you!
Amen to your heartfelt prayer. Remember, Ephesians 4:31-32 encourages us to “let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
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