Very nice articles but most of them are written by people who are happily married with children etc etc. All their suggestions seem so shallow and glib when you’ve lost someone. Like me, I lost my husband of 45 years so all these words are just that, words on paper. God’s plan for me? I thought I was on the right track but maybe not. Losing my husband has made me think that I was wrong all this time and if God really has a plan for me then yeah I need him to autocorrect and bring me back because I have so many doubts right now and it’s scary. We had no children, I have no family within 3,000 mi so I am alone and I’m scared and I’m doubting.