In Romans 12, the Apostle writes,
Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
This is just one example of course. But I think it’s a good place to start.
I remember a sermon by Martin Luther King Jr, The Drum Major Instinct.
In the sermon it addresses when James and John came to Jesus privately and asked that they sit on His right and left when He comes into His kingdom. What follows is, naturally, the erroneous thinking the brothers had about what sort of kingdom Jesus was about. But King ends up saying,
Yes, Jesus, I want to be on your right or your left side, (Yes) not for any selfish reason. I want to be on your right or your left side, not in terms of some political kingdom or ambition. But I just want to be there in love and in justice and in truth and in commitment to others, so that we can make of this old world a new world.
Not having a seat in power, but in humility, in recognizing that the kingdom of God is about leastness, not greatness. That it’s not about having a position at the top, but at the bottom. Yes we should desire to be at Jesus’ side, but Jesus chooses not to rule from the top like a general or an emperor, but Jesus rules from the bottom as the Lamb of God slain for the sins of the world.
Our God is not like the false gods of the nations. He is a God who gives Himself away in love–even to the point of death on the cross.
The Christian does not live by power, but by the apparent weakness of the Cross–and the reality is that the Cross is not defeat, but victory. Because God is so profoundly different than what we sinful human beings think about what is great and powerful.
We stand with Christ, as we walk in weakness, as we serve, not lord over; as we stand beside the hurting, as we look to find the broken places, the shadow places, and be light, and minister with the soothing balm and medicine of God’s Gospel, of His love and mercy. So we forgive, so we show mercy, so we do not hold grudges, so we bless and do not curse. When we find someone who hates us, we lift them up with love.
So radical is this calling to follow Jesus, that it should be the most dangerous way of all.