I am 70, retired, married 49 years. I am lonely in our marriage. I feel ignored a lot. My husband is not willing to talk on a deeper level. He spends all day and evenings in front of screens. He has become morbidly obese (130-150 lbs over his healthy weight range) and won’t do anything about it. My life is affected. I fear what will happen to him. It impacts our future. I am sad. I want a different life, not sitting around in silence. I don’t want to do for him what he should do for himself. I need help Thank you