My name is Andrea and I lost my son August 12th, 2026. He was my world.. I was the sole caregiver 247, 365.. He was all I had. I feel so lost. There are some days. I wish God would take me home. But then who would take care of my cats? And this is how I feel.
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Hello @Spacecadet. AKA Andrea. Please do not give up. Life can be hard, trying, and even feel overwhelming. However, as a child of God, you have nothing to fear. Heavenly Father, we lift up Andrea to You during this overwhelming valley of sorrow. Her heart is utterly broken, carrying a weight that feels too heavy to bear after losing her beloved son, and she feels her daily purpose. Lord, You see every tear she has shed and every moment of darkness she faces. You know the profound loneliness of a home that was once filled with 24/7 care, love, and devotion. In the moments when she feels completely lost, draw near to her gentle spirit. When the exhaustion makes her wish to be called home, remind her of Your presence and the quiet, essential purpose You still have for her here. Thank You, in the Name of Jesus, Amen!
Resources for Support and Healing. The depth of pain following the loss of a child, especially when you served as a dedicated, full-time caregiver, is profound. You do not have to carry this immense weight entirely by yourself. If you ever feel overwhelmed or feel like you cannot keep yourself safe, please reach out right away:
National Crisis & Suicide Lifeline: Call or text 988 (Available 24/7, free, and confidential).
Bereaved Parent Support Communities: The Compassionate Friends: A dedicated, compassionate organization offering online support groups, localized chapters, and specialized groups for parents who have lost a child of any age.
GriefShare: A faith-based grief recovery community offering local and online weekly support groups to help navigate the pain of losing a loved one.
Alive Alone: An organization specifically designed to offer connection, comfort, and network opportunities for parents who have lost an only child or all of their children.
Planning and Peace of Mind for Your Pets. Your cats are a vital link to your present, and caring for them is a powerful act of love. Knowing they are protected can provide comfort. Pet Trust & Guardianship Planning: Organizations like the Humane Society offer free guidance on establishing a “Pet Protection Agreement” or formal estate directives to ensure designated caregivers step in for your animals if needed.
Peace of Mind Programs: Many local animal rescues and national organizations feature formal agreements to guarantee lifetime care and rehoming for your pets should anything ever happen to you.
Hope any of this helps.
Peter
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God is always there to talk to. As a matter of fact, the apostle Paul told us, “Pray constantly” (1 Thessalonians 5:17).
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Spacecadet,
I know a little of what you are going through, I have lost three children as infants. That is my experience, but I do not know how old your child was, I imagine the older they get the more it hurts, and I am sorry for your pain.
This is what I told myself when mine died: Jesus said
Matthew 18:3-5 and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. (4) Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. (5) “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me,
and…
Matthew 19:14 but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”
In other words, your child is with God right now, and you will see him again. The pain is blinding, I know…for weeks I could not concentrate and work, I could not eat, I could barely sleep…all I could do was curl up in a ball on the couch or take long drives and just cry and pray - both help.
Crying is good, like Scripture says, there is a time to cry, and for you that time is now.
I will put you on my prayer list, that God would comfort you in this trying time…but keep that thought in mind - he is with Jesus right now, laughing, happy, and having a good time. Let that thought give you some comfort.
Prayers and blessings.
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