A neighbor #42 and her boyfriend is put to ruin me 1 way or another
She tells all the neighbors I watch her , i used to look out my window for different reasons
1 ) the police were there more than once , I know because their lights lit up our bedroom they’re raided more than once
2) my grandson worked late hours as a security guard and then would drive two hours to see his now hus wife
I would watch out the window for him to come home
Plus i would watch for my cat to come back so could bring him in for the night
Anyways , you can’t see across the street that far on the dark
I told my husband and he says you can’t
THIS woman stands in the road humiliate me , makes fun of me etc
She tries to get the neighbors to support her against me, ( some do ) even though they can’t see that side of my trailer from their place
One plain out lied and said i watched him and called me a B
I’M NOT WATCHING LOT #42 AND I’VE IGNORED THEM FOR 3 YEARS
SHE and her boyfriend try one thing after another to make me out a liar and ruin me !
I lived here for 33 years and NEVER had any trouble ! In fact im still friends with some of my neighbors rhat moved away
I live in a trailer park ,if both parties continue to fight , both get evicted !
No matter what i say I do this woman mak es me out a liar
Plus when she sees me doing something to help a neighbor, she tries to either mimic me with someone else and /or tries to tell the person I have wrong motives
PLEASE PRAY SHE GETS EVICTED , I CAN’T SLEEP ,I CRY AND TRY TO BE STRONG !
SHES relentless in trying to turn the neighbors against me and cause trouble !
Thanks and Love Glenda
I read your post with compassion. I have had some similar experiences in my life, and known others who have too.
Many year ago, I was having a problem with another person, and a strong mentor in my life asked me to do something that completely changed my situation. Believing the bible, he asked me to begin to pray regularly for this other person’s prosperity. I took up the challenge, and prayed upon every interaction that The Lord would bless him, that he would achieve his goals, that he would find happiness and comfort, and that he would generally prosper.
This is not a recipe, nor am I proposing this as having some guarantee. Only that my situation completely changed for the better, my anxiety was eliminated. I’m sure part of the miracle was what my prayers affected in me; I’m sure part, if not most of my relief came from my own change of mindset. But I can testify that the other person changed dramatically towards me as well. It was within only a few weeks that the other person was putting his arm around my shoulder and calling me “his little buddy”. That would have been unheard of only a few weeks back.
I am urging you to begin to pray for this person’s prosperity with all the sincerity you can muster. Pray because it is God’s will for you to do good, in His name, even to your enemies. I would love to hear how The Lord uses your prayers to release you from this bondage of anxiety and suffering.
Your friend
KP
Hey Sister,
I Pray for you that god‘s will to be done. I Pray he will keep you Safe.
I had the thought coming up that maybe God has a better Place for you.
If its that way I pray that he will lead you and comfort you.
Blessings to you Sister
John
Thank you for your prayers
Of course, I will pray for you and for your situation. However, as @KPuff alluded to, the Bible teaches us to pray for those who hurt us and for those who may spitefully use us.
It is Human nature to hold grudges. It just is. You have no idea how I was wronged. You do not understand what they did to me. I just can’t forgive them for this. I trusted them. I did nothing wrong. They used me, abused me, and mistreated me. How do I forgive them for that?
It is even harder for some to forgive those who misused them or wronged them, through no fault of their own. But that is what you must do. Especially as a child of God. Why? By forgiving them, you are condemning them to their own hands. You are condemning them to their own deeds. You are condemning them to their own words. You are unleashing the power of God Himself against them. You truly are.
The bottom line is simple. You forgive them because A, it is commanded by your Father to do so. B, because when you do, all the things you have done against God Himself can be forgiven. C, you give them over to God.
A, Your Father says so.
Matthew 18:21-22
"Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.”
Mark 11:25
“And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”
If you do not?
Matthew 6:15
“But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”
We sin every day. We even sin sins we do not even know we sin. We have all sinned. God, your Father, is Holy and just to forgive us daily. His grace abounds much more than our sin. However, if we decide that we will not forgive others that have sinned against us, then how will God justify forgiving us?
B. When you do, you allow God to justify forgiving you.
You show that you understand that you yourself are a sinner. You show God you understand you are imperfect and in need of forgiveness yourself. You humble yourself before God.
C. You give them over to God.
Romans 12:17-18
“Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
If you follow the Way. Follow God. Do what your Father tells you to do; you are walking in the Spirit. You will not wrong anyone. If you love God with all your heart, mind, and soul, and your neighbor as yourself, you will not steal from them. You will not cheat them. You will not use them. You will obviously not kill them. You will show them love.
By doing this, you become blameless. If they in turn abuse you in any way, THEY become the guilty ones. They will not just be wronging you, but they will be wronging GOD. They will not be offending you. They will be offending GOD. They will not be abusing you. They will be abusing GOD. Do you think HE will not repay?
"Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, "Vengeance is mine;
I will repay, saith the Lord."
When you fully understand it. When you claim it. You will live a more peaceful life. You will truly pray for, and mean it, those that wrong you. You will fully get it and pray, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” You see, when someone wrongs you, you have the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the Creator of all that ever was, is, or will be, God Himself, your Father, to turn to.
Those that wronged you? They got nothing. They have nowhere to turn. They have nothing they can do. When God turns His wrath upon someone or something, there is nowhere left to turn. Nowhere to run. Nowhere to hide. There is NOTHING. Instead of being angry with them or hating them, you should pity them. They are about to be devastated in ways only God can do. Or? Perhaps they will become saved?
Peter