Can unity and hierarchy coexist in a biblical marriage?
The idea of unity in marriage from Genesis 2:24 seems to contrast with the hierarchical roles suggested in Ephesians 5:23. This post explores how these principles coexist and invites discussion on interpreting these passages in the context of biblical marriage.
The Bible describes marriage as a union where “the two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24), emphasizing unity between spouses. Yet, Ephesians 5:23 says, “the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church.”
This raises questions about how oneness and hierarchy work together in marriage. Are these concepts complementary or conflicting? How do you interpret these passages in the context of a biblical marriage?
For further reading, check out this article on Crosswalk:
Hi,
May I say, you have the right verse. But you left out Paul’s complete instructions.
Ephesians 5:23-25 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; KJV
If the husband loves the wife " . . . even as Christ also loved the church . . . " , how hard should it be for the wife to accept that hierarchy?
Why do we follow Jesus?
He loves us.
He died for us.
He saved us
He forgives us.
Therefore we follow Him.
If the husband uses Jesus’ example, most women would have no problem following a man like that.
There isn’t one example of a “biblical” marriage. Marriages in that era were financial transactions and women were property.
I had a great marriage that was based on equality- not mysogeny. No woman with self respect or self esteem would enter a 2000 year old marriage format.
