Eager Learner Seeks Willing, Thoughtful Ear

Hello! My name is Faeryn. I am a PNW native, a mother, the finest purveyor of bad jokes you could ever hope to meet, and a loyal fan of the Pittsburgh Penguins hockey team.

I found your fine forum here when I did a web search for something like, “Christianity forum where I can ask tough questions”. I hope that conveys a bit about what it is I’m here for.

If I need to paint with a little more color, I want to find a person(s) that has an open mind to the concept that we all learn in different ways, and that can accept that my questions come from my desire to learn, to understand, and not ever manifest from criticism or for argument. I’ve learned sometimes the line between those places can get easily blurred.

I don’t want to step on any toes or show any disrespect. But I also believe that with a platform as vastly reaching as the internet, that there has to be someone out there that thinks not what I think, but how I think, and may be willing to answer, or try to answer, my questions.

I am grateful to be here and I look forward to speaking with all of you!

Love & Respect,
Faeryn

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Welcome to the community Faeryn. I’m glad you found us.

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Welcome Faeryn— I have a daughter, spelled Farron, but likely spoken the same. You’ll find here that most folks want to have their feelings and beliefs coddled and that ‘tough questions’ and sometimes almost any questions, are in some way disrespectful. But not all folks.

I’m always amazed, while disappointed when discussion forums discourage actual discussion. Good and honest questions deserve answers in kind.

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Thank you!!! I’m excited to be here and have had a wonderful experience already.

That’s crazy! I’ve never met another Faeryn, or Farron… How awesome! Maybe someday you’d thrill me and tell me how her name was chosen. That would be so interesting to hear!

I don’t know about here specifically, but the Internet at large is a lawless and dangerous place. It must be navigated with vigilance and careful footing. Trouble lurks… I can see what it’s done in a single generation. It’s scary.

But I’m not discouraged! Just very careful about how I allow myself to interact with it… And this seems to be quite a great way. :slight_smile:

L&R,
F

I don’t have a good, or even interesting story to tell. Her mother told me that she really liked the name Farron, and when I heard it, I liked it too.

I posted that song-- by Chris Stapleton “I’m a traveler” because I’m told that Farron (Faeryn) means ‘adventerous wanderer.’ Not in a Cain in the land of Nod, way— but in a free to fly, move 37 times, kind of way. :smirk:

Hi Faeryn,…ask away.:blush:
We only grow when we ask questions.
Sometimes we don’t like the answers, it doesn’t matter! Just accept it…, be One with it.
Our souls are old and eternal.
We all have the answers.
Just dare to ask the question!

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Greetings, Faeryn.

In my experience you will find all kinds. No matter what anyone says to you here or any where- be true to yourself.

In my opinion, questions are a sign of depth and a deep desire for truth. And there can’t be anything wrong with that. Unless a person has made their home in a house of cards. But even then, the truth sets us free.

But please do not take or accept any answer as Gospel Truth unless you have engaged it and made it your own. The best truth is lived in and tested to be sure it is sturdy, worthwhile and holds.

Again, my opinion.

With that said, if I may suggest something- some churches (not all) have social events where they freely explore various concepts of philosophy, psychology, and religions. I went to one such (Presibyterian) church way back in the mid2000s that met once a week at an Irish pub for what they called, Theology on Tap. We studied and practiced all kinds of interesting things together without a hostile religious spirit hovering over us.

I do not know you, but if that sounds appealing check out your local area for something similar. These online forums can only go so far. They can’t offer true human connection. And in the times we live in, it’s important to know who has your back.

Just be leery of cults. They are everywhere.

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Theology on Tap? Are you kidding me? What true follower of Jesus Christ would go to a BAR to listen to others, possibly drinking as well, not a Godly place but more of a secular worldly place to me

Hi Faeryn, so nice to meet you, I am always open to questions and I also am there for listening to you as well but I will ALWAYS back up what I say with scripture, be blessed and Shalom

Hopefully not alcoholics who don’t need the temptation, (we had other church groups where they could explore).
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Secular places are exactly where Jesus would be.

Mathew 11:19
The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’ But wisdom is proved right by her deeds.”

Don’t worry, no one is asking you to go. We don’t push people out of their comfort zone. This group was for people who have the freedom in Christ to question, explore, and to have their own thoughts, their own relationship with Christ.

As opposed to metaphorically living in a cage of ripped out Bible pages glued to the wall, where some Christians hide so afraid of being wrong, afraid of crossing a line and having God’s wrath unleashed upon them.

Children should feel loved and safe, not terrified of abusive parents. And the children of God are no different. There comes a point where you should leave an abusive house and find the Parent who loves you. Where you love yourself enough and know you deserve better experiences. Healing, encouraging experiences.

All of the Christian churches claim Christ. And they all preach the scripture. But…

Matthew 7:21-23 (ESV)

I Never Knew You

21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

Not every Church embodies Christ.

But how can this be? How can a Church be so decieved?

Mathew 13

13 This is why I speak to them in parables:

“Though seeing, they do not see;
though hearing, they do not hear or understand.

14 In them is fulfilled the prophecy of Isaiah:

“‘You will be ever hearing but never understanding;
you will be ever seeing but never perceiving.
15 For this people’s heart has become calloused;
they hardly hear with their ears,
and they have closed their eyes.
Otherwise they might see with their eyes,
hear with their ears,
understand with their hearts
and turn, and I would heal them.’[a]

Anybody can quote scripture. They can proclaim to know all the secrets hidden within. But LOVE is the KEY to the whole thing. How many times have I witnessed it (LOVE and RIGHT BEHAVIOR) being dissed and dismissed on this website and forsaken? Or confused for something else?

The detractors of the LOVE Gospel call it names to ridicule it… How does it go? A warm fuzzy Gospel? A social service Gospel? A social Justice Gospel? A Gospel that puts the needs of others first? As if God would disapprove. In the same manner that Christians were called Christian as an insult.

Some Christians think that all they need is to praise God for the murder of His Son. And if they speak the name of Jesus enough, throw out enough Scripture, then they are right with God. No wonder they fear hell fire and damnation so much. Not knowing the Word of Christ, or that what he actually taught matters too.

Mathew 23:15
"Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when he becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as you are.

(A Jew is born a Jew… Do they actually go looking for converts? Pharisees believed in the resurrection… So one would be wise to wonder who was Christ speaking to?)

Wisdom proves itself in the end.

The weeds are the lies, the truth is the wheat, and all will be revealed at harvest time. That is when our understanding of God will truly be put to the test.

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Someone please create a discussion about christian meeting together in a bar or other secular locations instead of using this thread to discuss it.