Not exactly live and let live. We all sin even after getting born again, just, less than we used to. King David sinned quite a bit and he is called a man after God’s own heart. But, like you say, if it isn’t a practice of sin, a, lifestyle of continuing in sin then that’s a problem.
Matthew 7:21
**21 **Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven…./KJV
What is the will of the Father in Heaven? He tells us in scripture, Be ye Holy, even as I am Holy. So the man who got saved Sunday and has been reading the Word, learned real fast that his live in girlfriend is not the will of the Father in Heaven. In order to turn from that sin and get rid of the lifestyle he is making an effort to be Holy. I am not perfect, but I am forgiven. That’s why King David is regarded as a man after God’s own heart, because he did not live that lifestyle, but he did stumble when all the blood drained from his head when he saw Bathsheba and it went downhill quick! Then in Psalm 51 we see King David coming to grips with his sin and confessing it to God. He stumbled. Then he got back up and ran to God and begged forgiveness.
Many people feel like running away from God after they have sinned. Too ashamed to pray or read the Word, they know they done wrong. I always do. I have a conscience and always have.
God knows we arent perfect and doesn’t expect us to be. He is looking at the intent of our heart. At how much effort do we put in to trying to be sinless. The Lord knows we will all fail. All have sinned and fall short. I looked up all in Greek and it means All !
So there’s two men. One still has the live in GF and wont tell her to leave because he is greedy and she is attractive. The other guy stood up to his live in and made her move back with her momma, or get married and she didn’t want to do that. So she had to leave and she did. That is the will of the Father. One man is serious about obeying God and the first guy is in rebellion to God because he let her stay. So even though both men were messing up one took steps to be better than that. There is bigger fish in the pan than a pretty woman.
I am not sinless but sometimes I go for days without sinning. It isn’t that hard until certain temptations walk up. They are smart.
I learned how to say no to girls when I was a young man!I was the youngest of 4 kids and got to see and hear all about their adventures with BF/GF stuff so was in that room hearing the blah blah blah and thinking. Note to Self: don’t get a GF like that one!
One time my “Friends” set me up on a blind date, she’s a good looking girl Ed come meet her at our house and we’ll have dinner and play cards? (Red Flag) Ok why not? We’re sitting there playing cards and this girl comes out in this conversational tone like I need a better job so I can get my stuff together…only she didn’t say that. SHe says I wish I could get pregnant so I can get on Benefits and get my stuff together. WHo says something like that?! I lasted about another 5 minutes and hit the door running, lol. One must be able to say no. Our future depends on it,