How do you combat being distracted when praying?

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7 Ways to Fight Distraction during Prayer

I’m sure I don’t need to convince anyone that distraction during prayer can be a major issue, particularly in this age of smartphones, social media, and simply the busyness of our lives.

How do you combat this? It’s so easy for my mind to wander or when I’m praying I think of something I forgot to do today (hello, laundry that needs to go into the dryer). I’m a busy mom of littles and have realized I need practical ways to keep focused in this season of life particularly.

What are some practical ways you turn to in your prayer life? Would really love to hear the outside-the-box suggestions. As valuable as they are, I’ve heard the normal responses of carve out a quiet time, etc.

I do like the suggestion in the article above to write down a prayer. I’m a language/words person so this does help me. I also find praying through already written prayers and liturgies to be helpful. But what else?

And related to that, how do you balance requests in prayer and thanksgiving to God? I often get caught in the trap of thinking my prayers need to be more creative than they need to be. Maybe simply listing my requests and what I’m thankful for is just fine?

Basically, I think I get too much in my own head when praying and then that also distracts me. What helps you focus on God as you pray and get yourself out of the way?

I am a big believer that, as embodied creatures, we need physical symbols to remind us of spiritual truths so I’m also thinking of perhaps using some kind of physical object to help me stay focused. So I’d also love to know what objects you use in prayer if you use any. Of course, I know Catholics use a rosary, so I’m not trying to derail this thread and get into the theological views on that necessarily (although that could be interesting too). :slight_smile:

Do you ever use a:
Prayer candle?
Prayer journal?
Something else?

The below article was helpful as far as how to use candles in prayer. I think I may put some of these things into practice.

Should You Use Candles for Prayer and How to Do It

Let me hear your thoughts, ideas, and prayer practices! :folded_hands:

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@DaughterOfEve24
Though I have prayed the rosary before, I personally find deep meaning in using the St. Benedict medal during prayer. It is not a supernatural object, but rather a tangible reminder of sacred words and a call to deeper spiritual focus. Each inscription on the medal leads me into an ancient and powerful prayer:

Crux sacra sit mihi lux,
Non draco sit mihi dux.
Vade retro, Satana,
Nunquam suade mihi vana.
Sunt mala quae libas,
Ipse venena bibas.

(May the Holy Cross be my light. Let not the dragon be my guide. Step back, Satan. Never tempt me with vain things. What you offer is evil. May you drink your own poison.)

Although I am not a Catholic but an Orthodox Christian, whenever I pray these words, I truly feel distractions and temptations dissolve. It is as though the prayer itself forms a shield around the heart, silencing the noise of the world and creating a sacred space where the soul can commune with God.

As I hold the medal and whisper these words, my heart becomes still and my attention is fixed entirely on Him. To deepen this focus, I often play the music from The Passion of the Christ and let my imagination walk through salvation history. I picture myself beside Adam and Eve in the garden, hearing Moses speak to Israel, listening to Isaiah proclaim hope, or sitting quietly in a synagogue as Jesus teaches (in other words I imagine what I read). In those moments, prayer is no longer a mere routine. It becomes a living encounter with the eternal story of God, a participation in His divine plan, and an intimate experience of His presence.

At such times, nothing else matters. Even if chaos surrounded me, even if the noise of the world roared around my soul, I would remain still, my heart listening only to the voice of Christ. In those moments, nothing could pull my attention away, my soul is fully listening to Christ.

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I write short prayers in a journal. It keeps my mind from wandering and brings me back when it does.