COMMENT=THANKS … ive been thinking of the M thing… its just as addictive as alcohol and smoke and the other substances, it eases pain a little once you hooked you are simply dead… but life is hard and sometimes you get on that road M THING road… you know masturbation thing…
i just wanna speak out a survivor of masturbation . i did it when ifelt mentally unbalanced and im still am.
but i wanna tell you quit as fast as possible this and dont run back. its meant to destory you…
IT WILL DESTORY YOU IN THE SHORT RUN ., AND IN THE LONG RUN. IT DOES NOT GIVE PEACE . JUST AS 100 CAKES WILL MAKE YOU FAT AND NO PLEASURE.
i know u do it out of PAIN AND NOT PLEASURE. but still its dangerous
First, welcome @Holy999. Thank you for sharing so openly. It takes a lot of vulnerability to admit when you’re using a habit to cope with deep emotional pain or mental distress.
You hit on an important truth that many people turn to compulsive behaviors not for pleasure, but as a way to numb emotional pain, stress, or trauma. Recognizing that it’s acting as a coping mechanism rather than a true solution is a huge first step.
While it’s great that you’re seeking freedom from habits that make you feel disconnected, try not to carry overwhelming shame or self-condemnation. Healing usually comes from addressing the underlying pain and mental stress and finding healthy, supportive ways to process those feelings, rather than just fighting the symptom alone. Wishing you strength and peace as you work through this. May God be with you.
Peter