Reconciliation is clearly valued in Scripture, but it also seems to assume repentance, honesty, and a willingness from both sides to rebuild trust. Without those elements, reconciliation can sometimes become more theoretical than real.
In situations where harm continues or accountability is absent, maintaining distance may actually protect the dignity and well-being of everyone involved. Boundaries are not the same thing as bitterness; they can be part of wisdom.
For me, the goal remains peace and restoration where possible, but Scripture also acknowledges that relationships sometimes require patience, time, or space before true reconciliation can happen.