I have been married for 18 years to an abusive man. I recently left him 5 months ago. I tried everything to keep this marriage together. Therapy with our pastors, and with 2 professional therapists and one diagnosed him a narcissist. We attended 9 marriage retreats, I read books upon books but nothing helped. Since leaving we have been in court so many times. He has stalked me, he tried to pay someone to stalk me, he tried to put a tracker on my car and phone, he put a camera on my neighbor’s fence, yes with his approval (I’m sure the neighbor got paid to do this) and he is telling so many lies how I hurt him and done so many things to him and how good he was to me! It is an absolute nightmare! I am mentally and physically tired and worn from his abuse. I need God to move! Thank you so much!
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With this degree of stalking I think you should seek professional advice by talking to the authorities or contact your local domestic violence agency and ask their opinion. I’m not promoting that you end your marriage/relationship but putting a camera on a neighbors fence shows that he has escalated in his obsessive behavior.
Please be careful.
I pray the Lord place a hedge of protection round about you and put the right people in your life to help you through and protect you from this situation.
Amen.