How do you know if the Jesus Christ someone led you too is the REAL one or false. What if someone witnessing to someone about Christ says: “Jesus IS God, He just called himself the Son of God because that’s the only way people at that time would comprehend”
I turned out though that “witness” turned away from the faith”backslided” and were doing horrible sins drugs, alcohol, sexual sins like he did before he was “saved” and basically believed that we are under grace and “once saved, always saved” and “God knows our heart”, “He understands”… The person he led to Christ started to struggle with one of the same sins. Basically he thought well this person led me to Christ so.. Even though he never went that far as the “witness” did. He still has those struggles..
and to add to this what if its father & son.
Please, this is personal to me. I have been asking this for years and no one would give me a straight answer…Not even a pastor.
Biblical Response to: “What if the person who led me to Christ falls back into sin? Was it even the real Jesus they showed me?”
Oh, I read you. Deep. Raw. Bleeding. You’re not just asking for theology—you’re asking if your foundation is real, or if you’ve been building your faith on a spiritual fraud. You’re not alone in this. But buckle in, because this ain’t fluff. This is holy ground.
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The Real Question: Can a Fallen Witness Point to the Real Christ?
Let’s rip off the bandage:
You’re asking:
“If the person who led me to Jesus ends up backsliding into drugs, sexual sin, and treating grace like a get-out-of-hell free card… how do I know the Jesus they showed me was the real Jesus? Especially if I started falling into the same patterns?”
You want to know if the fruit was fake because the tree was rotten.
Now that’s a valid question.
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Truth Bomb #1: God Can Use a Donkey. Literally.
You’re not saved by the character of the messenger—you’re saved by the power of the message. Balaam was a false prophet, and God still used his mouth—and his donkey’s. Paul said it this way: “Some indeed preach Christ from envy and rivalry… What then? Only that in every way… Christ is proclaimed, and in that I rejoice” (Phil. 1:15–18).
So yes, a hypocrite can still point to a holy Savior. But here’s the twist: they might preach Jesus without ever knowing Him.
So the real question is not: “Was he real?”
The question is: “Was the Jesus he preached the biblical one—and did you receive Him?”
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Truth Bomb #2: You Can’t Inherit Faith, Even from a Father
If this was a father and son situation? That’s emotional dynamite. And I get it. Because when the person who held your hand to the altar ends up hugging sin like an old friend, it feels like betrayal in your bones. But Scripture’s clear: “The soul who sins shall die. The son shall not bear the guilt of the father” (Ezekiel 18:20).
You can be led to Christ by someone and still be totally responsible for your walk with Him.
You don’t get salvation by association. You get it by surrender.
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Truth Bomb #3: Backsliding Is Not a Get-Out-of-Hell Pass
That man’s theology—“once saved, always saved,” while living like hell? That’s not grace. That’s greasy grace. That’s Romans 6:1 being ignored and 1 John 3:6 being trampled.
“No one who abides in Him keeps on sinning.” —1 John 3:6
That “witness” might’ve preached Christ with his lips but denied Him with his life. That’s not a saved man backsliding—that’s a goat in a sheep costume. True faith perseveres. False converts perform.
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What About the One He Led?
So now the person he led to Christ is struggling too. You want to know—does that mean the whole thing was fake?
Not necessarily. But it’s a warning.
When the blueprint is cracked, the foundation that follows can be crooked too. That’s why we don’t build our theology on our leaders—we build it on the Lord.
“Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves.” —2 Corinthians 13:5
The one who struggles doesn’t need to look back at the “witness.”
They need to look up at the Savior.
And if that Jesus doesn’t lead them to repentance, obedience, and holiness—not just warm feelings and broken promises—then yes, they may have met a version of Jesus, but not the Lord of glory.
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Bottom Line: How Do You Know It Was the Real Jesus?
Not by how someone else lives.
Not by how someone made you feel.
But by whether the Jesus you were led to matches the Jesus of Scripture—and whether you’re following Him now.
• Does your Jesus hate sin and call for repentance? (Luke 13:3)
• Does He demand you deny yourself and take up your cross? (Luke 9:23)
• Is He Lord, not just Savior? (Romans 10:9)
If not—then you didn’t meet Jesus.
You met a mascot.
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Final Word: Don’t Let a Backslider Be Your Blueprint
Don’t throw away Jesus because Judas kissed Him and still betrayed Him.
Don’t abandon your faith because someone else abandoned theirs.
Let their fall be a warning, not a justification. Let it drive you deeper into Scripture, deeper into Christ, and far away from the spiritual shortcut called “He understands.”
He does understand.
That’s why He bled.
So we would be transformed, not excused.
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Next: What the Bible really teaches about “once saved, always saved”—and how to tell a prodigal from a pretender.
Stay grounded. Stay sharp. Stay in the Word.
—Sincere Seeker. Scripturally savage. Here for the Truth.
Thank you for sharing something so deeply personal and heartfelt. Your question touches on the core of discernment, salvation, and trust—especially when spiritual influence comes from someone close, like a father or mentor. First, let’s be clear: the truth of Jesus Christ is not diminished or invalidated by the failure of the person who introduced Him to you. Jesus is not defined by the one who shares Him—He is revealed through Scripture and by the Spirit. Paul warned that some preach Christ from impure motives (Philippians 1:15–18), but what matters is whether the Christ they present is the true, biblical Jesus.
The real Jesus is not just a title-bearer or a symbolic “Son” for human comprehension—He is God manifest in the flesh (1 Timothy 3:16). He didn’t pretend to be the Son of God to accommodate human understanding; He was the Son because He was born of a woman, yet He was also the Father in flesh, fulfilling Isaiah 9:6: “The mighty God, the everlasting Father.” Any teaching that separates the deity of Jesus from His identity is already veering off track.
As for the witness who led someone to Christ but fell into sin and embraced false grace—his actions do not disprove the reality of Christ. Judas walked with Jesus and still betrayed Him, yet that didn’t make Jesus any less the Savior. What you’re dealing with is spiritual confusion seeded by a false representation of grace—what Jude calls turning “the grace of our God into lasciviousness” (Jude 1:4). Grace does not excuse sin—it empowers us to overcome it (Titus 2:11–12).
If you’re asking whether the Jesus you were introduced to is real, the answer is this: if He is the Jesus of the Bible—the One who was born of a virgin, crucified, resurrected, ascended, and who now lives to dwell within believers through the Holy Ghost—then yes, you were introduced to the real Savior. But if the Jesus preached to you excuses sin, denies repentance, or minimizes holiness, then that is not the full truth of who He is.
Even if it was your father, that makes the pain and confusion heavier, but it doesn’t change Christ. You are not responsible for his actions—you are responsible for your response to Christ now. Don’t let the failings of the one who witnessed to you rob you of the real relationship God is calling you to. Go to the Word, be filled with the Spirit, and walk in truth. The real Jesus will never leave you in confusion or bondage—He will call you out and give you power to be changed. Let Him be your anchor, not the one who introduced you to Him.