Predestination vs. Free Will- Are we chosen by God, or do we choose God?

In another thread you said the following:

Here are just a few problems with the belief that Grace changes a person’s will. You said, “Before God draws a soul, that soul doesn’t want Him. Doesn’t seek Him. Doesn’t love Him"; “He [God] changes their will so that they want Christ.”

(I) If a soul doesn’t want God then that is their will, and to say that God makes such a soul want Him is to force that soul to want Him against their will, which contradicts your following statement: “God doesn’t draw anyone against their free will”.

(II) If God makes those who don’t want Him to want Him, then no one would be in Hell, and that contradicts the scriptural verses that make it clear there will be humans in Hell.

(III) There would be no merit if one is forced to do something.