Hi there,
Ive been christian for some time now and feeling like its time to settle in at a church. Im a bit of a perfectionist which can lead me undecided in different areas in my life, and that’s been the case here. Im sure general theological agreement is key, but to be honest im still a bit hung up on once saved always saved and whether I believe it. Ive looked into it immensely but I think im just getting in my own way at this point to where its keeping me from committing to a place. I get counseling at this rather large church nearby, which I like, and ide like to start volunteering w kids and in the jails, but I have to be a committed member, and the casual mega church vibe can feel a bit weird and rather loose. I don’t necessarily disagree with the theology, but sometimes I want to hear about the things most churches don’t talk about these days around here, such as the reality/possibility of eternal damnation. Not that I need to hear it, but it seems like its almost avoided. Ive been to many churches around and tbh their all pretty similar. Does anyone have advice when it comes to committing to a church? Thanks