Please pray for my sister who is totally angry at me. I have reached out so many times and just hate email and text back. Would love for reconciliation thank you
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As the saying goes, “been there, done that”. My younger brother and I had a falling out some time ago but managed to get things back where they belonged. I was so grateful we did because he passed away this year. Make up no matter what. Family is the second best relationship you can have. God is the most important, right? I will pray for you.
Jerry
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I have tried everything. But her hate simply grows. I will continue to reach out to her. Thank you for your prayers
There’s a reason she’s angry and that is what needs to be addressed. Whether she’s right to be angry or not right, it doesn’t matter. She’s angry. It sounds like something’s happened involving you that is the cause of her anger and perhaps that is what needs to be dealt with. If she gives you the opportunity, let her pour it out with no defense or excuse on your part. Acknowledge her feelings because feelings are neither right or wrong. What lies behind them may be wrong but that is not something for you to deal with.
Before she can get over her anger, she needs to know that you fully understand why she’s angry and you own your part in it. Right or wrong, you own it because whatever happened has caused this anger. It will mean humility on your part and the strength to not defend yourself. Not easy to do. If you want reconciliation with her this may be the way to proceed.
Give it time and don’t give up. Just keep on loving her.
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You have to understand I have addressed the issue many times . Have apologized over and over. She says she doesn’t forgive. Last year I went through 5 surgeries and chemo. She never helped me but I carry no hard feelings but she’d remains angry at me . make no sense.I have tried many times to reconcile. She doesn’t want to. her anger is not justified .
I would do anything which I have done. And will continue to keep a sweet spirit.
I will not own her anger, but will continue to pray and love her regardless of her anger
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That is a most difficult situation. You’re not responsible for her inability to forgive. God is into heart changes and it looks like your continued prayer for her is the way to go. I’m so sorry to hear about your health issues and hope things are much better for you going forward. I’m glad your own feelings are not angry. That’s a big accomplishment. I’ll join you in prayer for your sister right now.
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Thank you so much.I realize I have to keep a good heart and a sweet attitude. God has helped me so much through 5 cancer surgeries and 8 months of chemo and given me a second chance at life. I am truly thankful for all that God has done for me. Again thanks for your prayers, kindness and support 
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