Peter, your response is revealing because you have now conceded the very textual evidence that undermines your original argument, yet continue defending the same conclusion by introducing restrictions Paul never explicitly establishes.
You acknowledge that 1 Corinthians 11:5 permits women to pray and prophesy, and that sigaō (“be silent”) applies to tongue-speakers, prophets, and women in 1 Corinthians 14. Excellent. We agree that silence is not exclusively commanded of women. But instead of confronting the implications, you introduce a distinction: women may prophesy, but only men may authoritatively evaluate prophecy.
Where does Paul say that, Peter?
You cite 1 Corinthians 14:29–35. Yet verse 29 states: “Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said.” Paul does not say “male elders,” “husbands,” or “men.” He says “the others.” You have inserted a male-only qualification that the verse itself does not contain. That is not textual demonstration; it is an assumption your interpretation requires.
Worse, verse 35 states: “If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home.” Since when does asking a question to obtain understanding constitute exercising authoritative doctrinal judgment over a congregation? These are distinct activities. If Paul intended to prohibit women from evaluating prophecy, demonstrate how a statement concerning questions establishes that restriction. You cannot simply redefine the conduct described in Scripture to accommodate your conclusion.
You then appeal to “the Law” in verse 34. Which law, precisely? Paul does not identify the passage. You invoke creation order through Genesis and 1 Timothy, but where does Genesis prohibit women from evaluating prophecy? Where does it establish that every man possesses spiritual authority over women? A sequence of creation does not, by itself, establish a prohibition against exercising spiritual gifts. You have asserted the connection without demonstrating it.
Your appeal to Carson and Grudem establishes that your interpretation has scholarly defenders. It does not establish that their interpretation is correct. Their credentials cannot supply a missing textual premise. I asked what Paul teaches, not which scholars agree with your conclusion. Scholarly endorsement is not a substitute for scriptural demonstration.
Furthermore, consider 1 Corinthians 12:10–11, where Paul identifies distinguishing between spirits as a spiritual gift distributed according to the Spirit’s will. He does not restrict that gift to men. Although discerning spirits and evaluating prophecy are not necessarily identical activities, your claim of exclusively male prophetic evaluation requires you to demonstrate where Paul establishes that restriction. You have not done so.
Finally, you concede that mias gynaikos andra concerns character and marital fidelity, yet retreat into a supposed pattern of male elder leadership. But qualified eldership and universal male authority over women are different propositions. Even establishing male-only eldership would not demonstrate that every woman is spiritually subordinate to every man, nor would it automatically prohibit women from participating in congregational discernment. You cannot establish one proposition and pretend you have proven another.
Let us therefore identify precisely what remains unproven:
You have not identified where Paul restricts evaluating prophecy to men. You have not demonstrated that asking questions constitutes authoritative doctrinal judgment. You have not identified a law explicitly establishing your proposed restriction. You have not shown that qualifications for elders create a universal male hierarchy.
Instead, you have assembled passages concerning different relationships, supplied interpretive connections, and presented the resulting framework as though Paul explicitly articulated it.
Peter, the burden is not on me to disprove restrictions you have introduced. The burden is on you to demonstrate that Scripture establishes them.
You began by declaring that the answer was “simple and in the Word for all to read.” Then identifying the actual words that establish your conclusion should present no difficulty whatsoever.
You have supplied your interpretation. I am still waiting for the Scripture that proves it.
And that, Peter, is the difference between reading what Scripture says and requiring Scripture to say what your argument needs.