The Bible teaches us that God is not ambivalent about sin and He is not apathetic toward sinners. Both are transparent in Scripture.
From the foundation of the world sin brought death. “In the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die” ~Genesis 2:17. Adam sinned and judgment fell. He was cast out of the garden. The ground was cursed. Death entered the world ~Genesis 3:17–19, ~Romans 5:12. God did not whitewash sin as small.
But note this. Before Adam was cast out, “the LORD God made coats of skins, and clothed them” ~Genesis 3:21. Judgment was there, but mercy intervened. God covered what sin uncovered. Blood was spilt, not to cover up sin, but to show that sin must be met with death.
Cain slew his brother. God met him face to face. “The voice of thy brother’s blood crieth unto me from the ground” ~Genesis 4:10. Cain was cursed. Cain was cast out. Justice was administered. But notice also that God set a mark on Cain “lest any finding him should kill him” ~Genesis 4:15. God restrained evil, while still holding Cain responsible.
What does that tell you about God?
God does not overlook sin, and God does not take pleasure in the death of sinners. “Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live” ~Ezekiel 33:11.
Pay attention to Jesus.
“They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance” ~Luke 5:31–32. Jesus did not come to coddle sinners. He came to call them to repentance.
When a woman caught in sin was brought before Him, Jesus did not nullify the Law. He first condemned the hypocrisy. Then He said, “Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more” ~John 8:11. Mercy was shown, but repentance was demanded.
Listen to this warning.
Mercy is not a license to remain in sin. Jesus said, “Except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish” ~Luke 13:3. God’s kindness is meant to drive us to repentance, not give us a sense of presumption ~Romans 2:4.
And listen to this hope.
At the cross justice and mercy met. Sin was judged in full. Sinners were given life in full. “This is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins” ~Matthew 26:28. “God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son” ~John 3:16.
So, answer this to yourself.
Do you see God as tolerant of sin, or holy and merciful? Do you flee from Him when you fall, or do you come in repentance and faith? “Him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out” ~John 6:37.
God’s heart toward sinners is not secret. He calls. He warns. He forgives. He commands repentance. The kingdom of God is at hand. “Repent ye, and believe the gospel” ~Mark 1:15.