As I am pregnant with our first, I’m curious what your biggest piece of advice is for new parents.
We have a great article, 7 Pieces of Christian Wisdom for New Parents, but I want to hear from you all!
Be careful what they hear audibly. They can’t understand, but information store in that little brain. Your favorite crime podcast, dragons eating people tv show, or military dropping from the sky video game can wait till baby is asleep in another room.
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I’m taking a different route. Everyone always warns about the “ookey” stuff: potty training, teething, croup, etc.
One thing I tell new parents is to revel in their child’s “ah-ha” moments: the moments when they learn something and their faces light up.
On the other side, one thing we did (when our girls were a pinch older) was establish the “2-day rule” when it comes to videos and movies. For instance: if they wanted to watch “Wall-E”, OK…but then put it away for at least 2 days. If they ask for it again during that time, be firm, say “no”, but suggest something else. If they fuss…don’t back down.
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I can’t pick one!!! So here are some of my favorites.
- Let your children see you putting the Lord first in your life.
-Children are smarter than we give them credit for. I tried not to talk down to my kids, even when they were babies!
-Always apologize to them right from day one. This beautiful habit of obedience keeps our hearts humble and soft for our kids, and they will follow our lead. - Quote Scripture a lot - even if you can’t remember what verse it is, when the wisdom pops into your mind, repeat it.
- Don’t get on their emotional roller coaster.
- As soon as they are old enough to serve at your church, encourage it. Let them see you serving, too. Make it a normal part of your family’s routine.
So excited for you to become a momma!!!
Meg
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Love it all! I think parents being humble enough to apologize shows so much strength and only builds the relationship and mutual respect. I think these are all great!!