I believe, when we repent of our sin, the scary, accusatory thoughts that go through our heads are from Satan, not God. That would be forgiveness.
Interesting.
But what about being convicted by the HS? I’ve experienced this conviction..doing something I really didn’t want to..like attend a function where I don’t like anyone BUT one person will be there and I just can’t stand her (not true..she’s a good person..lost..but basically good and we disagree on politics..it’s a really long story..) but I absolutely MUST GO. I didn’t realize at the time but I was moved towards restoration. I felt so awkward, so out of place and just hovered around her not knowing what to do. I made everyone around us uncomfortable, she was visibly upset, and I felt like a crazy person. So I left. Then she messaged me, and expected an angry, harsh reply. Instead I asked for forgiveness. And restoration happened.
Are we best friends? Nope. We rarely speak in any form. Do I support her hocus pocus voodoo hoodoo crystal shop? Or the transgender sidewalk crossing that she sponsored? No way. So what changed? My heart. I have no explanation other than God did it. He showed me a way that didn’t have resentment or bitterness, or political divide.
I do pray for her. I ask God to continue to bless her. That’s how I pray for the people I don’t like. It’s really hard to do that at times..most times. But I do..and then my heart fills with His love and I wonder why I still find it so hard to pray that way
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I have learned to treat people I disagree with respectfully. Otherwise, you give them ammunition to use against you.
And the fellow I work with at the church every Monday has opposite political views as I do. We get along well, but we’ve learned not to discuss politics, for the most part.