Why Did Jesus Curse the Fig Tree? - Matthew 21:18

Difficult Question #1 - Matthew 21:18

A fig tree gets cursed by Jesus in Matthew 21:18—and someone wants to know why. Was it bad timing… or a deeper spiritual lesson? Let’s unpack it.

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Disclaimer: I use humor and sarcasm when I speak. It’s a built in function, I don’t know how to turn it off. My interest and curiosity is very much genuine, however.

… He yelled at a tree? It’s early spring… and the tree is described as doing what trees do… You know, like, photosynthesizing and stuff… To prepare itself for bearing fruit not too far down the road… But the poor thing got cursed all the same?

That seems a trifle unfair to the tree, right?

L&R,

F

Standard answer as found in commentaries, bible encyclopedias is that at that time of the year there would normally by edible shoots on the tree and the fact that there weren’t, it is a visible warning to the consequence of not producing the fruits expected by God.

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Thank you for taking the time to answer.

Can you tell me more about these commentaries? I would LOVE to dig into that.

See I was under the impression that it was plausible or even likely that it was too early in the season for fruit to have been an absolute. A possiblity, sure. But not a cut and dry “must”.

However, I’ve never been to the middle east in ANY growing season, let alone the proper one to have made this distinction myself. I also understand that the calendar observed was obviously not Gregorian and that fact alone likely skews rather greatly my understanding of the concept. Annnd, I assume that the earth as a whole has DRAMATICALLY changed since then, in terms of climate, atmosphere, temperature, etc. and those things could be an ace hidden up the sleeve in regards to what was going on then that isn’t going on now.

I’m also still trying to locate reliable sources and gather opinion and perspective from many. (Hence the reason I am here.)

Thanks again,

L&R,

F

If you go to https://www.biblestudytools.com you’ll find the Bible in a variety of translations and lots of commentaries.

It was symbolic.

There is a lot of symbolism in the Bible, hidden meanings. You have to mine the Bible for gold. On one hand, there is the stuff that is just good advice. Teachings for a better life. But when you start looking at subtext…

Could it relate to the parable about the men who were given talents? The one who buried his talents instead of investing found his talents taken away because he bore no fruit. He was so afraid of the King that he did nothing wirh what he had.

Does it allude to Isaiah 11:1, which says, “A shoot will come up from the stump of Jesse; from his roots a Branch will bear fruit."

Or the Genesis commandment to go and be fruitful?

What does being fruitful mean to God? What exactly is God looking for?

Maybe its’s about authority over nature, or the world?

Or is there an even deeper meaning? Were the early Christians speaking in code? Hiding pearls from swine?

Maybe it points to Gods Will for institutions that do not do what they are created for. If they bare no fruit, God will make them ineffective and whither.

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Thank you for your thoughtful and well-worded reply. It means a lot to me.

Your first sentence has me holding up the checkered flag though. I hope you don’t mind if I elaborate:

I seem to have to opposing (or at the least, not fully aligned) opinions on this here. “It’s symbolic.” Of course it’s symbolic. Right? There is no other rational explanation. Not to my understanding. Even in the various translations and versions I’ve read of the same thing, over and over and over. The takeaway is always the same for me.

BUT

I have people, people who’s opinion I find valuable, who are learned and well-read and well-spoken and most certainly well-meant that tell me if I don’t take the Bible and all of it’s contents literally or “as true” then I’m just some dirty foot Pagan and that alone, that fact excludes me from the party.

Now I’ll level with you. I don’t believe that. It’s unfortunate, but I don’t. I can’t. But I do believe that symbols, parables, and the beautiful power of myth were used along with other truths and other means to boil an idea that is much too complex for my pea brain to comprehend down into a soup that my unsophisticated and uncultured palate can taste without my head exploding. That I can get behind.

And if that is the case, and I can still go to my church and hang out with the good weirdos, like me, in second service (because you know those first service folks are just up too damn early and happy about it, and that’s not right) and bring my son to the nursery to get oogled on by the young ladies that line up to love on our kids, I’ll continue to go to my pastor’s house for dinner with his family once in a while and draw pictures of him with sock puppets on his hands because I know they creep him out. I’ll continue to write my ‘mock’ or pretend studies for the youth ministry I’ll probably never get the courage to ask about actually doing. I’ll continue to give more of my income to the church than to my shoe collection (just kidding, I don’t have a shoe collection.) And yes, you better believe I am going to the Women’s Tea Social next weekend, at the Alice in Wonderland themed table and I’m almost done sewing my Alice Dress. I’ll continue to get teary eyed every time I see pastor Mike because he dedicated my son in that church… In front of all three of my post pregnancy double chins (the rest of the congregation was there too, I guess.) and where Pastor Andrew and I nerd out together like a couple of high school kids about Christian metal bands.

But if it’s not the case… Things feel a lot darker. I don’t get to go to my church, a place I finally feel like might be home. I don’t get to share with my partner, his family, nurture the relationships it’s brought to me. And worst of all, it isolates me from God. (And that, I think, is actually what Hell is.)

Sorry, I zigged where I should have zagged here. The TL;dr is: If it’s okay to accept the symbolism, the idea or the myth I believe the Bible is coded with, if that’s cool, then I actually have no more tough questions. I can stop right here. Because all of the questions I can’t answer are rooted in the ‘understanding’ that I have to take the Bible literally. And that’s something I can’t do. Not without a lot of tough questions.

Love and Respect,
F

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Give me time to digest the entirety of your response before I fully respond to it. Until then, allow me to clarify what I said previously.

First and foremost, these are just my thoughts on this. I do not mean I know any of this.

By “Symbolic” I did not mean that the event did not literally happen. I do not know if it did or did not happen.

I meant the gesture itself is a message, meant to convey truth or understanding through the action taken. An example of this is when Ezekiel is told to bake bread over dung to symbolize something. And how Hosea’s marriage to an adulterer also symbolized something. And the story of David and Absolom potentially symbolized something- the whole story is a message. As well as Joseph decieving his brothers to decipher the state of their hearts, as did Solomon when he offered to split a child in half to discover the true mother.

God/ and or the Scribes/ and or the Prophets used physical actions and actual relationships to symbolize greater truths. As above, so below. The Patterns between the greater and the lesser are connected.

  1. One way to understand the Bible is to study the creative ways in which the scribes communicated their message. Just as we have styles for writing, so did they. This is a part of context. You may ask a modern Rabbi the various ways in which they interpret their Scriptures, but you would still need to pay attention to understandings from a past perspective. How did ancient Rabbis read the text?

  2. Through out history, as time passes, ideas and understandings change. The mind of man has been evolving since conception. It’s capacity, capability, philosophies, mythologies have all been in flux. For instance, the concept of Satan/Lucifer/the devil etc. This idea has changed over time.. As have the idea of “good” and “evil”

Zoroastrianism introduced the concept of children of light/ children of darkness. Before this religion, good and evil referred to the nature of a given action, not the inherent essense of a given person as Zoroastrianism teaches.

(while a study of psychology would suggest we have the capacity of both good and evil, light and darkness though most people follow authority regardless of its nature while a few can become self actualized and think for themselves, as discovered through years of testing, trials…perveying for themselves what is good and what is not.

And a study of biology and brain scans coupled with psychological testing has shown that the few people who behave with no capacity of empathy, ethics, and morality tend to have different brain structures/ activity/ capacity etc. There is a diagnosiible difference…though the nature or nurture of such things I do not know. They do not care what good or evil are… only self preservation.).

But if you never knew any of this, your interpretation of the past would lack understanding. Depth. The story of the devil/Satan/and Lucifer has alao been in flux. For example, the shepherd god of the greeks is the physical form identtified as the devil. But that did not occur for several hundred years after the first pope. The idea evolved. All ideas have evolved. All in flux, morphing intoo something else over time.

I have been adding to this post over time. If you first read it an hour ago, you would have missed what I have added. An example of what time does to what we think we know. And if you are just now reading this, then you don’t know exactly what I wrote before. And what I didn’t. Except for this passage which implies the reality of it.

  1. Many of the scribes in various points of history were under duress. Emporers invaded lands, took captives, destroyed whole histories. Or rewrote them all together. To a tribal culture, the fall of a people meant the gods over them also fell to the opposing gods.

Many of the old gods look like other gods.

Roman Gods for instance are a spin on Greek gods- similar, but not exact. And if you study a given list of old saints, angels, and demons you may find they were actually old gods from old cultures, rewritten, covered in plaster and white washed. This was done for a reason.

Because of this, the scribes themselves had to walk a fine line. They had to please the one in power just enough that they could convey the truth but hide its significance. Retain history by sticking it in the cracks.

The truth is there, because the scribes cared enough about the message. But it could not be obvious. They had to use Subterfuge.

Look to Jeremiah 8

8“ ‘How can you say, “We are wise,
for we have the law of the Lord,”
when actually the lying pen of the scribes
has handled it falsely?

9The wise will be put to shame;
they will be dismayed and trapped.
Since they have rejected the word of the Lord

We read this passage looking backward. Something happened, something took place, something that called the Law of God into question. Jeremiah is speaking to an ignorant people who think they are correct in their standing with God but don’t know any better. They have something that is being called, the Law of God. But it is somehow false.

God sends prophet after prophet to lead the people back to truth, but they will not listen.

Why did the scribes lie?
Can we trust the history that we think we know?
How did the Prophets know better?
When did this happen?
Was the truth ever clarified?
Do we still have the false text?
Did this happen again? Did the pattern repeat?

And this is why it is so important to not follow blindly. Because it was the deception surrounding the Law that caused Israel to fall. Those who thought they were wise were not listening to God’s correction because they thought they had the Word at their grasp. But they didn’t.

An enemy went into a field and sowed lies when the farmer was sleeping. The farmer knew what the enemy had done. The fruit of lies and the fruit of truth sprouted together, because the farmer allowed this. And together, all things will be sorted during harvest.

Another question is- what is the Harvest? What does this event look like? How does God sort out the truths from the lies that are so enmeshed together? Or, how does God sort out the children of lies (those whose lives bare the fruit of following the lies that have been sown) and the children of God (whose lives bare the fruit of listening to God and following His instruction)?

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Along with the commentaries these 2 articles give a good explanation to your question.

It really depends what passages one is referring to.
The bible contains many different forms of literature some is allegorical, some is poetry but much is historical prose.
How one understands the bible boils down to where one believes the final authority lies.
Is it as timothy says, " ALL scripture is God breathed?" or is the truth in it determined by our intellect and current whims.

If God spoke and creation happened, then where is the objection to speaking donkeys, floating axe heads and suns standing still?

Worse if God cannot do these can he forgive sin, does he have authority to declare what sin is? Is he God?

I think one can believe what one likes, so long as one has a rational reason for that belief.

I’m biased as I firmly believe only a conservative Christian view of the bible is rational.

Hi,
It’s a great way to demonstrate how to have dominion over the earth.

Blessings

If you had looked it up, you would know fig trees bare two crops, so around 50% of the time you can expect to find something edible available.
Of greater concern is your questioning of the Lords sovereignty over all things. Your idea of “fair” has nothing to do with how God works.

You have to read and try to understand the meaning of the text. The whole text. The fig tree is a prop Jesus used to convey His message.

They had the form of religion but not the reality. They knew the right words to say, but their hearts were far from God.

This is offered as one take, but I feel some interpretations are subjective and personal, zigs are cool. My lesson gleaned was, “when Jesus comes to harvest, will you be bearing fruit or only have the appearance? There are consequences…”

I’ll try to answer this tough question , pardon me if im wrong.
Let’s look in Matthew 21:18-19 (ESV)
“In the morning, as He was returning to the city, He became hungry. And seeing a fig tree by the wayside, He went to it and found nothing on it but only leaves. And He said to it, ‘May no fruit ever come from you again!’ And the fig tree withered at once.”

  1. Historical and cultural context:
    Fig trees were incredibly common in ancient Palestine, and they symbolised peace, prosperity and spiritual fruitfulness. The fig tree was a national symbol, just as olive tree or vineyard was given importance in Hosea 9:10, Jeremiah 8:13 and Micah 4:4. Importantly, the fig trees were producing fruit before full leaves. If it had leaves, it shld have had immature but edible early figs, called taqsh in Aramaic usage. Absence of any fruit-even in pre-season would give a deceptive appearance, which is externally thriving but inwardly barren.
  2. Biblical-theological interpretation
    It symbolizes Israel: A barren tree with leaves
    This act is not petty divine frustration, it a prophetic sign just like Ezekiel lying on his side or Isaiah walking naked (ezek 4:4 and Isaiah 20:2-3). The fig tree is Israel, particularly her religious establishments. Just as Jesus cleanses the temple right after this (Matt 21:12-17), he cures the fig tree to signal judgement upon a nation that had the appearance of a religion (‘as i said the leaves’) but no fruit (refer to Isaiah 5:1-7 and Micah 7:1) The tree is a living parable of hollow religiosity. As N.T Wright has said ‘This is not a story of Jesus being ‘hangry’. It is a prophetic pronouncement of doom wrapped in horticultural symbolism.’
    St.Jerome said that :“Just as the Lord came to the Jews and found only the leaves of the Law without its fruit, so too He judges their pretense.”
    St.John Chrysostom(refer Hom in Matth.67.2): “He does not do this out of hunger, but to instruct His disciples. He shows how those with only an appearance of virtue, yet bearing no fruit, will be condemned.”
    Origen (commentary on Matthew):
    “The tree, being a symbol of souls, teaches us that to merely have leaves—external words and rites—is not sufficient without works worthy of repentance.”
    What i wanted to say is that the fathers read the fig tree not literally as horticultural puzzle but as a moral icon of judgement, repentance and spiritual authenticity.
    Now comes the interesting part: Shld we take literal or symbolic part (in textbooks called as The Hermeneutical Dilemma)
    The literal and symbolic are not opposed but are intertwined. Christian theology speaks of sensus plenior- a fuller sense of scripture where layers of meaning dwell in harmony but not in contradiction (note very imp). The early church used fourfold exegesis as : Literal, Allegorical(what it reveals abt Christ), Tropological(what it teaches us morally) and Anagogical (what it teaches abt eternity). The fig tree literally withers, but it also speaks allegorically abt Israel, tropologically of our own spiritual state, and anagogically of the final judgement. Your not wrong to see the power of myth and symbol here, the mystery of scripture is precisely that God uses concrete events to speak cosmic truth, again as St. Gregory the Great said that ‘Not everything in scripture must be literal to be true, and not everything symbolic is fictional’
    Faith doesnt demand a wooden literalism, but a willingness to stand under authority of the text while asking hard questions. C.S. Lewis referred to Bible as ‘true myth’- myth that became fact. The structure of universe is symbolic, sacramental, incarnational. Symbols are not less true, they are often more true than brute fact.
  3. Christological fulfillment and eschatological tension:
    The even is also Christologically charged. Jesus, true Israel (Matt 2:15) bears the fruit that the old israel could not. In cursing the fig tree, He signals that he is the new temple, the new vine (John 15), the source of true fruitfulness. Furthermore this scene anticipates eschatological judgment. It is a foretaste of the Day of the Lord, when the outwardly pious but inwardly barren are judged- not with vindictive anger but with divine justice.

Concluding ans:
In sum, the cursing of fig tree in Matthew 21:18 must be apprehended not as an arbitrary act of divine caprice but an eschatological parable in action, a prophetic sign act acc to Ezekiel 4-5, operating within a theodramatic framework wherein Jesus, the Incarnate Logos, executes a symbolic judgement upon covenantal sterility. The fig tree, bearing only ostensible vitality through foliage, yet devoid of the proleptic fruits of repentance (cf Matthew 3:8) typologically represents apostate Israel under the Old Covenant, whose temple systems and religious leaderships had become spiritually anemic and ethically barren.
Patristic consensus- from Origen’s allegorical nuance to Chrysostom’s mora; clarity- situates this act within the dialectic of judgement and mercy, affirming that the fig tree is a synecdoche for any ecclesial or individual reality which maintains external religiosity without pneumatic fruitfulness. Christ, as the eschatological High Priest and telos of Torah, thereby enacts a sacramental indictment upon unfruitful religiosity, foreshadowing the temple destruction (70.AD) and the inbreaking of the New Covenant community - the ecclesia, defined not by cultic formality but by the Spirit-wrought fecundity (refer Galatians 5:22-23). Thus, the pericope transcends its horticultural literalism, functioning as a theophanic pronouncement of divine verdict embedded within the broader Christus Victor narrative arc, simultaneously affirming divine justice, covenantal transition, and the ontological imperative of bearing fruit worthy of the kingdom.

@fantasticfaeryn, why do you have to take the whole Bible as either figurative or literal? Each book has a different purpose and type of literary style. A prophetic book is different from a gospel, and a historical book is different from the Psalms. Take each book and find out what kind of writing it is. If you take the Bible as all figurative, you can make it say whatever you want it to, which then becomes your word, not God’s Word.

Also, you can take references in one book and confirm its historicity and meaning in other books with such references. You can define a single word in the contexts of its uses throughout the Bible. It’s an adventure worth taking.

For example, is Jonah a real prophet for whom God prepares a giant fish to save him from drowning? Yes, he has been a prophet.

2Ki_14:25 He restored the border of Israel from Lebo-hamath as far as the Sea of the Arabah, according to the word of the LORD, the God of Israel, which he spoke by his servant Jonah the son of Amittai, the prophet, who was from Gath-hepher.

Does Jonah spend three days in the stomach of a large fish (not a whale, which is a different word in Hebrew)? Yes. Jesus confirms it:

Mat_12:39 But he answered them, “An evil and adulterous generation seeks for a sign, but no sign will be given to it except the sign of the prophet Jonah.
Mat_12:40 For just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.
Mat_12:41 The men of Nineveh will rise up at the judgment with this generation and condemn it, for they repented at the preaching of Jonah, and behold, something greater than Jonah is here.

Do you see my point? Let’s discuss it.

From what I have read, the words in ancient Hebrew and Greek can be used to mean whale. Though the interpretation is not exact. It is true that a whale makes far greater sense than a fish, so we say whale. Whales are known to be big enough to hold a man. And they are air breathing creatures after all and must return to the surface. A creature that did not breathe air would likely drown a person after swallowing them.

It is amusing when people suggest that the story of Jonah must have been fiction. Especially when we have video footage of a whale swallowing a boy about 3 or so months ago. The boy was boating with his father when the whale capsized the boat and took the boy. Only to release him a few moments later alive and whale…err well.

But this is an example of why we should be careful about how easily we accept a translation of Scripture. Words don’t often mean what we think they mean. Or passages for that matter.

For instance, there is a Scripture where Christ says it would be easier for a a mule to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to get to heaven. At surface glance, you might think the actual eye of a needle but there was a well known gate back in those days called the eye of a needle… Funny how easily important information can be lost with the passage of time. And how something relatively difficult becomes far more impossible.

How do you know Jesus wasn’t speaking with humor when he called Jonah’s whale a fish? Or that he wasn’t using a slang expression that is lost in time now?

Speaking of how words can be used to broadly refer to a variety of things… Speaking of how understanding and knowledge can effect an interpretation…

I know this is a trigger for some of you, but the word for homosexual in the Bible is similar. There was no word for honosexual in ancient societies until the church created one around 300 AD when Christianity became Rome’s main religion and honosexuality became officially outlawed. They gave it a name at that point. Even the Hebrew Bible does not name homoswxuals- it only describes an act. But why? What is it about this act that makes it a sin?

The behavior was well known and accepted in Roman and Greek cultures, and older ones, so much so that laws dictated only subordinates could take submissive positions. But people were not divided up as straight bi or gay.

The laws regarded what was socially acceptable for a person’s station and rank, not their biology. Unless you are referring to the station of a man in his gender over a woman. Which is why lesbians don’t come into focus until a lot of time has passed.

As power and authority meant everyrhing to these cultures, and one could not lower thenselves without inflicting great shame upon themselves, their family/house, their station. But it does not mean people obeyed these laws. They just hid it well.

Back in these times, power and authority were everything. Think about how inportant it was to the Apostle Paul to be a Roman Citizen. It was about rank and statiion.

Shame was a great sin to bring upon one’s self in these cultures. Think of ancient Japanese culture where men killed themselves to have an honorable death in the face of shane. Shame was a sin no one could bare until Christ taught us that to rule meant to serve, to lower ourselves. Lowering one’s self was not the thing to do in these cultures.

And Christ taught forgiveness and brought the possibility for redemption, concepts that were perhaps unheard of before Christ- he changed how power and authority were seen. He changed the landscape.

Because of Christ, a man can surrender his shame and become a new person rather than be destroyed by that shame. This changed the landscape so that people no longer had to kill themselves to escape the shame that lingered over their heads. They could be reborn.

But things change, ideas change, people change, focus changes… with time. And nuances are lost.

I suspect that the reason why homoswxuality bothers people as much as it does is because it reveals the deeply rooted sense of shame people carry within them regarding their own sexuality. People were taught to be ashamed and afraid of themselves and their bodies using Scripture to do so, binding God’s judgement and wrath over their natural biological developement.

You cannot escape your body or it’s urges- all of those hormones triggering in your brain and body. You can go numb, frigid, from having the fear of God being beaten into you, but you can’t change the reality that your body was designed , wired, to have a sexual component. And all that pain and shame will keep driving you to hurt yourselves and others to keep it in check. Over shame.

The shadows of our ancesters still hover over us. And will continue until you release it and let it go. Heal the wound. Bring the light of Christ into it.

The words of Scripture are very important to stick to, @Tillman. Jonah 1:17 says, “And the LORD appointed a great fish to swallow up Jonah. And Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights.”

“The LORD appointed” indicates God’s special action in this case, I think.

The eye of the needle’s impossibility is explained in the context:

Mat 19:24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God.”
Mat 19:25 When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished, saying, “Who then can be saved?”
Mat 19:26 But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

That camel’s entrance through a gate in Jerusalem is possible, but Jesus is talking in hyperbole to point out the impossible act of a rich person’s conversion as being possible with God. Context is very important in interpreting Scripture.

Are you saying that homosexual conduct is okay with God, as some have tried to? The commands “Do not commit adultery” and “Flee sexual immorality” in the OT and NT show God’s will clearly that sex must be confined to marriage between a man and a woman.

The Bible is always countercultural, which is one evidence that God inspired it.

I don’t see the relevance between the LORD apoonted and whether or not it is or could be a whale verses a fish.

The gate was too narrow for a camel, I believe the story was. But regardless, you are emphasizing that it has to be one or the other when you don’t really know- its an assumption based on how much harder the latter seems. The point is, we should not think we have all the answers when there is room to be wrong. And it is better to save a life based on an accepted possibility that we lack understanding than to use Scripture to destroy life from our lack.

Reread what I wrote, because you replied before I was done editing and adding. What I am saying is, I believe we should be focussing on our own internal sense of shame rather than damning others. We attack the sin in others because we are ashamed of oursleves. We should address ourselves alone and resolve the sin we find there. Then we might see clearly and behave right toward our neighbors, and not try to control what they do in the privacy of their own homes where you don’t belong.

I completely agree with your last paragraph, @Tillman, but we also have to recognize what is sin and what it is not so that we can avoid it ourselves without condemning those who do it.

And I agree with you here. However, we must have a compass that makes sense for our day and age.

Christ explains that sin is a lack of love for God, neighbor, and self when He explains that the highest 2 commandments are to love- and everything else falls under these 2 commandments. The Law, by telling us what not to do, was never meant to overshadow what we should do.

Our focus should be on what we are (should be)
doing, not on what we are (should be) avoiding. Because by keeping watch on the sin, which is the lack of love, we move toward the lack instead of being fulfilled by proper doing which is behaving with love in our lives. We judge from our lack and destroy life where we could be saving life by being filled.

Thr Law is not God. It is instruction from God regarding what sin is. It is meant to teach something, accomplish something. You look at it as an impassable guard rail alone as if the words alone mean something- but they are nothing without the intention behind them.

You should keep in mind that God told Abraham to sacrifice his son with no intention of letting Abraham follow through. The purpose of telling Abraham to do this was never intended to cause Isaac’s death but to test Abraham and to foreshadow the sacrifice of Christ which brought the power of the Ressurection into our world- to conquer death. There are deeper purposes behind what God does beyond meeting out rules and commandments.

For instance, God tells us to love. But if we love purely because God commands it, it is not actually love. Love must be freely given. It cannot be real if it is demanded of us under threat of punishment and eternal damnation. So the Law cancels out the possibility of itself being fulfilled even in this.

Until you choose to Love from your capacity to do so, not because you were told to, you cannot be right with God. That capacity must be learned, internalized, grown from a loving relationship with One who already knows how to Love.

God’s plan was always to restore life, not to end it. The Law by itself can only end life. The Law is a parade of rules, rule after rule by which you are sentenced to death for failing to meet any one expectation. So, if the Law is the only thing you understand, the only thing you know by heart, you will not find eternal life. Only the reasons why you should not exist. Reasons why you deserve to be punished.

As for sexual morality, God has nothing against sex- He created it. People had sex all the time in the Bible even without marriage. Back when women were only property and only good for (and saved through) childbirth… (As Paul puts it…).

But what matters is the harm it causes when misused- Treating people like objects instead of as sacred souls treasured by God.

Today, women stand with their own authority. Men and women have sex with no obligation to marry. They don’t need to worry about bringing shame upon their households anymore. And if trained right, they don’t have to worry about spreading stds. Or having babies before they are ready to parent, or at all if they don’t want a child. In a way, it matches what Christ says in Mathew 22:

29 Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. 30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.

People are choosing not to marry and it is becoming much rarer to be given in marriage, or having an arranged marriage. I think this prophecy is being fulfilled. Which means the ressurection is at hand or not far behind. So where is the sin of sex? What disrespects the sacredness of it if marriage is no longer necessary except to protect a child born in a union?

A compass of love dictates we treat each other with mutual respect and consideration. We don’t intentionally spread disease or leave an unwed mother without help. We don’t take what is not freely given. We do not take from someone who cannot give conscious mature concent. We provide the information and training necessary to do right by each other and seek the best good for all rather than selfish indulgent that sickens all. This is sexual morality between consenting adults today.

The old way of business is denial, and sneaking around doing the very things you profess to be against. Do you know the story of that good Christian founder of thr USA Benjamin Franklin? Slipping out the window to escape the father of the young girl he had just seduced? I know the story. It was taught in my junior high school history class. How about the tale of all the men who were excused for their whoring around because boys will be boys back in the day when the whole land was filled with God fearing Christians controlled by the Church? Back when even the priests had women they went to? While all the girls they all slept with were held to a higher standard and shamed?

The new way means you take complete responsibility for your actions, you treat each other’s bodies like Sacred Temples, and you stop screwing each other over while pretending to keep a standard no one can keep. Love sanctifies us, and all actions need to exude that santification. We honor the Holiness while respecting the needs and the weaknesses of the body without doing harm to meet those needs. There is a balance to be maintained that cannot be met through ignorance, denial, and pretend- Darkness that allows sin to run wild. Uncontained, sex is a fire that can destroy. It must be tamed by a flame that burns brighter. Tempered by a Desire to Love that is greater than the desire to consume all and to burn it all down.

So, are you condoning the sexual immorality and adultery that is practiced freely in the fallen culture, @Tillman? God’s standard that is clearly shown in his Word is marital commitment with sex confined within it. You are right, though, that we must show love to the people; that doesn’t mean, though, that we should excuse the sin.

God approved of such a teaching in the 56 years of the marriage between my late wife and me.

He has now called me to singleness (1 Corinthians 7) so that I can concentrate on a couple ministries which he has given me in retirement from the preaching ministry.