Does God Want us to be HAPPY?

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What about this one?

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tricky one . we are admonished to be joyful in the Lord or whatever it says. but as for “happy,” does it differ from “joyful?”

definition for happy: Enjoying, showing, or marked by pleasure, satisfaction, or joy. synonym: glad.

definition for joyful: Full of joy; very glad; feeling delight; exulting.

they sound pretty much the same, even though i dont think the Bible says “happy,” does it, anywhere?

i cant find a verse with that word. but since the definitions are so close, id say, yes, He wants us to be happy. but definitely not all the time:

Ecclesiastes 3:4 - “a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance”

and, of course, the reasons we are happy or not, count toward what He makes of it all!

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Well?

“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” “Proverbs 17:22

“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.” Philippians 4:4

Rejoicing and being joyful are being happy? No?

“Delight yourself in the Lord,

and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4

Then you have this.

“Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:11-13

Is contentment not equal to being happy in any situation? Then Jesus Himself tells us this.

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” John 10:10

An abundant life, no, not a prospurous life, a wholly, holy, God-blessed life must include happiness? I would think anyway.

Peter

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Here is my perspective, which stands in direct opposition to your definition of “happiness”: covenantal Ï‡Î±ÏÎŹ (chara) is found only in Christ Jesus, is shaped by the cross, and is accessed not through comfort or emotional pleasure but through faithful participation in suffering that leads toward resurrection life.

The Bible never issues an imperative to experience happiness as an emotional state, because emotions are not directly subject to command in the way actions, loyalties, or orientations of the will are.
When English translations use words like happy or glad, the underlying Hebrew and Greek terms almost never refer to surface-level pleasure or cheerfulness, but to covenantal blessing, settled joy, or reasoned confidence grounded in God’s faithfulness.

In the New Testament, the dominant term is Ï‡Î±ÏÎŹ (chara) and the related verb Ï‡Î±ÎŻÏÏ‰ (chairƍ), which denote joy rooted in meaning, hope, and allegiance rather than mood.
For example, in Matthew 5:12 (KJV), “Rejoice, and be exceeding glad,” the command is not to feel pleasant emotions about persecution, but to interpret suffering through eschatological reward, the kingdom of heaven, and participation in the prophetic and messianic story.
This is reinforced by the cross itself, where Christ is not described as emotionally happy, yet Hebrews 12:2 (KJV) speaks of “the joy that was set before him,” a future-oriented joy that enabled endurance rather than erased pain.

Likewise, James 1:2 (KJV), “Count it all joy,” uses a verb of deliberate evaluation rather than emotional spontaneity, calling believers to reckon trials as meaningful because of what they produce, not because they feel good.
Paul’s language in Romans 5:3, where believers “glory in tribulations,” reflects theological boasting rather than emotional delight, rooted in the knowledge of what suffering accomplishes through endurance and hope.

Scripture consistently permits and records grief, lament, fear, and anguish among the faithful, including Jesus himself, whose agony in Gethsemane and suffering on the cross stand as definitive proof that faithfulness does not require emotional happiness.
The Psalms, heavily used in both Jewish and Christian worship, normalize sorrow and complaint before God, demonstrating that trust and pain are not opposites.

So the command of Scripture is not “be happy,” but rather be faithful, endure, hope, trust, rejoice in what God is doing and will do, even when circumstances and emotions remain heavy.
Joy in the biblical sense is an act of allegiance shaped by the cross and secured by the resurrection, not a demand to suppress grief or manufacture pleasant feelings.

Rev 3:14 And to the angel (messenger) of the assembly (church) in Laodicea write: These are the words of the Amen, the trusty and faithful and true Witness, the Origin and Beginning and Author of God’s creation: [Isa_55:4; Pro_8:22]
Rev 3:15 I know your [record of] works and what you are doing; you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were cold or hot!
Rev 3:16 So, because you are lukewarm and neither cold nor hot, I will spew you out of My mouth!
Rev 3:17 For you say, I am rich; I have prospered and grown wealthy, and I am in need of nothing; and you do not realize and understand that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked. [Hos_12:8]
Rev 3:18 Therefore I counsel you to purchase from Me gold refined and tested by fire, that you may be [truly] wealthy, and white clothes to clothe you and to keep the shame of your nudity from being seen, and salve to put on your eyes, that you may see.
Rev 3:19 Those whom I [dearly and tenderly] love, I tell their faults and convict and convince and reprove and chasten [I discipline and instruct them]. So be enthusiastic and in earnest and burning with zeal and repent [changing your mind and attitude]. [Pro_3:12]
Rev 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears and listens to and heeds My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will eat with him, and he [will eat] with Me.
Rev 3:21 He who overcomes (is victorious), I will grant him to sit beside Me on My throne, as I Myself overcame (was victorious) and sat down beside My Father on His throne.
Rev 3:22 He who is able to hear, let him listen to and heed what the [Holy] Spirit says to the assemblies (churches).

An excess of “ha-ha” is often a sign not of depth but of avoidance, and the one who cannot mourn when mourning is required has not yet learned wisdom.

My 2 cents.

J.

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I’m just curious, my brother.

Typically, happiness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. What is your definition? You said, “My perspective, which stands in direct opposition to your definition of ‘happiness’:

Second, even if “happiness is found only in Christ Jesus and is shaped by the cross,” and God sent Him to die on the Cross for us, then could it not be said that God wants us to be happy? Are we just confusing terminology or using semantics?

I think it is pretty clear that happiness is a balance of emotions. which of course is different for everyone. Happiness is generally linked to experiencing more positive feelings than negative ones. It is not about stuff or life conditions; I have met some very happy and generous poor people, and some very miserable rich people. It often depends on what you feel is important.

God tells us not to concentrate on or love this physical world. That we should

“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” Matthew 6:33

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“I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live; also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God’s gift to man.” Ecclesiastes 3:12-13

I know you are not saying that the Word tells us that we should be sorrowful or allow grief to rule over our lives because we await the return of Jesus? This is how some may take what you said.

I do believe when you said,

You were referring to happiness.

I’m not sure if @Pater15 was asking for the difference in secular compared to Biblical happiness when he asked “Does God Want us to be HAPPY?” Rather, God would rather have us feel happiness in general. I could be wrong.

Peter

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I’m not “against” happiness, Peter, but I do believe our emotions should be aligned with what Scripture teaches, not simply with what culture defines as normal today.

The Journey of Our Emotions
As we navigate life, we encounter a wide range of emotions that can sometimes feel overwhelming. We all experience joy, sadness, anger, and anxiety, but how we process these feelings matters greatly. The Bible teaches us how to express our emotions while encouraging us to lean on God’s understanding and support. Each emotion serves as a reminder of our humanity and our need for divine connection. We can reflect on how God wants us to handle our emotions in a manner that leads us to peace and understanding. In moments of distress, we are called to trust in Him, bring our feelings to prayer, and seek comfort from His Word. The journey of our emotions becomes not just about feeling but about growing deeper in our relationship with God while learning to love ourselves and others.

Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18

Philippians 4:6-7
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” – Philippians 4:6-7

Proverbs 12:25
“Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.” – Proverbs 12:25

Matthew 11:28
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” – Matthew 11:28

Psalm 42:11
“Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” – Psalm 42:11

Anger is a natural human emotion, yet it can lead to destructive outcomes if not handled properly. The Bible provides us with guidance on how to respond to anger in a way that honors God and others. We are reminded that it’s okay to feel angry, but we must not let our anger control us or lead us to sin. We can choose to approach situations with humility and patience, showing grace towards others. When we acknowledge our anger and process it through prayer and scripture, we can transform that energy into something constructive, allowing God’s peace to flow through us. With a willingness to forgive and correct our paths, we discover a deeper connection with God and the strength to manage our feelings in a healthy way.

Ephesians 4:26-27
“In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” – Ephesians 4:26-27

James 1:19-20
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” – James 1:19-20

Proverbs 15:1
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1

Colossians 3:8
“But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.” – Colossians 3:8

Proverbs 14:29
“Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.” – Proverbs 14:29

The Power of Joy
Joy is a powerful emotion that enriches our lives and trails behind us as we connect with God and others. The joy derived from our faith is unshakeable, and it brings us peace regardless of our circumstances. In the Bible, we are encouraged to rejoice always and find our delight in the Lord. As we embrace joy, we inspire those around us to seek positivity too. We can also uplift others and encourage joy in our communities, spreading the light of faith. Let us remember that joy can be a choice; it’s about focusing on God’s promises and the goodness around us, even when life gets tough. Through our shared joy, we can glorify God and remind each other of His endless love.

Nehemiah 8:10
“The joy of the Lord is your strength.” – Nehemiah 8:10

Philippians 4:4
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” – Philippians 4:4

Psalm 126:5-6
“Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” – Psalm 126:5-6

Psalm 16:11
“You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.” – Psalm 16:11

John 15:11
“I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” – John 15:11

Finding Peace in Troubling Times
There are moments in life when our emotions may feel turbulent, leaving us searching for peace. Thankfully, where there is chaos, God offers His peace that surpasses all understanding. We should take comfort in knowing that even when we face significant challenges, we have the assurance of His presence. We are encouraged to cast our cares on Him and find solace in prayer. When we remember that God is in control, we can surrender our anxiety and rest in His loving arms. By spending time in His Word and in prayer, we can be reminded of His faithfulness, which calms the storms of our emotions. Together, we will find the peace that can carry us through difficult seasons.

J.

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This is often confusing because most people equate happiness and fun. Fun is usually some consumptive activity that provides a pleasant sensation. However, it is ultimately self oriented and as such unsustainable. This realm is limited by boredom.

Real happiness lies in the surrender of self for another. This can be found in marriage and parenthood. It is impossible to make marriage and parenthood work without selflessness. The biblical definition of love is selflessness;

1Co 13:4 Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
1Co 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
1Co 13:6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
1Co 13:7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

Christians are called to abandon the selfish and destructive inclinations of the flesh in favor of the selfless love found in walking by the Spirit.

2Co 5:15 And that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again.

This is where true happiness lies.

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Thank you @Johann

I think I understand your point now. Have a blessed day.

Peter

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Yup.

“In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” Acts 20:35

It is nearly always about someone else.

“Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.” Hebrews 13:16

Peter

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As for sinful man happiness often means being sinful, in that respect God does not want us to be ‘ happy ‘ ,

but , happiness that follows being o0bedient tro Gods commands, then yes God wants us to be happy.

It all depends on what one means by being ‘ happy ‘ .

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Well said @Who-me

The problem is not whether God “wants us happy,” but whether our definition of happiness is biblical or idolatrous. The modern world equates happiness with indulgence, but Scripture consistently ties it to obedience and covenant faithfulness.

Hebrew: The Psalms open with ŚÖ·Ś©Ö°ŚŚšÖ”Ś™ (’ashrĂȘ)—“Blessed” (Psalm 1:1). This noun comes from the root ŚÖžŚ©Ö·ŚŚš (’āshar), meaning “to go straight, to advance.” It is not about emotional pleasure but about being rightly ordered under God’s law. To be ashrĂȘ is to be aligned with Yahweh’s path, not to chase fleeting delights.

Greek: In the New Testament, Jesus declares ΌαÎșÎŹÏÎčÎżÎč (makarioi)—“Blessed” (Matthew 5:3ff). This adjective derives from ÎŒÎŹÎșαρ (makar), denoting a state of divine favor, not mere human cheerfulness. It is covenantal joy, rooted in God’s kingdom, not in sinful self-indulgence.

Contrast: The Greek verb Ï‡Î±ÎŻÏÏ‰ (chairƍ, “to rejoice”) is used for the joy of salvation (Philippians 4:4), while sinful “pleasure” is denoted by áŒĄÎŽÎżÎœÎź (hēdonē), condemned in James 4:1 as the source of quarrels and destruction. Likewise, Hebrew distinguishes Ś©ÖŽŚ‚ŚžÖ°Ś—ÖžŚ” (simchah, “joy”) a covenantal gladness tied to worship (Deut. 16:14) from ŚąÖžŚ•Ö覟 (’āwƍn, “iniquity”), which brings ruin.

Thus, to say “God wants us happy” without qualification is sloppy theology. God does not sanction áŒĄÎŽÎżÎœÎź or sinful simchah divorced from His commands. He desires makarios blessedness and ashrĂȘ covenantal joy. Anything else is counterfeit.

Scriptural Polemic
Psalm 1:1–2: AshrĂȘ ha’ish—“Blessed is the man
 his delight (chephets) is in the law of the LORD.” Happiness is defined by Torah obedience.

John 15:11: Jesus says, ጔΜα áŒĄ χαρᜰ áœ‘ÎŒáż¶Îœ Ï€Î»Î·ÏÏ‰Îžáż‡- “that your joy may be full.” This is not worldly pleasure but fullness of joy in Christ.

James 4:1–3: áŒĄÎŽÎżÎœáż¶Îœ (hēdonƍn)-“pleasures”-are condemned as the root of conflict.

So let’s be blunt: the sentimental slogan “God wants you happy” is a lie when “happy” means sinful indulgence. God wants you ashrĂȘ, blessed in righteousness, makarios, favored in Christ, simchah, joyful in covenant worship.

Anything else is rebellion dressed up as happiness.

J.

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The question is “does God WANT us to be happy?”

God has created an incredibly numerous array of living things. And to some, He has blessed with emotional spectrum, which manifests as how we “feel” about things. It’s an important aspect of conscious experience. Trees don’t “feel” anything (as far as we know). Dogs do. Watch your “zoomy” dog spend his energy tearing up the house, and we can agree - there’s a happy dog.

I appreciate the common theme of the answers that must first define what happiness is, and then differentiate between good and bad happiness. I don’t at all disagree. But the point is that, whether good or bad, and whether it’s real and lasting or not, it’s still being happy. The bank robber might be pretty happy in his getaway car when he escapes the cops who are chasing him, however short-lived it may be.

We know that “true” happiness is found in Christ. But we also know that there are lots of other pursuits that make people happy, at least some sort of “happiness”.

Can we agree, that if “happiness” is something that everyone wants, and that everyone is capable of striving for, that it is something that God created in us, intentionally, and that He created a desire for happiness in us because He wants us to pursue happiness? Does that make sense?

He gives us an emotional spectrum so that we feel things (good and bad), depending on what’s going on in our specific context at the moment, and what we BELIEVE about what’s happening.

Suppose you get a knock on the door, and the sheriff is there. He asks you to identify yourself, and then starts asking about your 19 year old daughter. Does she have a red truck, do you know where she is, etc. Then he explains, there’s been an accident, and can you come to the coroners office.

This is making me weep, even as I write it! Can you imagine your emotional response? You already believe that the brightest light of your life has been killed in an accident. SO the sheriff carries you down there to the coroner’s office, and guess what?

It wasn’t her. It was somebody else.

Your devastated emotional response wasn’t because your daughter was dead. It was because you BELIEVED she was dead. She was never dead. That’s the truth. But the truth doesn’t matter so much with regard to emotions. Emotions attach to our BELIEFS. What we believe is true.

And so it with happiness. Our happiness depends on what we believe is going on in our context (family, friends, job, God, and so on), as compared to what we believe SHOULD be going on in our context. The things that we are pursuing. How well do we believe our lives line up with the ideal in our minds.

And if our lives don’t at all line up with what we believe is the ideal that we are pursuing, can we agree that we are likely to try to make some changes, so that we can be happier?

Couldn’t we say that God does want us to be happy (He made us that way) because He knows that when we believe the truth, and we take steps to align our lives with the truth, we WILL be happy?

And that’s what He wants for us. To be happy.

Your brother

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While I appreciate the psychological depth of your argument. You’ve hit on some universal truths regarding how our minds process reality. However, I’d like to challenge the conclusion that ‘happiness’ is the ultimate end-goal of God’s design. That OK? Since



your post is a classic example of Subjective Psychology being applied to Theology. You are making a very persuasive case by appealing to universal human emotions. But is this biblical?

Let’s look at your points individually:

On the Bank Robber’s Happiness You’re right, the bank robber feels a rush of relief and ‘happiness.’ But we have to distinguish between subjective emotion and objective reality.

The robber has the feeling of success, but he lacks the reality of peace (Shalom). If we define happiness merely as a neuro-chemical response to getting what we want, then ‘happiness’ is a fickle compass. Using the robber as an example proves that happiness can be triggered by things that are actually destroying us.

On the Desire for Happiness as God’s Design I agree that God created our capacity for desire. However, I would suggest that the desire for happiness is actually a pointer, not a destination. Hunger was created to lead us to food; thirst was created to lead us to water. If we make ‘being happy’ the goal, it’s like trying to eat the feeling of ‘fullness’ rather than eating the bread. God wants us to pursue Him; Joy is the byproduct of that union, but it isn’t the ‘product’ itself.

On the Analogy of the Sheriff and the Daughter Your point about beliefs vs. truth is actually brilliant. You’re right, our emotions react to what we believe is true.

But notice the resolution of your story:

The father’s grief ended because the Truth (the daughter being alive) eventually overrode his Belief (that she was dead). This suggests that the Truth is the most important factor, not the emotion. If God’s goal was just our happiness, He would let us believe ‘happy lies.’ Instead, He often uses the ‘grief’ of conviction to wake us up to the truth.

On Happiness as the ‘Ideal’ You mentioned that happiness depends on how our lives line up with the ‘ideal in our minds.’ This is the crux of the issue, whose ideal are we talking about? If I am pursuing my own ideal of a comfortable, easy life, and my life doesn’t line up, I am unhappy. But often, God’s ‘ideal’ for us involves the ‘fellowship of His sufferings’ (Philippians 3:10). If God’s goal is to make us like Christ, He will often frustrate our ‘ideal’ (our happiness) to achieve His ‘ideal’ (our holiness).

On God’s Ultimate Intent You concluded that God wants us to be happy. I would tweak that slightly: God wants us to be Blessed (Makarios). In the Beatitudes, Jesus describes ‘blessed’ people who are simultaneously ‘mourning’ or ‘persecuted.’ This is a state of well-being that exists even when ‘happiness’ is absent.

If we tell people God’s primary goal is their happiness, they will abandon God the moment life gets painful.

But if we tell them God’s goal is Truth and Holiness, they will find a Joy that survives even the coroner’s office knock you described.

My 2 cents.

J.

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It’s Sunday morning, the first day of a new week, I’m relishing my first cup of black coffee, the mundane cycle of weekly routine is refreshed anew, and then, without warning, somebody asks the question: “Does God want us to be Happy?” It’s like a frightened fox running through a herd of cattle, the normally docile ruminants set a-panic resulting in a mooing melee of madness on the verge of stampede. Maybe I can calm the herd a bit.

I know of nowhere in Scripture that God answers this question explicitly, directly, either positively or negatively, although an implicit answer may be easily surmised. It seems obvious, by the specific good that The Lord provides and the specific evil that He prohibits, God surely want’s his creation to be “happy”; at least “happy” by His own definition. If God wanted us unhappy, or if he didn’t care, I think our bibles would read very differently. His aim is not obscure; the very good and gracious works of God testify plainly of His desire for the happiness of His children; His purpose to bring about their wellbeing. It is said God graciously provides rain for the just and the unjust alike. (only in modern society can rain make one unhappy, BTW)

@Who-me sez


and I think he is correct.

Author, speaker, and life coach Pamela Johnson suggests there are 31 flavors of happiness. I think she must be the daughter of either Baskins, or Robins, or both. She has cleverly monetized her 31-ideas into a “society of happy people”, by which she is milking the discontented, and churning out cash, which I can only assume, ironically makes her happy.

It is commonly accepted that all mankind pursues happiness. Thomas Jefferson admitted as much when he wrote one of mankind’s inalienable rights, among equality, life, and liberty, is “the pursuit of happiness”. Carli N. Conklin, an Associate Professor at the University of Missouri School of Law has written a book, “The Pursuit of Happiness in the Founding Era: An Intellectual History (Studies in Constitutional Democracy)”, but she does not tackle the question Pater15 has posed. In her book she cites the country’s founder’s definition of the pursuit of happiness is an individual’s right to pursue a life lived “in harmony with the law of nature” and “a public duty to govern in accordance with that law”. Even so, the universality of the pursuit of happiness is a given. For one to eschew the pursuit of happiness is usually considered a human defect; a clinical disorder that defines an exception to the rule. To Jefferson, the pursuit of happiness is a universal inalienable right, a right which he says is “self-evident”, and one that has been “endowed by our Creator”. So, clearly, TJ thinks God wants us to be happy, but he also thinks government can provide that right which God Himself has endowed. So, if TJ is right, and God has endowed our right to pursue happiness, it is equally self-evident that mankind often looks for happiness in all the wrong places.

The question arises then, is happiness found only as a prized emotion at the end of a quest, or is happiness dependent on the very quest one undertakes to obtain it. For instance, if one assumes more money is the goal to make one happy, (I don’t, BTW) will the same level of happiness be realized if the money is obtained by unscrupulous means, or by windfall, compared to being obtained through skill, labor, and struggle? If God’s word is believed, the possibility of happiness is largely dependent on how it is obtained. This also testifies that God desires men to be happy, otherwise why would he bother telling us what He knows will make us unhappy?

So, I’m answering @Pater15’s question in the affirmative. To me, it is self-evident.

KP

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Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; but his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper. Psalm 1:1-4 NKJV

To be considered blessed or prosperous in our culture, is to be affluent in wealth, success, or notoriety. In Psalm 1, however, the Hebrew word for blessed is esher, which means internal happiness and contentment. It has nothing to do with worldly achievements, but rather peace and joy that is rooted in God alone.

The promise of blessedness comes for those who find delight in the Word of the Lord, who meditate on it day and night. Of course, we can’t spend every minute reading the Bible, but we can hide the Word in our hearts and carry the Scriptures with us through every season. It’s not about head-knowledge, but rather heart-knowledge, filling our souls with words of life.

For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. Hebrews 4:12

As people everywhere strive to find happiness, we can look to the Scriptures and know what it really means to be happy.

1. Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4

Delighting in God simply means that we spend time with Him through prayer, Bible study, and worship. For in His presence is fulness of joy. (Psalm 16:11) Not only do we find unexplainable joy when communing with God, we are attuned to His good, pleasing, and perfect will. The desires of our hearts align with His purpose, which produces in us the genuine happiness we long for.

2. Therefore with joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation. Isaiah 12:3

There is absolutely no greater joy than that which is found in the salvation of Jesus Christ. Delivered by the blood of the Lamb and set apart for His glory, we are liberated from sin and shame. No amount of the world’s “happy” can outshine that!

Jesus is a life-giving well, offering Living Water, that we might never thirst again. True happiness is found only in the Savior of the world.

3. He who heeds the word wisely will find good, and whoever trusts in the Lord, happy is he. Proverbs 16:20

The old hymn, Trust and Obey, reminds us that there is no other way to be happy, than to put our trust in the Lord and walk in obedience. Unwavering trust leads to peace in every circumstance. Wind or rain, drought or storm, happy is he who trusts in the Lord. (Psalm 40:4)

“Happy” is promised when we plant ourselves firmly on the foundation of God’s Word. Like flourishing trees, planted by streams of water, we will be fruitful and fulfilled, rooted in the best kind of happiness there is.

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@Johann

This is just a fantastic answer. An articulate exposition of the truth, that I believe completely agrees with my concise conclusion:

The robber may think he’s happy, but that’s because he doesn’t know what real happiness is. He is ignorant. But he gets a taste of it. He briefly enjoys an emotional response that is attached to the lies that he believes.

I will add. Church responsibilities!

Your brother

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Now, what is the biblical definition of “happiness” ΌαÎșÎŹÏÎčÎżÏ‚ (makarios) independent of circumstances often used for the gods or for someone whose life was enviable because it was whole, secure, and favored.?

J.

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@wantthetruth Happiness is merely external, fleeting, and is only achievable on earth. Joy, on the other hand, is internal, selfless, sacrificial, and a spiritual connection with God. We need joy in our lives just as we need the Father and Jesus in our lives.

Happiness Is External, Joy Is Internal

One of the very obvious differences between happiness and joy is that happiness tends to be achieved externally, while joy is something achieved internally. For example, we can feel happy when we receive something like a gift or achieve something like awards or honors. These things are external or belong to the surface of our lives. It is not something deeper but, rather, superficial.

Joy, on the other hand, is something deeper. It is something we feel internally in our lives as human beings. For example, when we feel great joy when we worship God the Father and when we feel great joy when we remember our Lord Jesus Christ dying on the cross to save us from sins.

Joy is something to do with our inner nature rather than the outer nature of our human character. John 15:11 says we are reminded by this, “I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”

Happiness Is Bliss, Joy Is Selfless

Another major difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is merely a bliss while joy is something selfless. When you experience something blissful, it means it is ephemeral or something that can end in an instance. Happiness, therefore, is something that can end once it is felt. It does not sustain.

For example, when you feel very happy because someone you like finally said that they like you back. This kind of feeling is fleeting and therefore it’s just happiness.

On the other hand, joy is something more selfless, which means that you have joy when it is not for mere personal gain. When you feel emotion thinking about how Jesus Christ died to save us, then it is joy. When you feel emotion when your loved one finally receives Christ, then that is joy.

When you feel emotion when your loved one is experiencing joy like giving birth, for instance, then that, too, is joy. Joy is not only for yourself but for others. In Hebrews 12:2, we are reminded that “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer, and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Happiness Is Pleasure, Joy Is A Sacrifice

Another difference between joy and happiness is that happiness can be something related to pleasure, while joy is more of a sacrifice. There are many types of pleasures in this world that can make a person happy. For example, pleasures of the flesh as written in Galatians 5:19, “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, and debauchery;”

These are examples of things that can make a person happy due to pleasure, which is not purely good but purely flesh. Paul’s letter to the Galatians emphasizes that we should not mistake these kinds of things that make us happy and, rather, focus on things that give us joy.

Joy is a sacrifice. When you think of others rather than yourself, it means you have joy in your heart. Joy does not only think of pleasure, rather, what is right and moral in the eyes of God.

Happiness Is Achievable on Earth, Joy Is a More Spiritual Connection with God

Another difference between happiness and joy is that happiness is only achievable on earth, while joy is spiritual and only achievable through the love of Christ. In Galatians 5:22, Paul writes, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,”

Therefore, joy is a spiritual fruit that is given to us by the spirit. Joy is not only attained here on earth, but it is also something that we connect with God because it is given to us by the Spirit.

Happiness, on the other hand, is something achievable only here on earth. Worldly things, concepts, and emotions are achieved on earth and it stops there. For example, when you finally learn how to drive a car, it makes you happy. Or you are finally able to bake a chocolate cake. These things are in the world by nature and are achieved on earth, but they are superficial.

Joy is part of our conquest for eternal life because it is given to us by the Father through the Holy Spirit. It is not only on earth but in the heavens above. In John 10:28-29, we are reminded by this, “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all[a]; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.”

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@wantthetruth Happiness Is Not Necessarily Good, Joy Is Purely Good

Another difference between happiness and joy is that happiness can be both good and bad, while joy is only good because it comes from God. For example, we can have happiness like a two-edged or a double-edged sword.

For instance, you got into a car accident because you were drunk after having too much alcohol with someone you truly love. You were so happy while drinking with the person that made you happy, but then it turned out to be bad because you had a car accident. This is merely happiness.

Joy, on the other hand, is purely good. Let us go back to the scenario when you finally meet the love of your life. If you have joy, you will surely be conscious of your actions and not end up drinking too much.

Rather, sacrificing a fleeting bliss by not drinking too much and, instead, enjoy the moment with your loved one. This is joy because it means you thought about the purely good just as Christ thought of us. He promised us eternal life and joy with Him.

Many people tend to have difficulty differentiating happiness from joy. However, it is actually very simple. Happiness is merely external, fleeting, can sometimes only be for pleasure, is only achievable on earth, and can sometimes not necessarily be good.

Joy, on the other hand, is internal, selfless, sacrificial, a spiritual connection with God, and is purely good. We need joy in our lives just as we need the Father and Jesus in our lives. That is why, to be able to attain joy, we must receive Christ, follow Him and His teachings. Sorry for getting off topic but i seen the second post on here and wanted to add this, again i am sorry my friends and family in Christ

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Good question.

Same word as “blessed”, right?

I appreciate everyone’s definitions - honestly, it’s all good stuff. And I suppose it may seem a ridiculous question at this point.

Does God want us to be “happy”? (Or blessed, joyful, secure, complete, sustained, content, etc whatever nuanced definition that you choose for the positive, uplifting feelings we have when in right standing with God and all things are good.)

Is that something that God wants for us? Is that a need that God built into us as humans?

As opposed to an “accidental property”. An accidental property would be one that is emergent as a result of other fundamental properties. A possible example might be “boredom”. Like, God wanted to be sure that get bored some times, so He built that into us as a fundamental, because He knows it’s good that we get bored sometimes, or do we get bored because we have so many positive interesting things we could be doing that would contribute to the kingdom, and here we are wasting time. I don’t have strong feelings either way.

I do have a strong conviction that God built us with a strong desire to be “happy” as a fundamental part of being a human person. So that’s the question.

Your brother