I’ll leave you with this brother, feel free to ask questions.
The statement occurs in…
Matthew 27:46
“Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani? that is to say, My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”
and in
Mark 15:34
Jesus is quoting verbatim from
Psalms 22:1
“My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”
So the first thing to establish is that this is not a random cry. It is a deliberate citation of Psalm 22, a Messianic psalm describing suffering, mockery, pierced hands and feet, and eventual vindication.
Now the theological question: if Jesus is God, why does He address God as “My God”?
The answer requires three doctrinal distinctions.
First, the doctrine of the incarnation.
According to
John 1:1
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
and
John 1:14
“And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us…”Very important you take notice of this @Emre !
The eternal Son, who is fully divine, assumed a true human nature. He did not cease to be God. He added humanity. Therefore, in the incarnation, Jesus possesses two natures: fully divine and fully human.
As man, He prays.
As man, He obeys.
As man, He suffers.
Addressing the Father as “My God” is entirely appropriate to His true humanity.
Second, the doctrine of the Trinity.
The Son is not the Father. Christian orthodoxy teaches one divine essence, three distinct persons. When Jesus speaks to the Father, this is not God speaking to Himself in confusion. It is the eternal Son addressing the Father within the triune relationship.
Throughout the Gospel of John, Jesus repeatedly distinguishes Himself from the Father.
John 17:1
“Father, the hour is come; glorify thy Son…”
Distinct personhood does not negate shared deity.
Third, the atoning context of the cross.
Psalm 22 begins in anguish but ends in vindication and triumph. By quoting the opening line, Jesus invokes the whole psalm. The psalm describes mockery, pierced hands and feet, casting lots for garments, and ultimate deliverance. All are fulfilled in the crucifixion narrative.
On the cross, Christ is bearing sin.
2 Corinthians 5:21
“For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin…”
Galatians 3:13
“Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us…”
The cry of dereliction expresses the judicial experience of covenant curse. It does not mean the Trinity was ontologically divided. The divine nature cannot be separated. Rather, in His human nature, as the sin bearer, Christ experiences the forsakenness that belongs to sinners under judgment.
The Greek of Matthew 27:46 reads
Θεέ μου Θεέ μου ἱνατί με ἐγκατέλιπες
ἐγκατέλιπες is aorist active indicative meaning you abandoned or you forsook. It reflects relational abandonment in the context of suffering, not metaphysical dissolution of deity.
Important also is what happens next. Jesus does not die in despair. He commits His spirit to the Father.
Luke 23:46
“Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit…”
And the resurrection vindicates Him.
Acts 2:24
“Whom God hath raised up, having loosed the pains of death…”
If Jesus were merely a prophet, His cry would simply be tragic. But because He is the incarnate Son, the cry reveals the depth of substitutionary atonement. He stands in the place of sinners, experiencing the covenant curse, and then is vindicated in resurrection.
So the statement “My God, why have you forsaken me?” does not deny His deity. It presupposes:
He is truly human and prays as man.
He is distinct from the Father as Son.
He is bearing sin under covenant judgment.
He fulfills Psalm 22 in both suffering and triumph.
The cross displays the cost of redemption. The resurrection proves that the forsakenness was not final. The Son is not less than God because He cries out. He is the obedient God-Man accomplishing salvation.
Can you read the Quran brother?
J.