Alright, “Satan convinced her.” Close enough.
Here is the bridge between Calvin and Arminius. Determination and freedom. Our freedom is epistemic. We believe what we choose to believe. God’s determination is that we act on what we believe, and we always act in what we believe is our own best interest.
Knowledge of good and evil is essential for any created person to live freely forever in Heaven. Of course there are “what abouts”. There always are. Those can be discussed.
The reason that you, or any of us, do anything is because you believe it’s the best thing that you should do at that moment. You’re convinced of it, as you say.
So when James says “faith without works is dead”, he is saying that works are the unavoidable consequence of what you believe. God made us that way.
Then, He helps us with our beliefs. The Spirit of God brings conviction to our hearts in the instant of our apprehension of the truth. Our part is to choose to welcome the guidance of the Spirit, and choose to believe Him.
Our part is not to then make a list that we have to do to earn His love. The old covenant had 10 commandments, the new covenant has 10,000 “commandments”, but none of those acts are essential for salvation . Each one is a means of grace extending the love we receive to those we love.
Our challenge is to bring every thought captive, apply God’s law of love to it, and decide what we are going to believe about it. Critically important, because our decision about what we believe determines what we do about it.
Eve looked at the fruit, saw it was attractive, believed it would be good for food, and comes with a bonus - makes one wise. She believed all those things. She also knew what God had said. If you eat it, you will die.
Satan offered a competing belief. “You won’t surely die.” And since she was created with epistemic freedom (a very good thing) she was free to choose to believe what she thought would be in her best interest, and act accordingly. She chose to believe the lie, and she sinned.
So, we continue to have all the same challenges to this day. Competing beliefs. Once we’ve made our choices about what we are going to believe (because we believe it’s in our best interest), we get downright indignant if anyone disagrees with us. And that’s fine, as long as we aren’t forgetting our higher calling, our deeper faith, and that is that Christ died for that brother that you are criticizing.
They are going to believe what they choose to believe, just like you do.
So my challenging question is this - what Spirit are you listening to when you decide it’s in your best interest to believe that it’s good to bring railing condemnation against fellow believers? I also have to ask myself the same question. Because as I said in another thread, I’m at times more likely to grab the rod than take up a staff.
I don’t think that Jesus is in the midst of your vitriol. Let your yea be yea. Any more is not good, and certainly not convincing.
EDIT: Our brother @KPuff reminded me of this on another thread:
“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. (1 John 4:7-11)