You still shouldn’t judge all churches based on the experiences of one. I can guarantee that the church I belong to would never treat anyone like that, and I’ve been going there for over 20 years.
It was not based on one but three different churches. The first time my family was severely hurt by a church was 20 years ago. We left that church and found another one. My wife was asked to be the children’s director. She did that for fourteen years and then through gossip and false accusations, the pastor fires her. That pastor eventually repented years later but the damage had been done. We found another church and this time they went after my son. I am done. This was the straw that broke the camel’s back. The American church is too corrupt and I think is too far gone.