…This is why God trreats us like sheep.
And maybe why Jesus was done in 3 or so years…
You can save a sinner. But you can’t fix stupid.
Seriously though, ever heard of the Milgram experiment? It was a social experiment in the 60s where subjects were divided into students and teachers with an overseer ensuring the experiment continued. (Its been outlawed since then btw)
Teachers were testing students, wrong answers received electrical shocks. The electricity was ramped up over time until it was torture, even potentially deadly. Teachers would begin to question whether they should keep shocking the students. And then be ordered to continue by the overseer.
When told to continue, even seeing the results of students writhing in pain and begging for it to stop, and hearing the sound of the electricity with each jolt, most teachers would continue despite voicing reservations.
It was revealed that the students were actors, the sounds were recordings . and the people playing teacher were the ones being tested.
Statistically most people, a high percentage, obey what they are told to do by an authority figure, such as a preacher who tells his flock that science is fake, dinosaurs are a lie, and you are going to hell if you walk away from him, the preacher. This is one reason very intelligent people find themselves in cults. Intelligence does not equal the ability to think for one’s self.
Being self actualized means being able to choose different from what you are told to do by someone in power over you. You have both the ability to question those in charge and make the choice to disobey.
Not to be confused with lawlessness, which is the inability to line up at all to any kind of authority. And doing what you want all the time no matter who it hurts. That is mental illness because it embodies lack of reason and empathy, and yields to a repeating pattern of thinking and behavior that cannot be broken, meaning the person is unable to make a different choice other than the one they have always made. The part of the mind that allows a person to do anything except be contradictory is impaired, creating an unbreakable pattern that cannot be escaped.
Which is tragic in its own right, but much worse when that person has authority over others who cannot think for themselves and disobey.
The repeating pattern of thoughts, phrases, behaviors is what makes a given illness diagnosable. When you can guess very acurately how a person will behave, you have a repeating pattern. The question becomes, is a pattern healthy and life sustaining? or unhealthy like a trauma that leads to bad life chocies and further traumas.
Also for anyone reading who may know or believe they might be struggling with some form of mental illness or trauma, I encourage you to be brave and see a professional. There are treatments, medications, mental exercises, and supoort groups that can help you have a more fulfilling, freer life. These things have been studied for a very long time. You aren’t alone. You can have a better life and don’t need to suffer. The past does not need to define you. It is worth the time and work to heal.