@Johann
Your “desire from the outset .. to have a discussion on free will” is noble. Like you, I am always amazed how quickly a discussion like this can degrade into fleshly debate. I understand the proclivity for contentions to arise; we do know they derive from the flesh (Gal. 5:20); we are taught that:
“the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that we often do not do the things that we wish. "(Gal. 5:17)
I appreciate your grace in allowing me to express my new nature, not in debate, and not as an affiliate of an association, or colleague in a certain college, but by simply being a bondservant to the truth; accepting me as a son of God, brother to the redeemed, growing branch of The Vine, and not as a branded member of a sect.
To address your question directly,
As I absorb The Word of God, there arise many scriptures that all point in the same direction as this one:
And you He made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins, in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, among whom also we all once conducted ourselves in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, just as the others. (Ephesians 2:1-3)
“You He made alive” explains that process initiates with God Himself. “who were dead in trespasses and sins” explains on whom God initiated His work, “on the dead”. Dead men do not “initiate” anything, and dead men do not actually “make godly decisions”, they still “walk according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit of disobedience”. If God were to simply tell these dead souls to “choose life”, their “spirit of disobedience” would surely cause them to disobey and continue to choose death. This is why I say the gift of “free will” God gave to mankind became infected with sin (sinfected), and will subsequently always disobey, will always choose death, will always choose the toxic bag.
But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, that in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk (testify) in them. (Ephesians 2:4-10)
The Mercy of God moved in Godly Grace to implant the gift of faith in His elect allowing them to “choose” righteously. Faith is taking God at His Word, and faith is also a gift. Faith is a gift that allows a dead human to take God at His word, the gift of faith allows each of us to “take up our bed and walk”, to choose life. Grace working through God’s gift of faith opens the door for us to choose righteously. The promise of life behind the door makes that choice a “no-brainer” for a dead person. When given the ability to choose righteously, and then offered the gift of life from the dead, no one turns it down.
I understand this is not the experience many would attest to; many people testify to their wise decision to “give their heart to Jesus”. They “walked the isle” because they weighed the options logically, and then chose to be a disciple of their own free will. They speak of their salvation like “joining a church”. “I decided to join”, “they should be happy to have me”, and “I can leave any time I want”. Once this experience is defined in their mind, they begin to read the scriptures through this lens and accept that being saved is a tenuous condition that can be walked away from like leaving a church because things aren’t going their way. This leads to the entitlement that those who are still in the church should spend their lives trying to entice them to stay. Of course, this example is not universal; there are many scenarios; many trunks off this same corrupt root. I’m not here to speak of those.
To answer your question chronologically, God created mankind as His prized creation, and gave him a free will to walk in willing fellowship with Him. That free will was employed wrongly, infected him with sin, bringing about man’s death which spread to the entire human race. That “sinfection” made choosing righteously impossible due to the destructive spirit of disobedience (rebellion). God saves the human race, a remnant, by raising a testimony of Himself through his prized creation. He does this by giving some persons, persons of His righteous choosing, His precious gift of faith. Faith opens their spiritual eyes, heals their spiritual lameness, casts out their spiritual demons, raises them from spirital death, births them with eternal life from above. This faith compels the person to not only choose life (continuously), but to demonstrate it though obedience (baptisim) and walk in it, even in temporal suffering, as a testimony to the Lifegiver. The walk of faith stands testimonially against the destructive disobedience of dead flesh.
As I said, many scriptures bear this out, (I;m sure you know them all) but I believe my allotted space does not allow further examples.
In Jesus
KP