Brother, I don’t think that assertion is rooted in biblical (God-centered) love, but leans more toward emotional/conditional love if not carefully qualified. Why Job only?
1Co_13:4-7 “Love is patient and kind… it does not insist on its own way… it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
“endures” (ὑπομένει) Love is not governed by changing circumstances (“weather”), but has a steadfast, covenantal quality.
Biblical love (ἀγάπη) is not reactive, but rooted in character and truth.
Joh_13:34 “Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
Christ’s love is the standard, not fluctuating emotion, but self-giving, sacrificial, consistent (cf. Rom_5:8).
Hos_6:4 “Your love is like a morning cloud, like the dew that goes early away.”
This is precisely the problem with emotional love, it is temporary and circumstantial.
On your illustration given (fair-weather vs. suffering):
The comparison to Israel in the wilderness is actually an example of deficient love and faith, not the norm.
Exo_16:2-3 - they grumbled when conditions changed.
Their “love” was tied to provision, not to God Himself.
In contrast:
Job_1:21 “The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.”
This reflects true Godward love and faith-not dependent on outward blessing.
Key issue here, as I see it.
Your assertion rightly observes that many people love only when things are good, but if left there, it risks defining love in experiential terms rather than biblical terms.
So what is being “tested” here?
Jas_1:2-3
“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.”
“trials” πειρασμοῖς (peirasmois) - trials, tests
“testing” δοκίμιον (dokimion) - proving, genuineness
1Pe_1:6-7
“though now for a little while… you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith… may be found to result in praise…”
“trials” πειρασμοῖς (peirasmois)
“tested genuineness” δοκίμιον (dokimion)
Rom_5:3-4
“we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character…”
“character” δοκιμή (dokimē) - proven character
Jas_1:12
“Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life…”
“stood the test” δόκιμος (dokimos) - approved after testing
Heb_12:11
“For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness…”
“discipline” παιδεία (paideia) - training, correction through hardship
Gen_22:1
“After these things God tested Abraham…”
“tested” נִסָּה (nissāh) - to prove, try
Deu_8:2
“that he might humble you, testing you to know what was in your heart…”
“testing” נַסּוֹת (nassōt) - to prove, examine
Psa_66:10
“For you, O God, have tested us; you have tried us as silver is tried.”
“tested” צְרַפְתָּנוּ (ṣeraptānu) - to refine, smelt
“tried” בָּחַן (bāḥan) - to examine, prove
Pro_17:3
“The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and the LORD tests hearts.”
“tests” בֹּחֵן (boḥēn) - examiner, tester
Zec_13:9
“I will put this third into the fire, and refine them as one refines silver…”
“refine” צָרַף (ṣāraph) - to smelt, purify
Mal_3:3
“He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver…”
“refiner” צָרֵף (ṣārēph) - one who refines
Cheers and God bless.
J.