I think you’re coming from a place of love here. However, you must be careful. One of the reasons that many do not like to teach, or accept that Hell is real, is that they do not want to think that there is someone that they have lost there as we speak, being tortured continuously. There has to be another way. What if they never heard?
“For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown [it] to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible [attributes] are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, [even] His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse.” Romans 1:18-20
I do not believe it is a valid argument, one I used to use by the way, to say that people die without ever hearing the truth. Now is it possible? I suppose, and in those rare cases, it is between them and God. However.
“The Lord is not slack concerning [His] promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9
Also here.
"And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come.” Matthew 24:14
God is not some old bearded guy sitting on a throne waiting to send people to hell. However, the time is coming. The devil is real. I know this is not a popular teaching anymore, even in some of our churches, but it is the truth. Here is another. Hell is very real. Why do we not teach or like to think about this? No Devil, then no Hell. No Devil, no Hell, no Sin. No Sin, no reason for a Savior. No judgment for Sin, if there is no Sin. Simply, live as you will.
It always amazes me when someone tells me that they believe in Jesus and a loving God, and yet they do not believe in the devil or Hell. Uh? OK. Then what exactly is Jesus “saving” you from? Makes no sense, right? They do these things and teach these things out of fear. Fear of offending someone. Thinking about lost loved ones. Fear of being labeled this or that. Or simply fear of their own lifestyle.
“We all have our own things to deal with. Live and let live. God loves everyone, and you need to simply stop with the whole Hell and devil thing. One, they do not exist. A loving God would never create anything like that and would never send someone He loves to be tormented forever. Two, God forgives everyone. So just shut up and sit down. Just because someone believes differently from you doesn’t mean they are wrong. So they believe in Mohammad? Or do they believe in Buddha? Or maybe they believe God is an energy that we are all part of, and we become God when we pass on. Who cares? God will accept us all in the end.”
Do you see how easy it is? I just convinced some that there is no need for Jesus, using the Word, and even Jesus Himself. I purposely twisted the meanings of the passages just enough to fit my agenda. This is why it can be so easy, and yet, so hard for some to understand that this is what is happening. They actually WANT to believe it. Why?
Friends and loved ones who have never, and never would, accept Jesus. Oh, Grandma was a Saint on Earth. Grandpa was a great person. But they never had time for all that “Jesus nonsense.” They are dead. Are you telling me they are in Hell?
“My friend, my best friend, Johnny, is a Muslim. He will never accept Jesus. You are telling me that he is condemned to go to Hell? He runs a non-profit. He helps people. He would give the shirt off his back, and you are telling me that just because he does not believe in Jesus, he is condemned?”
The short answer is YES. Sorry. This is the difference between Christianity and any other religion. Jesus IS God. There is no other way to get to God except for God Himself. The Bible is the Word of God, and the very Word of God is Jesus. He is the gate to Heaven. He is the door. He is the key. Without Jesus, you get nothing. You have nothing.
Of course, I believe that the only one who can truly judge one’s heart is God. Since He is God, can He make an exception and “save” someone who has TRULY never heard the Gospel? Of course. However, there is a huge difference between never hearing and rejecting or not believing in what you have heard.
God is a just God. I do not believe that He can judge someone unfairly. Please be careful in trying to believe there are loopholes or get outta Hell free cards other than Jesus.
Peter